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没有说同意就是拒绝

Tea Consent

如果你还不明白什么“获得同意”
If you’re still struggling with consent,
那就先别急着发生性关系
just imagine instead of initiating sex
想象你正在给对方泡一杯茶
you’re making them a cup of tea.
你问到“你想来杯茶么?”
You say “hey, would you like a cup of tea?”
对方说“天啊!当然了!我当然愿意!谢谢!”
and they go “ oh my god, I would LOVE a cup of tea! Thank you!”
这时候你就知道了对方是同意的
then you know they want a cup of tea.
如果你问“你想要喝一杯茶吗?”
If you say “hey, would you like a cup of tea?”
对方说“嗯 我不确定……”
and they’re like “ um I’m not really sure… ”
那么你可以给对方沏茶 或者就不沏茶了
then you can make them a cup of tea or not
但是你要知道 就算你沏了茶 对方也不一定会喝
but be aware that they might not drink it,
如果对方不喝
and if they don’t drink it
接下来的一点就很重要
then and this is the important part
不要强迫对方喝
don’t make them drink it.
你沏了茶
Just because you made it
并不意味着你有权利让对方喝掉它
doesn’t mean you are entitled to watch them drink it
如果对方说“不了 谢谢”
And If they say “ No thank you”
那就别给对方沏茶
then don’t make them tea.
别沏
At all.
不要给对方沏茶
Just don’t make them tea,
不要强迫对方喝茶
don’t make them drink tea,
不要因为对方不想喝而生气
don’t get annoyed at them for not wanting tea.
对方就是不想喝茶 好吗?
They just don’t want tea, ok?
对方可能说“好的 你太好了”
They might say“Yes please, that’s kind of you ”
但是当茶准备好了之后
and then when the tea arrives
对方已经根本不想喝了
they actually don’t want the tea at all
这一点确实会让人有些恼火
that’s kind of annoying
这一点确实会让人有些恼火
as you’ve gone to all the effort of making the tea
即便如此 对方仍然可以选择不喝
but they remain under no obligation to drink the tea
对方刚才想喝 但是现在不想了
They did want tea, now they don’t
在你烧水
some people change their mind
对方改主意了
in the time it takes to boil that kettle,brew the tea and add milk.
对方可以改变主意 你仍然没有权利强迫对方喝
And it’s ok for people to change their mind
你仍然没有权利强迫对方喝
and you are still not entitled to watch them drink it
如果对方处于无意识状态 不要给对方准备茶
And If they are unconscious, don’t make them tea
无意识的人是不会想喝茶的
Unconscious people don’t want tea
也无法回答说要还是不要
and can’t answer the question “ do you want tea”
因为对方没有意识
because they’re are unconscious
好吧 可能在你问的时候 对方是清醒的
ok, maybe they were conscious when you asked them if they wanted tea
然后对方同意你沏茶
and they said yes,
但是在你烧完水 沏好茶 加完牛奶后
but in the time it took you to boil that kettle,brew the tea and add the milk
发现对方晕过去了
they are now unconscious
这时候 你应该放下茶
You should just put the tea down
确认对方是否安全
make sure the unconscious person is safe
接下来的一点也是很重要的
and this is the important part again
不要强迫对方喝茶
don’t make them drink the tea.
确实 对方当时说了愿意
They said yes then,sure
但是无意识的人是不会想喝茶的
but unconscious people don’t want tea
如果对方愿意喝茶 开始喝茶
If someone said yes to tea, started drinking it
但是在没喝完之前就晕过去了
and then passed out before they’d finished it,
不要给对方强灌下去
don’t keep on pouring it down their throat.
把茶拿走 确认对方的安全
Take the tea away and make sure they are safe
因为无意识的人是不会想喝茶的
Because unconscious people don’t want tea
相信我
Trust me on this.
如果上周六有人到你家喝过茶
if someone said yes to tea around your house last Saturday
那不意味着对方一直想喝你沏的茶
that doesn’t mean that they want you to make them tea all the time.
对方不希望有人突然来到自己家
They don’t want you to come around unexpectedly
给自己沏茶 强迫自己喝茶
and make them tea and force them to drink it
还说“你上周同意了”
going “ BUT YOU WANTED TEA LAST WEEK ”,
对方也不希望醒来时 有人正在强迫自己喝茶
or to wake up to find you pouring tea down their throat
还说“你昨天晚上同意了”
going “BUT YOU WANTEDTEA LAST NIGHT”.
如果你能理解
If you can understand
在别人不愿意的时候强迫对方喝茶有多么荒唐
how completely ludicrous it is to force people to have tea when they don’t want tea
也能理解 别人什么时候不想喝茶
and you are able to understand when people don’t want tea
把茶换成发生性关系 就有这么难理解么?
then how hard is it to understand it when it comes to sex?
不论是喝茶还是性行为 一定要取得对方同意
Whether it’s tea or sex, Consent Is Everything.
说到这
And on that note,
我要去给自己沏一杯茶了
I am going to make myself a cup of tea.

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