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不健康的父子关系

Unhealthy Father Sons Relationships

6 Types of Unhealthy Father-Son Relationships.
六种不健康的父子关系
In romantic-comedy drama film,”Garden State”.
在爱情喜剧电影《情迷新泽西》中
Main character,”Andrew” returns to his hometown to attend his mothers funeral.
主角安德鲁回到家乡 参加母亲的葬礼
Andrew’s father, a psychiatrist, blamed Andrew for his mothers’ death.
他的父亲是一名精神病专家 他觉得妻子的死亡都要怪安德鲁
And put him on medications, to try and control his emotions.
之后 他让男主吃药 尝试控制安德鲁的情绪
Believing it was Andrew’s anger that triggered his mothers’ accident.
他觉得就是儿子的坏脾气 让妻子发生意外
People often say,”Sons grow up to be as great as their fathers.”
人们常说 儿子长大后要和父亲一样伟大
But what about those of us who grew up without a dad?
但是那些成长过程中没有父亲陪伴
Or had a tough upbringing from them?
或者即使有父亲 但成长经历艰难的人 该怎么办呢
We want to inform the public just how important it is to understand
我们就想让这个社会知道 有害的家庭氛围
how toxic family dynamics can affect the individual state of being.
对一个人的性格有怎样的影响 这非常重要
Here are six types of unhealthy father-son relationships.
下面会列举六种不健康的父子关系
1.The absent father.
第一种∶隐形父亲
A special shout-out goes to”Coffee Drop”,
这里要特别提到一位叫Coffee Drop的网友
who mentioned the Absent Father in our recent video:
他(她)在我们最近的一个视频中有提到隐形父亲
“6 Types of unhealthy Father-Daughter Relationships”
如果你还没看过“六种不健康的父女关系”那期视频
If you haven’t already, please check it out after this.
可在结束后寻找观看
The Absent Father was never around when you needed him.
隐形父亲是指在你需要父亲的时候 他永远不在
CEO and co-founder of Psych2Go,”Tai Kwong”, can strongly relate to this.
Psych2Go的公司总裁兼创始人“太光”的父亲就是这种类型
His father left Tai and his family when he was little.
在他很小的时候 父亲就离开了他和那个家
Tai’s father is a business man, who is constantly sucked into his work.
他的父亲是一位生意人 经常沉迷于工作
There’s nothing wrong with being passionate about your career.
虽说热衷于赚钱没什么不对
But his father has an unhealthy obsession with making money.
但是他的父亲对赚钱病态的执着
As a result, he lost sight on finding a purpose from his work,
让他忘记了工作的意义
causing him to spiral down a dark, empty hole.
卷入到了钱的无尽深渊
Tai was never emotionally and physically nurtured by his father.
父亲从来没有在生理上和心理上培育过太光
This abandonment can be detrimental
随着孩子成长 这种抛弃
to the sons’ emotional and physical development over time.
对他的身心发展都造成了伤害
Tai learned what not to become from his absent father.
他知道了不要成为像父亲那样的人
And is passionate about growing Psych2Go into a bigger platform.
并为了让人们关注心理健康
Hoping to raise mental health awareness
帮助那些和他有相似经历的人
and help others who’ve been through similar struggles as him.
他一腔热血地让Psych2Go走向更大的平台
2.The Addict Father
第二种∶患瘾父亲
The Addict Father is someone who struggles with some sort of addiction.
患瘾父亲是指那些沉迷于不良嗜好的人
Whether it’s alcoholism, gambling, drug abuse, or pornography.
不管是酗酒 赌博 吸毒或者看黄片
Unfortunately, Tai also relates to this one.
不幸的是 太光的父亲也是这种类型
Due to his fathers’ unhappiness and competitive nature
由于父亲对钱求而不得的痛苦和争强好斗的个性
in being money-hungry, he struggles with alcoholism.
他有了酗酒这个嗜好
If you haven’t already, please check out our video later.
如果你还没有看过“酗酒父亲影响孩子的七种方式”
“7 Ways Alcoholic Parents Affect Their Children”
那期视频 可在稍后找寻观看
Sons with an addict father have a fear being of vulnerable,
父亲患瘾会让孩子害怕暴露脆弱
because of their emotional instability their fathers instilled within their lives.
因为在他们生活中 父亲的潜移默化 让他们有了这种情感障碍
They are often scared to open up to others
他们很害怕向别人袒露心声
afraid of being let down, hurt, and rejected.
害怕被别人看不起 伤害和拒绝
This can strongly affect their ability to form close,
这又会很大程度地影响他们与人交往的能力
intimate friendships and relationships with romantic partners.
包括与他人形成亲密的朋友关系和情侣关系
3.The Harsh Father
第三种:严厉的父亲
This type of father is overly-strict and tough on his son,
这种类型的父亲对他们的儿子过于严厉和严格
with frequent, angry outburts.
还经常打骂孩子
The family, often, does not feel safe
在他面前犯错或者露出自己缺点
making mistakes and showing their flaws around them
对家人来说是不安全的事情
The harsh father could be highly religious and expects everyone
