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This is why some people always succeed - You Must See This - Motivational Video

努力是进入任何领域都要付出的代价
Working hard is the cost of entry to anything
你知道从来没有人成功
you know zero people that are successful
是不通过任何努力的
that don’t work their face off
从来没有过
you know zero people
现在有些人可能有钱
Now they may have money
因为他们的父母有钱 并且把钱给了他们
because mommy and daddy made money and gave it to them
但那些真正建立属于自己成功的人
but people that actually built their own success
你知道没有任何一个成功的人
you know zero people
不是投入了多到令人厌烦的工作量
that have success that did not put in obnoxious amount of work
我相信一切皆有可能
I believe anything is possible right
我在一个充满可能性的世界中
I live in the world of possibility
而且我也相信任何事情都可以
and I also believe that anything we can accomplish anything
靠双手完成
with our two hands
用我们的双手付诸行动
and just putting in the work with our two hands
你可能经常听到这句话 但这的的确确是真的
and also you hear this often but it’s really really true
你要找到你喜欢做的事情
you gonna find something if you love what you do and
对自己正在做的事充满热情
find and be passion about what you’re doing
找到你所热爱的事
find something you can be passion about
真的很有用
like it really helps, you know,
它给你早上起床的动力
it gives you that motivation when you wake up in the morning.
我的职业理念和创作欲望
My work ethic and my desire to create
老实说 来自于热情
comes from honestly passion
我一直有一个目标
I always have a goal
我也一直有一个梦想
and I always have a dream so whether it’s you know
不管是创作一首单曲
creating a song that’s going to be a single
或是一张我最骄傲的专辑
or it’s going to be an album that I’m most proud of
或者专辑中一个很高的高音
or a really high note on my album
我希望有一天可以唱出来
that I really want to be able to sing
或者格莱美 或被提名的那天
or a Grammy one day or anomination one day
不管是什么 (如果做到了)就太棒了
I don’t care. It will be awesome.
我一直对此富有激情
I always have passion behind it
所以不管付出什么代价 我都会努力
so whatever it takes I’m gonna work hard
并且继续追寻我的梦想
and just continue to follow my dreams
因为我热爱它
because I have the passion behind it.
那我是如何找到我的激情呢
So how do I find my passion
我的简单模版是达摩模版
my simple model which is the Dharma model
达摩在吠陀梵语中
It also dharma means eternal duty
意思是永远的责任
in the Vedic tradition
所以很像池贝君(Ikegai)今天讲的
So it’s very similar to what Ikegai has been spoken about today
也就是日语版本的 存在的理由
which is the Japanese version of reason for being
我们为什么活着
why do we live
意义从何处来
where is meaning coming from
它提及了四个方面的交点
And it talks about an intersect of four areas
我擅长什么 我喜欢什么
What am I good at, what do I love,
世界需要什么
what is the world need
还有如何从中获得报酬
and how do I get paid for it
我觉得 这四点能帮你找到你的激情
To me, those four help you unlock your passion
当你找到了这四个问题的交点
when you find the intersect across all of those four
你会让你激情成为你的指引罗盘
you’re making your passion your compass
发现你的热情
you’ll unlock your passion
并且找到人生的目的
and you’ll find your purpose
有两条路 这是第一条
this is path one, there’s two paths
第一条路 我找到我的技能
path one I find my skill set
用它去帮助别人
and I engage it to help other people
同时精进我的技能
and become better at it
所以我把我擅长的事物变得更好
so I’m becoming better what I’m good at
然后以此去帮助他人
and I’m using it to help other people
因为我知道自己擅长什么
because I’m aware of what I’m quite good at
我有哪方面的知识 哪方面的技术
and I know what knowledge I have, what skills I have
我有一定程度的自我认知
I have some self-awareness
另一条人们常常会忽略的路是
The other path that people often miss is
实际上就直接开始为他人服务
actually I just start serving people
我直接开始帮助人们
I just start helping people
并且我开始注意到 我享受的是什么
and I start to notice what I enjoy about that
我擅长帮助他人的是什么
and what I’m good at helping people with
所以这也是甘地的路径 他说
so that’s Gandhi’s path Gandhi said that
当你沉浸于为他人服务中时 才能找回自我
you find yourself when you lose yourself in the service of others,
所以 以上就是如何找到我的激情
so for me those are the two paths of how do I find my passion
并且找到那四个领域的交汇点的两条路径
and finding the intersect between those four areas
人们说 你必须投入大量的激情在你在做的事情上
People say you have to have a lot of passion for what you’re doing
这完全正确
and it’s totally true and the reason is
因为如果你没有激情的话就太难了
because it’s so hard
任何一个理智的人都会放弃
that if you don’t, any rational person would give up
这真的很难
It’s really hard
你要在所做的事情上持续很长时间
and you have to do it over a sustained period of time
所以如果你不热爱的话
so if you don’t love it
如果你在做的时候感到无趣的话
if you’re not having fun doing it
你不是真的爱它 你就会放弃
you don’t really love it. You’re gonna give up.
