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每个女孩需要知道的事

Things Every Girl Should Know || Anna Akana

If I could send a video to my 16-year-old self
如果我可以给16岁的自己寄一个视频
I would send her so much wisdom.
我会告诉她很多人生道理
First of all, put yourself first.
首先 把自己放在第一位
16-year-old Anna, I know it’s hard
16岁的Anna 我知道这会很难
because you’re such a romantic but god damn it, romance yourself!
因为你生性浪漫 但是去他的 学着让自己浪漫!
Because otherwise,
因为不这样的话
you’re asking another human being to give you all the validation
你是在要求另一个人给你做所有决定
and love that you need to function,
并替你去爱
and not only is that an unreasonable expectation for him,
这不仅对他期望过高
but that’s codependent relationship for you for the next decade.
而且会导致你接下来十年都要依附于他人
Codependent relationship after codependent relationship.
这是一段相互折磨又过度依赖的关系
So let’s not learn that the hard way.
所以不要用那种痛苦的方式
Time travel, go!
我们继续!
Two,I always struggled with hair.
第二 我总是摆弄我的头发
Because I was like, my hair is flat and limp,
因为我想让头发又直又软
and I hold it against my face ,and I look like a nun,
头发贴在脸上 看起来像个修女
What the fuck!
去他的吧!
What you do, is you take three to four sections
你做的那些事 就是拽着你三四绺头发
or maybe like two to three,
或者是两三绺头发
you tease them, spray them,
梳理后喷上发胶
you take the sides, you tease, you spray,
拽着另一边头发梳理 喷发胶
you comb it all over,
你把头发梳的到处都是
and then you curl.
然后你开始卷发
And it looks divine.
这看起来可真神圣
Three, stop putting down other girls.
第三 不要贬低其他女孩
Stop hating other girls.
不要讨厌其他女孩
Stop feeling threatened and insecure and jealous
不要感觉受到威胁 没有安全感 还心生嫉妒
because that’s just getting in the way
因为那只能妨碍你
of you knowing a really awesome human being.
去了解一个真正的好人
You know, no one can ever be you. No one is you.
你要知道 没人能成为你 也没有人是你
So there’s really no sense in feeling any kind of competition.
所以你感觉有任何竞争都是没有意义的
I would rather go up to a girl, and be like,
我宁愿走向一个女孩 就像这样
“Oh my god! I fucking love you! All of this!
“我天啊!我爱死你了!你的一切!
I don’t know you, but I love this!”
我不认识你 但我喜欢你!”
Rather than being like
而不是像这样
Because really? THIS?
“真的吗?这样?”
What the fuck is”THIS?”
“这他妈的是什么?”
“THIS?” is not getting to know another person.
“这样?”并不能去了解一个人
“THIS?” is”I’m missing out on all those glorious girlfriend dates
“这样?”使我错过了所有美好的闺蜜聚会
where we would go to dinner and have cocktails
我们本可以一起共度晚餐 喝鸡尾酒
and connect and have fun
彼此交流 享受快乐
and I would have a lifelong friendship
我本将和真正关心我的人
with someone who truly cares about me.”
拥有一段终生的友谊
So 16-year-old Anna, get your shit together!
所以16岁的Anna 处理好你的人际关系!
And love other girls, because they’re awesome!
并且关爱其他女孩 因为她们真的很好!
Four, go after what you want.
第四 追求你想要的
Don’t be afraid.
不要害怕
No one else is gonna..pursue your career for you.
没有人会为你的职业打拼
No one else is gonna maintain those relationships or those friendships,
没有谁会维持这种关系 或者友谊
or ask that guy out for you.
或者是帮你约人出去
Who cares? Be bold!
谁在乎呢?自信一点!
You don’t wanna be on your deathbed, like”#regrets”
你不会想躺在临终的床上后悔
You wanna be on your deathbed like,
你肯定想在临终的床上说
“Yeah! I did everything I wanted to do
“耶!我做过了我想做的一切
and if I couldn’t do it, at least I tried.”
即使我没成功 但至少我努力过了”
Finally, make decisions out of love.
最后 用爱来做决定
This is something that I’m trying to focus on now in therapy,
这就是我在治疗中要重点说的事
and if you’re not in therapy, you should be in therapy,
并且如果你拒绝了 你就应该被治疗
because we all gotta work our shit,
因为我们都得生活
but,I spent a lot of my life making decisions out of fear
但是我浪费了很多时间在害怕做决定上
and it wasn’t good for me,
并且这对我不好
and it wasn’t good for the people in my life,
对我生命中的人们也不好
so now that’s something that I really wan na do.
所以现在我很想做一些事
I wan na make decisions
我想要做个决定
that are best for everyone that I care about,
做一个有利于我在意的每个人的决定
myself included.
包括我在内
Be happy. Go travel.
一定要开心 去旅行吧
See the world. Say”yes” to people.
看看这世界 对人们说“我可以”
Meet friends. Make sure you work out.
和朋友们见面 确保工作顺利
Drink water. Take vitamins.
要喝水 吃点维生素
Respect your body. Respect your mind.
尊重你的身体 尊重你的思想
Adopt all the animals you can reasonably love and take care of.
领养所有你能合理关爱和照顾的动物
Don’t be so hard on yourself, and stay awesome, Gotham.
不要对自己过于严苛 好好表现吧Gotham
Subtitles by Skylar Coland via Amara
字幕经由Amara来自Skylar Coland

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