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她是个拜金女吗?不是!

Stop Gold Digger Shaming! - School Of Affluence

What is a gold-digger?
什么是拜金女?
And why do people use this word so much?
为什么人们经常用这个词?
I feel like this has become the new word,
我觉得拜金女已经成为了一个人们用来
popularly used by both men and women
代替以往的婊子 荡妇 娼妓等词的新词
instead of calling someone a bitch a slut a whore whatever
无论男女都流行这样用
people like to use the word gold-digger.
人们喜欢用拜金女这个词
They like to shame woman and tell her off basically.
他们喜欢让女人感到羞愧 并斥责她们
Well,let’s figure it all out.
那么 让我们把一切都弄清楚吧
Why are people doing this? My name is Anna
为什么人们要这样做?我是安娜
and I run an online finishing school called SCHOOL OF AFFLUENCE.
管理一所叫富裕学校在线女子精修学校
It’s a program for
这个栏目针对
women who want to improve themselves to become high caliber women, elegant women,
想要提升自己成为高素质的 优雅的
and the woman who navigates successfully in high society.
并想要成功跻身上层社会的女性
If you want to join us
如果你想要加入我们
just visit SCHOOLOFAFFLUENCE.COM
请访问SCHOOLOFAFFLUENCE.COM
So what is a gold-digger?
那么什么是拜金女呢?
Let’s find it out.
让我们一起看看吧
Okay.I have made some few notes here
这里我做了一些笔记
I had to Google this, of course,
当然 我得去谷歌搜索
to give you the exact definition.
然后给你们一个准确的定义
Because you know what?
因为你知道吗
I’ve noticed that people have their own definition of gold-digger.
我发现人人都有他们自己 对拜金女的理解
Some people think that”just because you have
一些人认为就因为你有一个有钱的朋友
rich friends” = you’re a gold digger!
所以你是一个拜金女
Other people think that”just because
还有些人认为
you don’t want to pay the bill as a woman
作为女人 当你和男人在饭店约会吃饭时
in a restaurant when you’re on a date with a man
不想结账
you’re a gold digger!
你就是拜金女
I think both is absolutely crazy
我觉得这两种看法都太疯狂了
But the whole point that I’m trying to make is that,
总而言之 我想说的是
people have so many different variations
人们对拜金女这一词
and perceptions of the word gold digger,
有诸多不尽相同的看法
so let’s just quickly find out what it actually means.
所以我们快点弄清楚它到底是什么意思
Gold digger: A woman who forms
拜金女:女人单纯为从男人身上获取钱或礼物
relationships with men purely to obtain money or gifts from them.
而与男人交往
Okay,so as I understand it
那么 在我看来
it’s only if you want to have some material gain from them.
这强调如果你“仅仅”想从他们身上获得物质利益
Another one, someone who only likes people
另一个定义 把 “仅仅”因为男人有很多钱
because of how much money they have
或者有很多物质财富
or because of the items they own.
就喜欢上他们的女人 称作拜金女
Again,we have this word ONLY.
我们又看到了“仅仅”这个词
So as I understand after googling around,
所以在搜索了一圈后 我理解了
it seems that according to dictionaries and so on
似乎词典里或者其他地方
the word gold digger stands for
拜金女一词指的是
when women are ONLY interested in the
这些仅仅对从他人身上获取物质财富
material or the monetary gain of somebody.
感兴趣的女人
I can understand the negative associations with the word gold digger.
我能理解和拜金女这个词有关的消极联想
If it’s all about using and abusing somebody,
如果它全关于利用和侮辱某人
I do not believe in that myself.
我是不认可的
I don’t think that we should use and abuse anyone,
我认为我们不应该利用和侮辱任何人
as much as men use and abuse women for sex
像是男人为了性而利用和侮辱女人
I don’t think women should only use and abuse men for money.