其实这就是发生在大多数人身上的事
And that’s what happens to most people actually
如果你真的去考量那些“大众眼中的”成功人士
if you really look at the ones that ended up being successful
以及那些没有成功的人
“in the eyes of society” and the ones that didn’t
通常情况下 那些成功的人 热爱他们所做的
oftentimes it’s the ones that are successful loved what they did
所以当情况变得困难的时候 他们依然能够坚持
so they can persevere when it got really tough
但那些不热爱自己所做的人 就放弃了 因为他们是正常人 不是吗?
And the ones didn’t love it quit because they’re sane right?
如果不热爱的话 谁会忍受那些艰难
who would want to put up with this stuff if you don’t love it
所以(成功)它是大量艰苦的工作
So it’s a lot of hard work
以及是大量持续的忧虑
and it’s a lot of worrying constantly
假如你不热爱
and if you don’t love it
你注定会失败
you’re gonna fail
所以你要热爱它 你要有激情
so you got to love it, you got to have passion
我的三个E原则是 元素(Element) 环境(Environment)和能量(Energy)
My three E’s are element, environment and energy
每个人都有一个成功的元素
Everyone has an element that they thrive in
如果你将一个人成功的元素拿走
if you take someone out of it their element
他们就会变得不一样
they won’t be the same
一个当代的例子 比如迈克尔·乔丹
A modern-day example will be Michael Jordan.
他在打篮球方面非常出色
He was incredible at basketball
你让他远离篮球 投入棒球
you took him out of basketball put him into baseball
没有人能记得他的成就
no one remembers his career
我们正在谈论的可是一个史上
we’re talking about one of the
最好的运动员
best athletes of all time,
你的环境是指你周围的一切
Your environment is the environment around you
你可以让一条鱼离开水
you can take a fish out of water
然后给它华屋豪车和世上所有的金钱
and give it a beautiful mansion and a Bentley and all the money in the world
但它会死去
but it will die
就像我们的环境之于我们自己
and that’s what we are like our environment
每个人都生活在自己能够茁壮成长的环境里
everyone is in an environment in which they thrive,
这个环境也需要我们精心去雕琢
which we have to craft
如果你在上班 你的老板绝对不会问你
your boss if you’re at work is never gonna
嘿 你能在什么样的环境中取得成功?
ask hey what environment do you succeed in?
对吗?这样的事从来不会发生
Right? Like that never happens,
所以我们要创造一个环境 一个我们能够茁壮成长的环境
so we have to create an environment where we thrive
最后讲到能量
and then finally it’s energy,
有些人喜欢高能环境 高压力
some of us love high energy environments, high pressure
有些人能够在低能环境 低压力 中取得成功
some of us succeed in lower energy environments and low pressure,
搞清楚你能取得最佳表现的能量和频率
figuring out your energy and the frequency on which you operate best
这同样将帮助你茁壮成长
will help you thrive as well
所以对我来说
so for me
以上就是真正能创造一个让你兴旺发达环境所需的3个E
those are the three E’s to really create a thriving environment,
了解你的元素 了解你的环境
know your element know your environment
以及了解你的能量
and know your energy
一直以来 假如我看到有什么出问题了
And so at all times if I see anything going wrong
我就会检查是否是我的元素偏离了
I’m going is my element out of alignment
是不是我的环境出岔子了
is my environment out of alignment
还是我的能量不济了
or is my energy out of alignment
这是一个很棒的三题测试
that’s a great three-question test
每当你感到事情不太对时
you can do to yourself
你就可以问自己这三个问题
when you don’t think things are going right
你必须要做的就是再次一一校准
And all you have to do is bring that backinto alignment.
