I’m realizing more and more about
why I am the way I am
from when I was really little and I could hear my mom
and dad arguing like about money or something.
I can’t talk to them about that because
all they want to talk about is how tender the chicken is.
That’s the idea of a deep chat.
You know, every single time we’re eating,
someone who variably comes out of a comment
about the tenderness of the meat.
Mom was depressed and I never really focused on that.
But it’s clear that she was and I think I’m man
if I had a problem that it was always a problem too much.
I know it dad were arguing all the time,
which obviously doesn’t help things.
I think that’s why I have these issues with confidence
and this whole like background of shame all the time and
probably why I do this OCD type stuff and
explains drinking and explains drugs like.
Huh, it is very tender.
We’re not talking about something other than the food.
Good. We come here every Sunday and we eat
and all we talk about is the food.
I’ve been reading this a lot and
I think it explains a lot about
why things keep going wrong,
why I can’t start a new relationship,
why works all over the place.
It’s because I haven’t received that
bedrock of human love that everyone needs I…
Um, I only want for more vegetable.
This is why I think me and I was broke up in the end.
What are you bringing here in for?
Good open. I bought the one if you prefer.
Forgive I just had that confidence.
Confidence? What’s that got to do with anything?
Would you like some more ice cream?
It’s tired to see a therapist.
Why not a magician next?
God, mum, it’s not the Middle Ages.
It’s a normal thing to do. It’s just good to have someone
to actually talk to about how are you feeling.
You charge him.
Um, I’ve went been fishing anymore this month a.m.
No. I don’t mean that.
Your aunt Sarah was here the other night.
Her relatives just got into University.
I’m not saying these things to be mean.
Maybe you should think about it before opening your mouth.
I just think it’s good to have a song
like constructive non-blaming conversation about the way you feeling.
To fit up with the tell you.
– 现在多放些蔬菜进去- 好
Now put vegetables in here.
Yeah. Ma’am make sure you leave them.
– 这样你会瘦一点- 我会的
-You’ll get a bit slim. -I want it.
You’re getting enough.
Yeah. It was okay, sort of.
Yeah. We talked what we just doing really talked
about that kind of stuff like
I just feel I was probably not conversation. I’m gonna have them my parents.
Yeah. Probably better if it’s just me and you and therapists and you know that.
Mm-hmm. Did get some pretty good chicken though?
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