Hey, this is Leo for Actualized.org.
And we are gonna talk about in this video ” the Law of Attraction”.
All right, this could be a quick self-help segment
on the law of attraction
We’re gonna cover what the law of attraction is,
how it works
the profound effect it can have on your life,
some of the common mistakes that people use in applying it
and really how you could use law of attraction very practicaly,
to get some amazing results in your life,
create the kind of success, the kind of fulfillment that you want.
Alright, so let’s go into this.
So law of attraction is a very deep topic
but we’re just gonna skin the surface,
but it’ll still be very useful for you.
Just in the next 15 minutes you’re gonna get a lot.
So law of attraction, what is it?
Basically, it’s a fancy term, for the following thing.
Law of attraction the way that I just find it very simply is
that instead of focusing on the things
that you do not want to happen in your life,
you shift your focus and you think about
the things that you do want to have happen in your life.
So what’s an example of this?
Well, let’s come up with an example.
Let’s say that you are starting a business.
And you’re starting a new business,
and it is the first time you’ve started a business
so it’s something new that you are going into.
And now, when you’re starting it off,
you naturally have some fears.
You naturally wonder whether you’re gonna
be able to launch this business.
You naturally wonder whether
you’re gonna be able to pay the bills.
Maybe you wonder about
whether you should hire some employees or not,
you have some reservations about that,
you don’t know if you can pay them.
And you just wonder if the whole thing is even a good idea
and maybe you’re gonna risk losing a lot.
Maybe you’re gonna lose and you’re gonna invest some money
and you’re gonna lose that.
And you’ve got all this reservations.
And so as you’re building this business
and you are going about your day to day
actually implementing it, creating it,
what’s gonna happen is that your mind is gonna shift.
And it’s gonna focus on all these problems.
It’s gonna focus on the fact that
well this business simply could fail.
And so you are gonna be thinking
about how do I make this business not fail?
Why don’t I go and get another client?
Maybe that’ll help me not fail.
Maybe I should go do this thing over here.
that would help me not fail.
And you’re always thinking about how your business could potentially fail.
And you are trying to preempt or take some sort of action against that.
And basically what you are doing is you’re planning against catastrophe.
That’s what you are doing in that situation.
That is what 99% of us do in our lives.
Maybe not in such a dramatic clear-cut way as with starting a business
cause not everyone starts a business,
and even the people that do don’t do it that often.
So that’s a very pointed example.
But in small ways, this is happening throughout your life, right?
You are focusing, for example,
on the things you don’t like your boyfriend or girlfriend doing in your relationship.
Maybe you don’t like something very small.
You don’t like the fact that
they today pick their teeth at the dinner table,
or you don’t like the fact that
they put their feet up on the dinner table,
or just something very small like that.
And you’re always focusing on it you’re saying
And you konw why does he keep doing that?
why does he keep picking his teeth on the dinner table
why does he keep putting his feet up?
And you’re thinking about that,
and you’re focusing on, again
the thing that you do not like in you life.
So this is happening everywhere in your life.
And most people are going through life
and they’re focusing on the things they don’t like.
I don’t like the traffic jams that I am going into
while I am driving down to work.
I don’t like how much money I’m getting paid at work.
I don’t like the relationship that I am in or some aspects of it.
I don’t like some aspects of my health.
I don’t like the fact that I might have a bad hip.
I don’t like the fact that
I have a toothache that’s bothering me.
I don’t like the fact that I’m overstressed with appointments,
and I’ve got too much on my schedule right now.
I don’t like the fact that I can’t take a vacation
for another seven months when I need one right now.
So all these issues, right?
And more. you’ve got all these coming up.
But the problem is, this is what the law of attraction states,
it’s the things that you focus on,
the things that you put your attention to
and the things that you end up attracting more of into your life.
This is deep. This is actually much deeper
than it seems on the surface.
Because what’s literally happening is that
you are focusing on these problems
and you are creating an emotional vibration within you.
Your thoughts are then soaked in the negativity of the situation,
on the challenge, on the difficulty,
on the fear, on the problem.
And then you take on that vibration,
and basically it rubs off on you.
And when you are in that kind of state of mind,
well, it tends to attract those things to you.
And it creates a self-fulfilling prophecy effect.
And this is not some New Age concept,
this is not some ‘woo-woo’ idea,
that literally your thought is somehow pulling something negative towards you.
Although that is literally the effect.
But it’s not through some weird metaphysics, this’s just happening
not through magic, this is happening
because your thoughts generate the action that you take in your life.
And so you are not gonna go out there and take resourceful action.
You might not take any action at all,
when your thoughts are soaking in all this negativity
and focusing on all the problems.
Cause what’s that doing is making you anxious.
It’s making you insecure,
it’s making you fearful.
And when you act from that position, your actions are feeble.
They are many times self-fulfilling and catastrophic.
A lot of times you’ll worry about something so much
that you actually take the action that will lead to that thing becoming true.
It’s a very freaky phenomenon in nature
and a very freaky phenomenon in human psychology.
This is actually the case.
So what’s the solution?
Well the solution is to adopt
what the law of attraction wants you to do.
And the law of attraction states that
since you are attracting negtive things with negtive thoughts
you can attract positive things with posotive thoughts.
So instead of worrying about your money situation,
what you do is you think about the awesome money situation
that you’re gonna create for yourself.
Or instead of worrying about the little problem area in your relationship,
you focus on the larger relationship,
you focus on how great that is.
