Oh my god, Daum.
My boyfriend stood me up last minute,
then hanged out with his friends again for the tenth time this week.
Hmm…Maybe you should break up with him.
Oh my god, Daum.
My boyfriend keeps talking about other girls
and comparing me to them.
Hmm…Maybe you should break up with him.
Oh my god, Daum.
I walked in on two girls
and an old bald man on top of my boyfriend on our four-year anniversary.
It was almost as if there were no signs that foreshadowed this.
You dumb bitch.
A Dmcs Animation
Break ups and why they’re not always a bad thing.
Yeah yeah, I know Valentine’s Day wasn’t too long ago
and many people celebrated their love for one another and their partners.
But I feel like we got to give some attention to the not so healthy relationships.
I’m Abed that a lot of you watching are probably in one.
Yeah, that’s right. I’ll be inducing some breakups.
Oh my god, Daum. That’s so heartless.
Just because you’ve been through some bad breakups.
Doesn’t mean other should too.
So you’re saying that even though they’re in a bad relationship,
we’re either or both of them don’t feel any form of fulfillment or growth with their partner.
They should stay together for the sake of preserving a toxic relationship
and avoiding a breakup.
Just because it’s a sad thing to happen.
Someone actually contacted me one time, he told me that
his girlfriend broke up with him after watching one of my videos.
然后我只是在想 哦 这太不幸了 对不起啊哥们儿
And I just thought, “Oh, that’s pretty unfortunate sorry, dude.”
But if she was so influenced by my stories to reflect upon her own relationship
and make a judgement based on that reflection.
Then either she came to some sort of realization
that you guys probably aren’t compatible.
Or she failed to interpret my content as rhetorical
and jump to a conclusion without properly discussing it with you.
我要说 兄弟这是个可喜的摆脱 你值得更好的
To which I say, good riddance my dude, you deserve better.
I’m sure most of you have a friend or know someone
who’s just honestly in a shit show of a relationship.
I commonly see this problem with my girlfriend’s friends whom are girls.
But guys also get their fair share of the abuse.
I empathize with them and I want to help
because I’ve been in some pretty bad relationships,
but I probably should have broken off sooner.
But since I was too stubborn to let it end early.
I wanted to keep giving second chances that weren’t necessarily deserved.
When my friends talk to me for advice,
I try to see both sides of the story,
even if I don’t have direct access to it.
I may try to give the other party the benefit of the doubt
or try to come up with evidence of their benevolence.
Oh shit! That was fine.
I should write that down.
Because the friend is sometimes so clouded with emotion
that they can’t think rationally.
That sometimes those friends don’t necessarily come to you for actual advice
and they’re so fixated on their point of view on the relationship
that they just need someone to fill their thoughts to.
但是 有一点是 当情况
But there comes a point where the ramps
just get ridiculous and you wonder
why even stay with them,
why is this person worth fighting for,
why not just break up
and the source of your misery.
It seems like such an easy option, right?
But I can understand why it can be so difficult to go through.
I think deep down those friends possibly asking for advice
want to hear that option from a third party.
Why don’t you just break up?
I think they need to hear that question because it’s at that point
that they realize there’s only two options for them to choose from,
stay together or don’t.
When presented with this ultimatum,
they’ll either realize that the good in the relationship over weights the bad
and that we’re obligated to accept the flaws and others and in ourselves
in order to respect each other and find balance.
Or, they realize that their partner is a worthless piece of shit
and is undeserving of their love.
And if you’re wondering what some of those red flags are
that tell you to probably get the hell out,
let me give you a little boost.
They shoot down your self-esteem and
make you seem like you’re not good enough for the world
and assures you that they’re doing you a favor by being with you
and you should be lucky to have them.
Basically, they force you to be dependent on them
but make you feel worthless for doing so.
They are possessive and deny your freedom to see your friends
or talk to people in general,
a lack of trust.
But if their lack of trust is backed up by your history
of being an unfaithful piece of shit,
then okay, you probably deserve it.
They treat you differently between public and private situations,
this applies to social media as well.
They pressure you sexually when you’ve made it clear
that you’re not ready and feel uncomfortable fucking Steve,
they find every reason to argue with you
not to solve an issue
but for the sake of being right and to feel above you.
They dig up the past to use as ammunition in those arguments
when you two have already moved on from those disputes.
They are stubborn and incapable of feeling remorse
even when they are proven to be at fault.
They always aim to victimize themselves
so that you feel sorry for them and excuse their faults.
Their overly protective of their phones
and conversations with other people.
They’re secretive about things they act suspicious
without reassuring you of their loyalty.
Or they’re probably planning you a surprise party.
Their words are inconsistent with their actions.
They support Trump.
They are unsupportive of your dreams
and ambitions and discourage you from pursuing them.
The relationship feels two-one-sided and unbalanced,
one of you is trying much harder than the other.
But, well, not all relationships can achieve a perfect balance.
Surely you can tell when someone is lacking effort.
And the list goes on,
there are dozens of other reasons that I can’t possibly cover.
But if none of these apply to you,
then you’re either in a healthy relationship
or you’re single.
You probably couldn’t relate to this video.
I understand that all relationships are case-by-case
and by no means I’m encouraging anyone to end theirs
because their partner was late for that one dinner
or you find out they don’t like fettuccine Alfredo,
I’m sorry for your loss.
But I’m encouraging anyone who’s currently in a toxic or abusive relationship
to build a determination to escape and relinquish your dependency
on someone who doesn’t treat you with respect.
Someone who doesn’t make you feel special,
because chances are someone else is out there,
waiting for you to give them the opportunity to actually do so.
Final, one thing
is that, anime will always treat me right.
It’s pretty much an emotional rollercoaster with every single one I watch.
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Rest in peace vanish, I’m still softly over that knee to the face.
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