这种父亲可能是那种非常虔诚的人 他希望家里的每个人
in the household to follow his rules and regulations.
都能遵守他制定的规章制度
Sons who grow up with this type of father
被这样的父亲抚养长大的儿子
usually feel like their upbringing was more constricting than life-giving.
常觉得接受这样的教育比活着还要痛苦
Often, the harsh father guilt trips his son.
这种严厉的父亲经常会让儿子感到内疚
Blaming him for not being good enough,
只会责怪他不够优秀
rather than teaching him how to how to get better at something.
而不是教他怎样做得更好
This type of father is usually moody, unpredictable,
这种父亲很情绪化 难以猜测
and feared by his son.
让孩子很害怕
4.The Performing Father
第四种:表演型父亲
The performing father is someone who often immerses himself
表演型父亲是指那些经常
in his work or hobbies.
沉溺于工作或爱好的父亲
He doesn’t enjoy sitting down with his kids and spending quality time with them.
他不喜欢陪伴孩子 也不愿在孩子身上花时间
Instead, he always feels like he has to keep busy and has a hard time relaxing.
相反 他常觉得自己手边一定要有很多事情 很难放松下来
The performing father is obsessed with performing well
这种父亲沉迷于自己很优秀的假象
and always pushes himself to get better.
这种假象又会助推他变得更好
goal-orientated, he focused on results, successes, and achievements.
他有自己的目的 专注于结果 成功和成就
In the workplace, he usually has a great reputation.
在工作的地方 他有很好的名声
And many of his co-workers find him responsible, reliable, and level-headed.
很多同事都会觉得他工作负责 让人信赖 头脑冷静
At home, however, sons of the performing father feel neglected
但在家 他的儿子会觉得父亲忽略了他
and rarely ever get their own needs met.
父亲很少能满足自己的需求
As a result, they miss out learning important life skills.
结果 孩子没能学习到重要的生活技能
And may struggle with low self-esteem issues.
可能会让他们感到自卑
Feeling like they can’t meet the high standards of their own father.
他们觉得自己达不到父亲的高标准
5.The Passive Father
第五种:被动型父亲
Similar to the Performing Father,
和表演型父亲类似
the Passive Father also has a great work-ethic in the workplace.
被动型父亲在工作时有高度的职业道德
But instead of being busy at home too,
但在家却很懒
the Passive Father leads a very uneventful life after he clocks out from work.
下班回家后 这类父亲的生活会变得极其平淡
Emotionally unavailable.
无法向家人敞开心扉
He leaves all the work and chores up to the mom
他把所有工作和家务活丢给母亲
including picking up the kids from school
包括接孩子放学
and spending quality time with them.
和陪伴他们
This father, although he’s still physically present in the family
这种父亲即使肉体还在这个家
he’s often emotionally distant
情感上却与家人隔着很远
and doesn’t interact much with his son.
他也不与儿子沟通
I grew up with a Passive Father and even to this day,
我的父亲就是这样的
it’s hard for me to bond with him.
即使到了今天 我也很难与他交流
6.The Abusive Father
第六种:虐待型父亲
The Abusive Father forms intense emotional and physical wounds in the household.
这类父亲会给家人带来身心上的创伤
He often mistreats his son through physical, verbal, emotional,
他经常打骂 侮辱 伤害孩子的感情
and/or sexual abuse.
有些还会性侵孩子
This can take a massive toll on the sons emotional and physical development.
这会重大创伤孩子的身心发展
And can deeply hurt his self-esteem.
还会深深的伤害他们的自尊
Often, sons of Abusive Fathers can grow up
他们的孩子
either being abusive themselves or victims of abusive romantic relationships.
经常会自虐 或者常常是家暴中那个受害人
Which type of unhealthy father-son relationship do you resonate with?
哪种不健康的父子关系能够引起你的共鸣
We know how hard it is to talk about toxic family dynamics
我们知道讨论病态的家庭氛围很难
and want be a safe, non-judgmental place for you.
我们希望在这里 你能感到安全 也不会别人指指点点
Please share your story with us down below.
请在这条视频下方留言分享你的故事
We also want to remind you that
我们也想让你知道
you are worth so much more than the mistreatment
比起你在童年经历过的那些伤害
you experienced in your childhood.
你值得更多好的东西
Toxic patterns are hard to break out of, but with enough heart, self-awareness,
我们很难打破这种有害的模式 但只要你足够用心 懂得自我认知
and courage they can be conquered.
并且有足够的勇气 你可以战胜它们
Please don’t forget to also subscribe for more content
想要获取更多Psych2Go的内容 不要忘了订阅
from Psych2Go and check out our Patreon.
并且查看我们的众筹
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介绍了6种病态的父子关系 并且介绍了他们给儿子带来的伤害

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