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“情”不知所起,真的好吗?

What is Emotional Intelligence?

情商是一种为人处世的才能
Emotional Intelligence is the quality that enables us to confront with
它使我们在处理自我和他人的情感关系时
patience, insight and imagination, the many problems that we face
做到耐心 富有洞察力和想象力
in our affective relationship with ourselves and with other people.
“情商”这个名词或许听起来有些奇怪
The term emotional intelligence may sound odd.
我们习惯于将人的才智看成综合素质
We’re used to referring to intelligence just as a general quality,
不会拆开来细别其差异
without unpicking a particular variety a person might possess –
因此我们不会有意强调不同才智的价值
and therefore we do not tend to highlight the value of a distinctive sort of intelligence
而这些才智目前并没得到应有的重视
which currently does not enjoy the prestige it should.
其实才智和能力是一一对应的
Every sort of intelligence signals an ability
它能让人在很多领域游刃有余:
to navigate well around a particular set of challenges:
不管是数学领域 还是语言 技术 商业等领域……
mathematical, linguistic, technical, commercial…
我们说别人很聪明时
When we say that someone is clever,
却加了一句:他们的个人生活一团糟
but add that they have made a mess of their personal lives;
或者他们有万贯家产
or that they have acquired a fortune,
却焦躁不安 郁郁寡欢
but are restless and sad;
或者他们手握重权 却心胸狭窄 寡然无趣
or that they are powerful, but intolerant and unimaginative,
以上所说的不足 一言以蔽之:
we are pointing to a deficit in what deserves to be called
情商低
Emotional Intelligence.
社会生活中 我们能感觉到情商无处不在:
In social life, we can feel the presence of Emotional Intelligence
比如对别人的喜怒哀乐很敏感
in a sensitivity to the moods of others,
即使别人一直掩饰得很好
and in a readiness to grasp the surprising things
也能敏捷地捕捉到那些微妙的感情变化
that may be going on for other people beneath the surface.
情商能让人透过现象看本质
Emotional Intelligence recognises a role for interpretation, and knows that,
比如
for example,
激烈爆发可能是寻求帮助的变相表达
a fiery outburst might be a disguised plea for help;
滔滔不绝的激昂政治演说可能是受饥饿驱使
or that a long political rant may be provoked by hunger;
或许灿烂的笑容下面
or that concealed within a forceful jolliness
是刻意掩饰的悲伤
may be a sorrow that has been sentimentally disavowed.
就我们自己而言
In relation to ourselves,
情商表现在对自我情感的怀疑上
Emotional Intelligence shows up in a scepticism around our emotions,
特别是爱情 欲望 愤怒
especially those of love, desire, anger,
嫉妒 焦虑 职业抱负等情感
envy, anxiety and professional ambition.
高情商的人拒绝一味地相信自己的第一冲动
The Emotionally Intelligent refuse to just trust their first impulses,
或者说他们不相信情感本质上是明智的
or the inherent wisdom of their feelings.
他们知道憎恨面具下可能有爱情
They know that hatred may mask love,
愤怒可能是为了掩饰悲伤
that anger may be a cover for sadness,
而面对梦寐以求的东西
and that we are prone to huge and costly inaccuracies
我们很容易犯一些代价无比巨大的错误
around whom we desire and what we really want.
情商能区分出那些被失败打垮的人
Emotional Intelligence is also what distinguishes those who are crushed by failure
和那些懂得如何直面挫折的人
from those who know how to greet the troubles of existence
前者心怀悲戚 后者却能化悲愤为力量
with a melancholy and at points darkly humorous resilience.
情商高的人能得体地处理悲观情绪
The Emotionally Intelligent appreciate the role of well-handled pessimism
他们不会偏离美好生活的轨道
within the overall economy of a good life.
情商不是与生俱来的才能
Emotional Intelligence isn’t an inborn talent.
它是教育的结果
It’s always the result of education,
这种教育尤其体现在:
specifically education in
如何解释自己的行为
how to interpret ourselves,
要知道情之所起
in where our emotions arise from,
要明白童年时期对自己的影响
in how our childhoods influence us,
要懂得如何最好地控制自己的恐惧和欲望
and how we might best navigate our fears and wishes.
在理想情况下
In the ideal society, it would be routine
情商教育应该从小娃娃抓起
to be taught Emotional Intelligence from the youngest age,
这样我们就能避免不必要的错误
before we’ve had the opportunity to make too many mistakes.
直到现在
It is because we have – until now – not taken
我们对情感教育还不够重视
Emotional Education seriously enough,
我们的技术越来越成熟
that our species has grown ever more technically adept
但我们的智慧水平还停留在早期
while retaining the level of wisdom of our earliest days,
这样下去结果将是毁灭性的
with catastrophic results.
现在我们进化成了拿着核武器的猴子
We are now evolved monkeys with nuclear weapons.
很明显文明的命运取决于
It appears that the fate of civilisation depends on
我们对情感教育原理的把握能力
our capacity to master the mechanisms of Emotional Education
目前还为时未晚
before it is too late.
情感教育的含义远非如今人们构想
Emotional Education means something far beyond just normal education
的普通教育那么简单
as we have conceived of it to date.
尽管理念上情感教育应该包括学年课程
Though it should ideally include courses in every year of school or college,
但它可不止这些
Emotional Education is more than something
情感教育的地点不限于教室
that should take place in classrooms,
并非由老师完成
at the hands of teachers,
也不会在21岁左右就被叫停
and come to a halt around the age of twenty-one.
情商转移的主要媒介是文化
The central vehicle for the transfer of Emotional Intelligence is culture,
它让你从孤芳自赏到获得大家的喜爱
from its highest to its most popular level.
文化是后天习得的
Culture is the field that can ritualise,
它能不断促进情商水平的提升
and consistently promote the absorption of emotional intelligence.
情感教育可能存在于悲剧中
The lessons might be embedded in a tragedy,
电视剧中 流行歌曲中 小说中
or a TV series, a pop song or a novel,
建筑作品中 YouTube视频中……
a work of architecture or a YouTube film.
我们可以将整个文化设想为精巧的机械装置
We can envisage the entire apparatus of culture as a subtle mechanism
它的使命就是指引我们收获更高的情商
designed to point us towards greater emotional intelligence.
作为一个物种 我们不会进步
We will never progress as a species,
而会被日新月异的科技反向威胁
and will indeed grow into ever greater technologically-armed menaces to ourselves,
除非我们接受机遇与挑战
until we have accepted the challenges and opportunities
正确地培养自己的情商
of properly educating ourselves in Emotional Intelligence.
科技能力当然很了不起
Our Technical Intelligence is great of course.
它指导我们驾驭自然 征服世界
It’s led us to tame nature and conquer this planet.
但是人类是否理智取决于
But a wiser, saner future for the human race must depend on a capacity to master
他们是否精通情商的基本原理 并且能够在为时不晚时
and then seductively teach one another the rudiments of Emotional Intelligence –
引导他人学会意这一原则
while there is still time.
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每一种情感都是有来源的,情商高的人不仅能体察别人的喜怒哀乐,更能明辨自己的情感来源。

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