Nice guys Get More Sex according to research.
If you need an enormous motivating shove to carry out good deeds，
science has found you the golden push.
The Evergreen notion that nice guys and girls finish first
has finally been supported by Canadian researchers.
However, in a dog-eat-dog world,
is being nice a costly treat that can hinder one’s potential to level up?
The answer is no.
Basically science concludes that
the more kind you are, the more sex you’ll be gifted.
All health science, am I right?
在一次研究中 有800个人接受了采访 采访内容涉及他们的性历史
In one study, 800 people were interviewed about their sexual history
and how often they participated in charity work,
blood donation, leading strangers across the street
and other altruistic like behaviors.
Not fully trusting their participants level of honesty,
researchers conducted a more accurate study to test their hypothesis.
In this study, 524 college students were questioned about their sexual participation
and asked the question tailor to measure their level of altruism.
The question was: if you won $100 would you donate it all to charity,
keep all of it or give some to charity and keep some?
Both studies reported that those who are more kind had a higher sexual history,
随机约啊 长期约啊 或者夫妻之间啊等等
casual sex, long-term relationship sex, marital sex and etc.
Why do these do gooders have a special advantage in the sexual world?
It’s common knowledge that from an evolutionary point,
women are attracted to men who possess resources and are generous with those resources.
In hunter-gatherer cultures,
a man’s ability to return to his tribe with an abundant amount of meat
equates him to being a much more viable partner.
Generosity goes hand in hand with being altruistic,
It appears that altruism evolved in our species,in part,
because it serves as a signal of other underlying desirable qualities
which helps individuals reproduce,
says lead researcher professor Steven Arnocky.
Therefore being kind is a biological imperative.
What about the dating impression that women are attracted to bad boys?
There’s a common phrase that nice guys finish last
and it is absolutely untrue.
Chris Armstrong certified relationship coach tells Brussel
timid guys finish last.
Women are not attracted to bad boys,
她们是被其自信 有抱负 又幽默 善良
they are attracted to confidence, ambition, humor, kindness,
intelligence and emotional availability.
We are overly broad use of these traits tells us that confidence goes hand in hand with arrogant and loud.
Ambition goes hand in hand with rich, controlling and selfish.
And kindness and emotional availability go hand in hand with weak and even effeminate.
Armstrong goes on to say that these generalized notions makes us think
that if one is confident and ambitious,
they can not possibly be at the same time kind and emotionally available.
All this adds up to a pretty crystal clear conclusion:
if you want to get a little, consider giving a little.
Make efforts to be a better human being,
not only will it contribute to a less awful world, it might just help you get some action.
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