How much do you love yourself?
Becuase if you understand the value of self love,
you’ll never be friends with those type of people.
Most of the people out here are running around empty.
They have no sense of self,
no sense of self love.
When I say self love,
它和名声 金钱 对物质的追求没有关系
it has nothing to do with celebrity, money, materialistic things
and all the things that your negative mind would probably go to.
has nothing to do with self love, has nothing to do with looks
nothing to do with cars and any of the superficial things
that one would assume that could make you love yourself even more.
It’s a matter of knowing your value.
It’s a matter of you saying
I don’t have to be around these people in these type of environments and situations
in order for me to finally see the value in myself.
I love me independent of you loving me.
I believe in me.
I know my self-worth.
I know clearly I’m a child of God.
And God has a purpose over my life
and if He didn’t, I wouldn’t be here anymore.
I am here, and I have a purpose.
There is no value
智慧 知识 洞察力 灵性 爱
in having wisdom, knowledge, insight, spirituality, love.
Every day I am a work in progress.
Self love is the cure to self hate.
I don’t like you,
I don’t trust you
and I know you’re talking shit about me from behind my back.
Why would anybody who truly loves themselves
hang out with or mess with those type of people?
Now here are the worst type of people in the world to me,
the people who literally hates your guts and dislike you
and you don’t have a clue that they feel this way about you,
because they’re able to cover up all of their malicious energy and intentions towards you
without giving you no trace that they don’t follow you.
当你最后发现这一点 你会说：“哦 天啊
And then when you finally find out, you’re like, “Oh shit,
you’ve been saying this and doing this
and you feel this way about me?
I had no clue!”
But when people show you who they are,
and you see it to the point
where you’re able to talk about it:
“Can you believe what she said about me?
Can you believe that?”
and you’re able to talk about it,
then you get an invite from the same person
that you were just sitting over dinner crying about
the following week and you show up.
You don’t love yourself,
for you to be hanging out with these type of people.
Nobody who loves themselves
would ever entertain the idea of ever fucking with these people.
I love myself,
I’ve worked too hard
for all of these years
to hang out with somebody that’s talking about flipping 5000 turning into 15000
So guess what, homie, go get your money
go do whatever you’ve got to do
to double and triple your paper.
I’m out of here.
Because I don’t want to be on the receiving end of whatever those consequences are
that may come from you doing whatever it is that you’re doing,
and y’all know plenty of those type of people
they’re doing all of the negative,
消极 疯狂 非人的事情
crazy and dysfunctional shit every single day,
all of the women, they’re jealous, envious of you,
they talk all of this shit about every girl,
and every thing they’re doing, who they date,
who they’re sleeping with.
You don’t think they’re talking about you?
Are you that special,
to where all of your homegirls talk shit about everybody and you don’t think they’re talking about you?
So when people show you who they are,
you’ve got to believe it.
And you have to make the adjustments according to all of these things that are revealed to you.
你的家人低劣 邪恶 充满恶意
And your family is mean, evil, spiteful,
condescending and messed up,
but you’re so desperate for that validation.
“That’s my family, you know what I’m saying?
You know, I know they’d be mean,
议论我 我妻子 我的孩子
talking about me and my wife and my kids
and they’re all mean and fucked up,
but you know that’s family, right?”
Oh, so they’re allowed to tear you down
because it’s family.
cuts me even deeper
because we actually have the same blood in our bloodstream.
I would much rather a random person in the street
talk shit about me and tear me down
than my own family.
I love me.
I see the value in me.
and I have to be careful of who and what I give emotional access to me.
My daughter has given me a bottom line.
My daughter has created new standards for me.
My daughter has changed my life forever.
I didn’t know what love was until she got here.
What does that mean?
It means that you will never see me in a random club.
You will never see me at dinner
if my dinner isn’t purpose-driven.
You’ll never see me hanging out and doing anything with anybody.
I don’t care who you are,
how much money you’re worth.
我有愿景 想法 目标
I have visions, I have ideas and I have goals.
Now I believe in connecting with people on a human level.
But I’m very mission and goal oriented.
That’s who I am.
And you can’t get to the next level
with all of the devils that you have in your life.
You’ve got so many negative, mean, evil, malicious
消极 低劣 邪恶 恶毒和不健全的人
and dysfunctional people in your life and around your circles.
This is the reason why you can’t clear out the clutter
and get to the next level.
Self love is the cure to self hate.
I’ll say it again: Self love is the cure to self hate.