Or, if you want to eliminate that problem,
what you should focus on is not eliminating the problem,
you focus on creating something, right?
It’s about focusing shifting your focus on the creation.
What do you want to create in your relationship? How about that?
Why don’t you ask yourself that question?
Really what this is…is a positive side of worry.
Worry is about thinking and projecting into the future all the bad stuff that might happen.
And it’s about putting ‘what if’ scenarios into your mind.
Well, what if I get fired?
What if I get abandoned?
What if I fail at this business?
What if I get, I make a speech
and I embarrasse myself, make a fool of myself?
What if I walk into a party with my fly down
and people are staring at me?
You know ‘what if’, these are like worst case scenarioes.
Well, here’s one for you.
What if instead of worrying about things in the negative,
you started worrying about things in the positive?
how would that look?
Well, what if I go and in my job
I actually get a promotion next year.
What if I start making more money
because I’m providing more value?
What if I start doing better at school because I’m actually studying?
What if I work on my relationship
and my relationship becomes really amazing?
Better than most relationships out there and I really flip it around?
What if I go into this party
and instead of having my fly down, I walking there
and I’m the coolest guy there and everyone wants to be my friend,
and I make a bunch of cool friends and connections, right?
It’s a positive side of worry.
It’s about projecting positive images.
You know this is very unnatural for us to do.
And this is why 99% of us are not obeying law of attraction,
because we’re always worrying about stuffs, it’s unnatural for a human brain.
what you’ve got to do is recondition yourself, rewire yourself
by making, by putting your consciousness and awareness
and putting it on these problem areas in your life.
And say, ‘Ok, I’ve worried about this stuff long enough.
It’s about time that maybe I should try this law of attraction deal.
And see if it’s gonna really pan out the way people say it is.
And when you do try it,
and you have to try it with faith and confidence and consistency.
What you’re gonna find is that it really works.
And the reason that it works again,
is not through some metaphysical mumbo-jumbo,
simply because you become confident.
You have faith in your actions,
you are not insecure anymore.
You are excited about what you are doing
because you have these positive visions of what you want to create.
Basicly what you are doing is you start to impose your reality
on the world, rather than the world’s reality mesmerizing you.
And when that happens, you start to feel really good.
And you’re able to go out there
and you’re actually able to work on your goals,
you’re able to take action on your goals.
You are not procrastinating anymore.
And so through that whole process,
your thoughts shape your actions and your actions attract,
attract whatever it is you want in your life.
And that’s basically the law of attraction.
Think about the things that you want,
not the things that you don’t want.
Now, as simple as that sounds,
you are not gonna do it.
It’s just really hard to recondition yourself.
You have to be very persistent with it.
But if you do, if you undertake this initiative,
and you say, ‘you know what?
I think there is something to this law of attraction.
And I think it’s about time that I try something new.
Because I am frustrated with the lack of results I’ve been getting.’
And you really buy into it.
And you really give it a good go.
Give it a good go for a month or two.
Or you just causally focus on the things
you want to create in your life.
And you are not focusing at all on the things
you are worrying about or that you typically would worry about.
You’re gonna find that you’re gonna feel very good.
You’re gonna start to be in a good mood.
You’re gonna start to be more cheerful and happy.
And you’re gonna get the sense of confidence.
And you get the sense that,
‘I own my life, I am in controll of my life.
I can actually direct my life.
Because I am creating some positive vision
and I am gonna going out there taking action towards it.
And that action seems somehow smoother, seems somehow more effortless
than it was before.’
And you’ll feel good about yourself.
And you just start to notice
that it’s almost like magic. Things start to click.
And you start to see that this is
why some books or some authors or just poplular culture will say
that law of attraction is this metaphysical thing
where it’s like literally your thoughts are attracting things into your life.
That’s almost what it’s like,
because if you take the action component out of it,
that’s actually what it becomes.
It’s that if the quality of your thoughts improved,
then the quality of the things
you have in your life will also improve.
But what some people do is to discount the intermediary there, which is the action.
Because your actions are created by your thoughts, right?
Your actions don’t just happen spontaneously.
And there’re two sides to it.
There’s, I mean, two aspects.
There’s the conscious thoughts that you have and the subconscious thoughts.
And really where law of attraction is really really powerful at,
is working on your subconscious.
Because once your subconscious are starting resonate
with that feeling of confidence, that pride that you have,
that sense that everything’s OK in the world,
that calmness, that happiness you have, that joy.
When you start creating from that,
your subconscious doesn’t resist anymore.
You don’t have those fears holding you back.
You’re out there, you’re taking bolder action.
And you are fulfilling it, you are not quitting.
你不在挣扎 这不再是难啃的骨头 你乐在其中
You are not struggling as much, it’s not as much the a grind, it’s more pleasant.
And when that’s happening,
how could you not attract the things that you want?
This works for everything.
This will work for relationships.
This will work for businesses.
This will work for your health.
Well, literally anything that you want in your life
you can attract by simply focusing on the fact you want it,
rather than the fact that you don’t have it.
All right, so this is a quick little summary of law of attraction.
This is a much deeper topic.
There’s a lot more nuances to this.
It takes more than one exposure to this idea
to really understand it on a profound level
and have it work in your life.
So I’ll cover that in more videos.
But here I am gonna sign off. Go ahead and leave your comments.
I’d like to hear what you think about law of attraction.
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