杰(Jay) 我失恋了
Jay my relationship’s falling apart
我总是被问及这个问题
I get asked that all the time
答案很难说
so the answer to that is much harder
很难总结概述
it’s harder to summarize it
但我总是从自我实现的角度开始回答
but I always start with self-actualization
问题就是我们对自己想要的事物
that the problem is we have a list
有个清单
for the one that we want
却不知道
and we don’t have a list
我们需要成为什么样的人
for what we need to become
我的意思不是说变得吸引人
and I don’t mean become to attract
我意思是说变成你现有的样子
I mean become to just be
去了解你自己
to just get to understand yourself
你要了解自己是谁
you don’t know what you need in your life
才能知道你在生命中需要什么
until you figure out who you are and so
我发现太多的人匆匆步入恋情
I find too many people rush into relationships
却没有真正意识到
without really recognizing and being fully aware
他们在恋情中真正需要的是什么
of what they need from a relationship
所以这一切都回到 你有多清醒
so it all comes back to how aware are you
你对自己了解多少
how much understanding do you have of yourself
你对你所需要的了解多少
and what you need
和你所想要的了解多少
and what you want
这就是我对于感情的最好的建议的简易回答
that’s my best advice for relationship in like a minute
通常会被问到的第三个问题是
and then the third question I mostly get asked is
杰 你读什么书 你最喜欢的书籍是什么
Jay what do you read like what are your favorite books
因为你看上去读了很多书
because it seems you read a lot
你最爱的三本书是什么
what are your top three books
它们并不是开创性的那种书
They’re not groundbreaking in the sense
人们可能不会觉得
that people may not be like
哦天呐这是我读过的最棒的书!
oh my God that’s the best book I’ve ever read!
但对我来说 它们改变了我的人生
For me they changed my life
所以这就是我选出这三本书的原因
so that’s where I’m coming at a point from
我很喜欢西蒙·西内克的 《从“为什么”开始》
I love by Simon Sinek
并不是因为我把它应用到生意中
and not because I applied it to businesses
而是因为我把它应用到我的生活中
because I applied it to my life
甚至今天 我依然不时地反思我的“为什么”
and even today I’m constantly refining my why
这就是我每天的所做
that’s all I do everyday
我早上必修的工作和练习就是
my deepest morning routine and practice
去反思 我为什么要做我现在所做的事
is to refine why I do what I do
现在为了钱而做是很容易的
it’s so easy for me to now do it for money
现在为了粉丝们而做是很容易的
it’s so easy for me to now do it for followers
现在为了名声而做是很容易的
it’s so easy for me to now do it for fame
每天我必须反思这些
and every day I have to refine that
因为我知道作为一个出家人
because I know having lived as a monk
还有我的那些练习
and what I practiced and
假如那些成为了我想要的
if those become what I want
我就会忘记我需要成为谁
then I’ll forget who I need to be
所以我每天的练习 每天的功课
So my daily practice my daily routine is
是反思我的目的
refining my intention
用现代的话说就是为什么
which in modern language is why
所以西蒙的书帮我做到了这些
so for me Simon’s book helped me do that.