而女人也不应该只为钱而利用和侮辱男人
However,how come in our society
可是为什么男人把女人视为性对象
it’s SO accepted for man to treat women as sex objects,
在社会上是可以被广泛接受的?
YET – it’s so incredibly taboo and forbidden
而一个女人对男人的经济有兴趣
for a woman to somehow have a financial interest in the man.
却是一种令人难以置信的禁忌
SHE can not have financial interest in a man,
她不能对男人有经济上的兴趣
but a MAN can have sexual interest in a woman.
但是男人可以对女人有性趣
And why I’m mentioning these things? That is because
我为什么要提到这些?
genetically speaking, men and women are wired differently research has proven.
因为从基因上讲 研究已证明男人和女人的思维不同
Biologically speaking, we were designed this way
从生物学角度来说 我们被设计成这样
for the survival of the offspring.
是为了子孙后代的生存
A woman needs to really take into account who she meets with
女人需要认真考虑她所遇到的人
because that increases the survival rates (or decreases) of her children.
因为这会增加(或减少)她孩子的存活率
A man who can offer the woman financial security,
如果男人可以给予女人经济保障
a man who can provide,
可以提供生活必需品
a man who have some form of status in the jungle.
在社会丛林里享有某种地位
Now that’s going to be a high survival rate for her children,
那么这意味着着她的孩子会有很高的存活率
obviously a woman is going to take that into account
显而易见 女人会考虑这一点
and actually prioritize it.
而且实际上是优先考虑这一点
This is written in our genetics, in our biology,
这在基因学 生物学
in the millions of years of DNA programming.
和数百万年的DNA编制程序里是有记录的
Now men on the other hand,
而另一方面 男人们
they’re not driven by that type of instinct
不是被那种本能驱使的
because their instinct is to impregnate as many women
因为他们的本能是使尽可能多的女人怀孕
as possible because that has a higher chance of survival for their offspring.
那样他们的后代才有更高的存活机会
For this reason, men are very much sexually orientated,
从这个原因来说 男人是对性感兴趣的
the same way a woman
同样地
perhaps is more financially orientated than a man,
相对男人 女人可能对经济更感兴趣
but a man can get away with
但是男人就算是对性感兴趣
being sexually orientated!
也不会受谴责
How come, HOW UNFAIR is that in our society it’s like
为什么会这样 这在社会上是一种很不公平的现象
if a man sleeps around, he gets a pat on his back. But if a woman sleeps around: oh…
如果男人乱搞男女关系 背后会有叫好声 但是如果一个女人到处厮混
She is a slut, she is this, she’s that!
她就是荡妇 她是这个 她又是那个
Anything to shame a woman!
她可以被扣上所有的帽子
Now this is something that I’m very tired of,
我对此实在是厌烦透顶
and for that reason I make videos like this on my channel
因此 我在我的频道上制作这样的视频
to raise awareness because I think we all should start thinking about
来提高人们的意识 因为我认为我们都应该开始思考
exactly what happens when we call a woman a gold digger!
当我们叫一个女人拜金女的时候到底会发生些什么
Should we really promote this misogynistic hate?
我们应该助长这种对女人的厌恶感吗
I know my values.
我知道我的价值所在
I know what I stand for.
我知道我代表什么
I know that I’m not using and abusing anyone.
我知道我没有利用和虐待任何人
I value the romantic side in a relationship
我珍惜一段关系中浪漫的一面
as much as I value the materialistic and financial aspect.
就像我珍惜经济和物质那一面一样
Both are equally important to me,
两者对于我来说是同等重要的
and yes you can have both in today’s society!
是的 在当今社会你可以二者兼具
But what really frustrates me is how this word is being
但是令我真正感到受挫的是
is how this word is being used against women,
这个词怎么会被用来针对女人
and how it actually has an impact on woman.
还有它是如何对女人产生影响的
I see it also in my community.
