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别再说我爱你了

STOP Saying "I Love You"

不要随便说“我爱你”
Stop saying, I love you.
说真的 这是当今世界被误用的最多的一句话
Seriously, it’s the most misused phrase on earth.
把这句话说出口是一件很美好的事
It’s a nice thing to say to someone
但是 你是认真的吗?
but tell me, do you mean it?
很多人说这句话是因为这句话很有用
A lot of people say it cause it’s convenient
但是 你是真心爱着那个人吗?
but tell me, do you really mean it?
一个记者曾采访一对老夫妻
A reporter asked an elderly couple
你们是怎么经营这长达六十五年的婚姻的呢?
“How did you manage to stay together for 65 years”
她的回答使我大吃一惊
The woman’s reply blew me away.
她说:“在我们生活的那个年代
She said we were born in a time when
当东西坏了时 我们会选择修好它
if something was broken we would fix it,
而不是扔掉它”
Not just throw it away.
她的话让我停下来思考了一会儿
Hearing her words made me pause for a second,
不 不止是一会儿
No, no,more than just a second
因为它让我明白现在大部分人说的“爱”
cause it made me realize that what most people call love today
根本就不是“爱” 而是“喜欢”
isn’t love at all, it’s possession.
老实说
And not to be a cynic
我们这个时代的大部分人都不懂这个区别
But I feel most people when our generation just don’t know the difference.
所以 如果你也感到疑惑
So if you’re confused
就不要再说“我爱你”了
then stop saying I love you.
甚至什么也别说
Don’t even fix your lips to make the sound
你想知道“爱”和“喜欢”的区别吗?
You want to know the difference between love and possession?
那就让我慢慢告诉你吧
well stay tuned as I break it down
与大家认为的不一样 真爱不是盲目的
Contrary to popular belief, true love is not blind
它是可以被预见的
it has 20/20 vision.
恋爱关系也不是勉强凑合 而是双方都全身心付出
And a loving relationship is not 50/50 either. It’s 100/100
是一个完整的承诺
A total commitment.
这不是权衡利弊的交易
It’s not a trade or a balancing act.
你整颗心都将悬在它身上
it’s all chips on the table your whole heart in that step.
不要掉进陷阱
Do not fall into the trappings.
爱一个人 你会想让对方快乐
Love says I want you to be happy
喜欢一个人 你却只想从对方身上得到快乐
possession says I want you to make me happy.
因为“喜欢”和“爱”是完全不一样的
Cause, cause possession is actually the opposite
它的另一个名字叫“占有”
of love it’s other name is addiction.
爱情也有化名 它们是理解 是承诺
Love has an alias too that goes by understanding and commitment.
“喜欢”是只想着自己 而“爱”是考虑双方
See while possession says,”Me,” love says”We.”
“喜欢”是牢笼 而“爱”却是海洋
Possession is a cage, love is the sea.
“喜欢”是控制 而“爱”却意味着自由
Possession wants to control love wants to free.
喜欢是让对方成为自己想要的样子
possession wants to become
而“爱”却是让对方做他自己
love wants to be
“喜欢”总是列举自己付出多少
Possession keeps receipts to remember his good deeds
但是“爱”从不计较
love does not keep score.
而是默默在背后支持与付出
But remembers we are on the same team.
“喜欢”让心变得冰冷坚硬
Possession hardens the heart
“爱”却让它变得柔软
love softens it.
“喜欢”是摘下一朵花 不管它是否会枯萎
possession picks a flower out of the ground
而“爱”却是悉心浇灌让它成长
but love waters it.
“喜欢”是隐秘的 “爱”很脆弱但却开诚布公
possession wants to hide love is vulnerable and exposed.
“喜欢”只注重外在 而“爱”却是关乎灵魂的
Possession sees the body, Love, Sees the soul.
“喜欢”注重过程 “喜欢”却只想在乎结果
Love trust the process possession controls the direction.
“喜欢”是想吵赢每一次架
possession wants to win the argument ,
而“爱”却注重于维护关系
love desires to win connection.
“喜欢”是黑暗的 而“爱”是光明的
Possession is filled with darkness love with sunlight.
“喜欢”是只争错对 而“爱”却重于解决问题
Possession says who’s right love says what’s right.
“爱”不是手心出汗或者心砰砰乱跳
love is not sweaty palms or a pounding heart
不 它更是一种细水长流的探索旅程
no, it’s more of a calm explosion.
“喜欢”会让它的造访者受到伤害
possession destroys those who touch it.
“爱”却让拥有它的人得到治愈
Love heals all who hold it.
“喜欢”是徒有其表的
Possession is counterfeit.
“爱”才是唯一的真理
Love is the only truth.
“喜欢”稍纵即逝 “爱”却因全身心的投入得以永恒
possession fades away love is foreverbecause it is absolute
但是 没有什么是完美的 就算是爱也需要精心培养
but look, nothing is perfect,even love needs to be fed
需要日常相处中的体谅和理解
A daily dose of forgiveness, understanding
而不仅仅是说空话
not just those empty words said
所以 你是否愿意坚持一直去追寻真爱
So are you willing to persevere through tough times
即便此时你正处于困境之中
and choose love every single day.
你是否愿意去维护爱中的所有裂痕
Are you willing to fix things that are broken.
而不是轻易地选择放弃
Not just throw them away.
如果你愿意 我相信你会拥有持续一生的爱情
If you said yes, I promise your love will last a lifetime
你的每一天都会是美好而崭新的
and every day will feel brand new.
答应我
just do me one favor,
请尊重“爱”这个字
Please respect the word love
只对那些你真正爱的人说 “我爱你”
and say it only to those you truly do.

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你真的知道喜欢和爱的区别吗? 喜欢一朵花,你会摘下它;而爱一朵花,你会精心呵护它。

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