我认为对每个人来说 最重要的是
First and foremost whatwhat I think everybody should do
甚至我现在在说的是
and even I’m saying this
给出我的建议
actually I’m giving myself advice right now
我先在这个采访中跑个题
I’m just getting meta and stepping away from this interview,
你需要做那些
you need to do things that
让你有些不舒服的事
make you a little uncomfortable
太多人从来没有尝试就下了决定
Way too many people have made decisions without ever trying,
对吗?所以真正的警句是
Right? So the punchline is this
关于这个主题我现在要说的是
Look. Here’s what I’ll say on this little genres
因为正好谈到这里了
as we’re jamming on it.
我们只有这一次生命
You have one life
在我身上发生的最棒的事之一就是
one of the great things that happened to me
我成长的过程中拜访了许多老人
growing up was there was a lot of grandparents that I visited
在我的街区有很多小孩子
and there is a lot of kids in my neighborhood
因为某些莫名的原因
and for some unknown reason
可能是我有一个‘老灵魂’还是什么
I don’t know if I’m an ‘old soul’ or what it is
我过去经常去跟老人坐在一起
I used to on the playground go and sit with old people
并且和他们聊天
and just talk to them
让我告诉你一件关于八,九十岁的老人的事
and let me tell you one thing about old people 80,90
一件让年幼的我印象深刻
the one thing that is stuck with me as a child
并且时至今日还回响的事
and sits with me today
就是他们常常后悔
is they regret
后悔是一件能把我吓出翔的事 埃尔维斯
Regret scares the crap out of me Elvis
你现在有任何后悔的事吗?
Do you have any regret right now?
没有 但我四十岁了
No, but I’m also forty
我觉得我可以做成很多事了
so I feel like I can get a lot of things done,
我觉得我面前还有很多事情要做
I feel like a lot of things are still in front of me
但是当你到八十岁 九十岁时
but when you get to 80 and 90
你啥也做不了的时候
and you can’t do everything
而且你知道你没多少时间了
and you know that you don’t have as much time
我在他们眼中看到的一件事是
with the one thing I see in so many of their eyes
我希望我能
is I wish I
世上只有一个你
There’s only one you. Okay?
因为没有人能和你一样
Because there’s no one like you
我不是说多余的 肤浅的部分
I don’t mean the superfluous, superficial parts
我所讲的是你的核心
I’m talking about the core of you
你的内心的样子
who you are inside,
你的价值 你的信仰 你的缺陷
your values your beliefs your flaws
一旦真正理解那是一个怎样的人
and once you understand who really that person is
你会踏出你的第一步 去找寻独一无二的你
you would have taken the first step in finding your unique self
而那就是你最好的样子
and that is the best version of you.
我究竟是谁?
Who am I really?
我们经常不允许自己
Most often we don’t allow ourselves the ability
超越想象力的去制定梦想
to dream beyond our imagination
我们不允许我们去思考未来
we don’t allow ourselves to think about the future
因为我们害怕改变
because we are afraid of change
我们害怕离开我们的熟悉的事物
we are afraid to move away from what is familiar
要不然就是
either that or sometimes you know
我们太死板以至于限制了梦想的进化
we are too rigid to let our dreams evolve
放松下来 通通甩掉
loosen up, shake it off a little bit
生命中唯一不变的事就是改变
Change is the only constant thing in life
而且你绝不会太老
and you are never too old
或经验太丰富以至于不能学习新的东西
or never too experienced to learn something new
相信自己已经万事俱备
believe that you have everything alreadyin your will
你有能力实现自己的梦想
to be able to be and achieve your dreams.
活得更无畏 我知道我曾经想成为一名航空工程师
Be fearless. I know I wanted to become an aeronautical engineer
而我现在是什么呢?我成为了一名演员
What am i today? I’m an actor,
一个歌手 一个作家
I’m a singer, I’m an author
一个制作人 一个艺术家
I’m a producer, I’m an artist
我如何从成为一名工程师走到今天的呢
How did I go from becoming an engineer to all of these things
原因是我做出选择
I made choices
那些我为了自己做出的选择
the choices that I wanted for myself
这是我的第二条法则
so that is my rule number two
让你的梦想起飞 给它们插上翅膀
Let your dreams fly, give them wings,
活得无畏 成为你想成为的人
be who you want to be just by being fearless
机会
Now opportunities.