我的身边也出现了这样的情况
Women who are laying low with their interest in luxury lifestyle
女性不愿意表露对奢侈的生活方式的兴趣
because society are judging them and
因为社会在评判她们
labeling them and that is unfair, and
在标签化她们 而这是不公平的
that is against any form of feminism in my opinion!
在我看来这是对各种形式的女权主义的背离
But where does this whole misogynistic trend come from?
那这些对女人的厌恶趋势来自于何处?
The word gold-digger comes, of course, originally from men.
当然 拜金女一词最初来源于男性
It comes from men who do not appreciate women,
来源于那些轻视女性的男性
who perhaps hate women.
那些可能憎恨女性的男性
It comes from men who get triggered by
它来自于因为达不到女性的更高标准
the higher standards of a woman that they can not live up to!
而被激怒的男性
It’s basically broke guys, who cannot afford this type of women.
他们基本上都是一些养不起这类女性的没钱佬
So they start creating this whole Gold Digger trend and
所以他们开始 掀起整个拜金女的风潮
in their way to try and control a woman and somehow dominate a woman.
用他们的方法试图控制女性以及主宰女性
And this comes from dominating someone,
这源于他们想要支配女性
to push someone down, to put someone in their place, into the corner!
贬低女性地位 让女性回到原本位置 把她们逼入困境
Shaming a woman by calling her a gold digger,
而通过称她拜金女来使她羞愧
is the man’s and also the society’s, it’s a way of controlling her,
是男性和社会控制女性的一种方式
it’s a way of telling her that
用这种方法告诉女性
“You, don’t come and think that you’re somebody! Go back to your place!”
“你!走开不要觉得你很了不起 回你的地方去”
That’s basically what this gold digger word
这基本才算是拜金女一词
is communicating to us.
传达给我们的信息
A woman is not allowed in this world,
在这个世界上 女人不被允许
to be true to her instincts the same way a man can be true to his sexual desires.
像男人正视他的性欲一样 正视她的生理本能
A woman is forbidden to have a desire
女人被禁止拥有
for financial gain or status gain
对经济和地位的渴望
Sadly these misogynistic men get backup from our fellow women.
更可悲的是 这些讨厌女人的男性还获得了我们女性同伴的支持
Oh yes, us women we are
是的 我们女人确实
doing an amazing job backstabbing each other.
在伤害彼此这方面做得非常厉害
Which is something I really, really hope and pray for,
而这就是我非常非常希望和祈祷能改变的
that one day maybe we can
就是未来某天我们或许可以
act more like sisters instead of predators.
表现得更像姐妹而非互相伤害
I believe we should hold each other’s backs
我认为我们该为彼此撑腰
instead of taking the side of men.
而非站在厌女的男人的那一边
Now I know this stems from competitiveness.
我知道互相伤害是源于竞争的心态
Women can be awfully jealous and competitive with each other.
女性在互相竞争时会变得非常嫉妒和有好胜心
So that’s actually a way of controlling other women,
所以称其他女人为拜金女
by calling her gold digger,
让她们为拥有这类兴趣而蒙羞
by shaming her for having these types of interests.
确实是控制她们的一种方式
But more so often, do I notice
但更多情况下 以我的观察
that actually these women who use
这样标签化其他女性
this name-calling and call other women for gold diggers,
并称呼她们为拜金女的女人们
they are sadly enough just programmed by society,
其实她们已经非常可怜地被社会洗脑和程序化了
brainwashed by thinking that a woman has absolutely no right
这让她们也觉得女人完全没有权利
to have this type of preference, this type of interest.
拥有这种偏好和兴趣
That she’s a bad person and that they should
即如果女人有这种兴趣 她就是坏人
do a witch-hunt against her.
而她们就该抵制这样的女人
The word gold digger has become a modern-day witch hunt,
拜金女一词已成为现代社会中的打倒女巫活动了
as they did in history, burning all these women.
正如他们过去做的那样 活烧这些女巫
They’re doing the same thing
她们现在就在做同样的事情
but but by bullying somebody emotionally and calling her gold digger!
只不过换成精神欺凌 叫她拜金女而已!
And lastly, we have to also think
最后 我们需要思考一下
about WHY does this upset people so much
为什么“拜金女”如此令人不爽
if a woman has financial interest in a man,
如果女人对男人的财产感兴趣
if a woman is benefiting financially from a man,
如果女人正从男人身上获利
if a woman has a preference that she wants
如果女人有
to be a part of high society,
想成为上流社会的一分子的偏好
she wants to change her class from middle class to upper class.
她想从中产阶级跨升到上层阶级
Why is it so triggering to people?
为什么这种想法 如此刺激大众呢?
Why do people get so upset
为什么人们会对
that a woman wants to do this
女人想要这样做
and has this interest?
或有这个想法而感到如此不爽呢?
Because money triggers a lot of strong emotions in people.
因为金钱刺激着很多人的神经
Money is actually a very strong emotion in itself,
金钱其实本身就有强烈的情绪
because money represents all kinds of different emotions in people.
因为金钱代表着人身上各种不同的情绪
We have a lot of things that are operating in our subconscious that
我们潜意识中有很多事情正在运作
we’re not even aware of!
而我们甚至不会意识到这个过程
So money becomes a very very strong heavily loaded emotion.
所以金钱逐渐变成一种具有极其强烈意味的情绪
But what I don’t understand is why do other people care
但我不理解的是 为什么有人
so much what people do with their lives?
如此关心别人的生活?
Why don’t people focus more on their own life
为什么他们不多关注一下自己的生活呢?
and perhaps improving it and becoming a better version of themselves?
为什么不去改善生活 成为更好的自己呢?
And maybe go to counseling and maybe heal some issues?
或者为什么不去接受咨询 不去解决一些个人问题呢?
Perhaps these issues are triggering the person to feel all these strong emotions?
没准这些个人问题是他们产生这些强烈情绪的导火线呢?
One thing is to have a different opinion
一方面 人们观点相异
but another thing is to have very strong emotions about something.
但另一方面 是人们对某事有着强烈的情绪
Not everyone has to have financial interest in a man.
不是所有人都对男性的经济能力有兴趣
The same way
同样地
not every man has to be sexually obsessed, right?
不是所有的男人都沉迷于性 对吧?
People are different!
每个人都是不同的!
Some people have a very high sex drive,
有些人的性欲望驱动很强
some people have a very high financial drive!
有些人的金钱欲望驱动很强!
People are different!
每个人都是不同的!
Let them do whatever they want without judging.
让他们做他们自己所想就好 不要评头论足
Let us be who we are, we’re not killing anyone…
让我们做自己就好 我们又不是要杀人放火
We are just staying true to what we believe in
我们仅仅想坚持自己相信的东西
to what we desire and
去正视我们的渴求
we are not ashamed of having a man provide for us!
而且我们不为有男人为我们提供优质条件而羞愧!
And if that is a problem for you, then maybe
如果这对你来说是个问题
you should think about why you have such a big problem with this?
那或许你该想想为什么你对此这么困扰?
I have more videos on this topic,
我还有更多关于这个话题的视频
so please do go and check them out
欢迎收看
I have loads of interesting content about high society on this channel.
我在这个频道上有许多关于上层社会的有趣内容
But before I leave you,
但在我离开之前
I want to say one last thing…
我想要说最后一件事
If you’re a woman who want to have a financially secure partner:
如果你是个想找个经济上稳定的伴侣的女性
You’re not a gold digger!
你不是个拜金女!
You are just staying true to instincts,
你只是真实的面对本能而已
So never let society or anyone tell you that you’re wrong!
所以不要让社会或任何人对你说你错了!
See you in the next video!
下个视频我们再见!

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拜金女是对女性的污名化,视频介绍了词的来源和字典释义,讨论了使用该词的人的心理。

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