是另一个关于活得无畏的重要部分
That’s another important part of being fearless,
它们是有趣的事
they are very funny things, these opportunities
这些机会并不经常来 它们离我们很远而且很少
they don’t come very often they come far and few in between
但是当它们到来时
but when they do
我们能否认出它们
do we recognize them
我们的职责是认出它们
Our job is to recognize them
并且充分利用它们
and make the most of them
我回首看我做过的所有的事
I look back on all the things that I’ve done
我对于那些来到我的生涯里的机会感到惊讶
and I marvel at the opportunities that came my way,
印度小姐 世界小姐
Miss India, Miss World,
当我在巴雷利的军事学校时
when I was in Bareilly in army school
我第一部电影的邀约
my first film offer,
我的第一首单曲 我制作的第一部电影
my first music single, the first film I actually produced
从来都没有一个计划
There was never a plan ever
更像是宇宙指引我走向这些机遇
More like the universe sort of guiding me towards these opportunities
而我只需要
all I had to do
认出它们并且确保
was recognize them and make sure
全力付出
I worked so hard
充分把握利用这些机会
that I squeezed every drop out of these opportunities
女士们先生们 这就是所谓的动力
This ladies and gentlemen is called drive
这就是所谓的抱负 所以不论你的生活如何
it’s called ambition so no matter where you are in life
法则三是
Rule number three is
你从来没有完全充分探索新的机会
you have never arrived enough to explore new opportunities
并且活得有抱负并没有错
And there’s nothing wrong with being ambitious
你需要找到你所热爱的事物
You will need to find your passion,
你们中的很多人已经找到了,很多人之后将会找到
many of you have already done it many of you will later
很多人可能要到30多岁40多岁时找到
many of you may take till your thirties or forties
但不要放弃寻找
but don’t give up on finding it
因为(如果放弃了)你所做的只是等待死亡来临
alright because then all you’re doingis waiting for the reaper
找到你所热爱的事物并追寻它
Find your passion and follow it
如果在我生命中有学到任何东西
and if there is anything I have learned in my life
(那就是)你不会从物质中找到你所热爱的
you will not find that passion in things
你也不能从金钱中找到你所热爱的
and you will not find that passion in money,
因为拥有越来越多的物质或金钱时
because the more things and the more money you have
你就会把这些
the more you will just look around
当成衡量周围的人标准
and use that as the metric
而且总会有人比你拥有更多
and there will always be someone with more
所以你所热爱的必须是
So your passion must come from the things
能够从内心深处为你提供能量的事
that fuel you from the inside
荣誉和奖励是好事
And honors and awards are nice things
但只限于
but only to the extent that they regard
来自于同辈的真正的尊重
the real respect from your peers
能够被那些德高望重的前辈
And to be thought well of by other people
所称赞
that you think even more highly of
才是我所认同的至高无上的荣誉
is a tremendous honor that I’ve beengranted
找到你所热爱的事物 从我的经验来看
Find your passion and in my experience
不论你做什么工作
no matter what you do at work
你的正职是什么
or what you do in official settings
你所热爱的事应当建立在人的基础上
that passion will be grounded in people
应当基于你与他人的关系上
and it will be grounded in the relationships you have with people
基于当你离开人世时
and what they think of you
人们对你的评价
when your time comes
如果你能获得身边的人的认可
And if you can gain the respect of those around you
找到你所热爱的事 还有真爱
and the passion and true love
我之前说过
and I’ve said this before
我等到39岁才结婚
but I waited till 39 to get married
因为我要找到一个人
because I had to wait that long to find someone
一个她的幸福比我的还要重要的人
where her happiness was more important than mine
撇开其他一切 我希望你们所有人
and if nothing else I hope that all of you
在生命中都能找到那样的激情
can find that kind of passion
和那样的爱
and that kind of love in your life.
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为什么有些人总能获得成功,无论出身,无论天赋。成功的要素到底是什么?这个视频会告诉你答案

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