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父母不让我玩游戏,我该怎么办?

My Parents Won't Let Me Play Video Games

I’ll bet you found this video
我赌你找到了这条视频
because your parents won’t let you play video games.
因为你的爸妈不让你玩电子游戏
I’m a psychologist and I know a little bit about parents’ psychology
我是一名心理学家 了解一些家长的心理
Let’s crack this
接下来让我们解决这个问题
《生活目标》
I’ve got three tips for you today about how to handle this video
在今天的视频里 我会给出三点
game issue with your parents but
关于如何处理父母不让玩电子游戏的建议
first you gotta understand a little bit of parent psychology.
但首先 你要了解一下父母的心理
You need to know how they think
你需要知道他们是怎么想的
because sometimes it doesn’t feel like they are thinking
因为感觉有些时候他们好像想都没想
they’re just reacting and trying to control you right?
就只是条件反射般地想要控制你 对吧
Well when you understand parent psychology,
一旦了解了父母的心理
you’ll be able to work with your parents in a way
你就可以和他们在同一频道上交流
that will have them working with you a little better.
这会使你们之间更好地进行沟通
See parents aren’t that hard to figure out.
你看 其实了解父母并不难
First of all let’s start with this,
首先 我们的出发点在于
Your parents love you.
他们爱你
Now,you might want to argue with me about that
现在 你可能想要和我争论这一点
But they do I know parents.
但他们确实如此 这我明白
And even parents that don’t know what they’re doing in terms of limits and rules,
在限制和规则方面 即使父母有时候犯了些无心之过
still love their kids
但是他们确实是爱着孩子的
they’re just trying to figure out how to do the best job they can as parents.
他们只是竭尽全力弄明白 如何做一个称职的家长
And because your parents love you
因为你的父母爱你
there is one thing that they want for you above everything else do
有件事是高于其他任何事的 他们想要你实现他
you know what it is
你知道是什么吗?
Think about this the one thing they want for you
想一想 其实这件事
is for you to be happy.
就是希望你能一直开心
Awww isn’t that nice
这难道不好吗?
it’s true that’s all they want.
真的 这个就是他们最想要的
And because they want you to be happy
而正是因为他们想你开心
they’ve got all kinds of ideas about how that’s going to happen
所以 他们就会用尽各种各样的方法去实现这件事
And they watch you to see if you’re making choices
他们也会留意你是否做出了
that are gonna lead you into happiness
可以带给你快乐的选择
or lead you into prison right
或者哪些选择会送你进监狱
I know that’s an exaggeration
我知道这样说是有些夸张
but sometimes right
但有时这却是正确的
So understanding that
所以 你要明白
your parents need to understand
父母需要了解
that you are making good choices that will lead you to happiness.
你是否能做出让自己开心的选择
Now happiness and fun are not the same thing
快乐和娱乐不是一回事
so doesn’t count that you’re having fun playing video games.
所以不要把玩电子游戏的娱乐也算做快乐
They need to know that you’re doing the kinds of things
他们需要知道你现在所做的
that will make your life happy and productive
是会让你的生活变得开心并且富有创造性的事
So that leads me to the three tips
因此 这些可以总结为三点
that I wanted to share with you
也就是我想要和你们分享的
Tip number one is to understand opportunity cost
第一点 要了解机会成本
Opportunity cost is whatever any opportunity is going to cost you
机会成本就是无论这个机遇需要你付出什么
and what opportunities you will lose
以及 你将会失去什么机会
as a result of choosing one or the other
都是你选择了一个或者另一个机遇的结果
Here’s an example
举个例子
if you go to the store with $ 20
如果你拿着20美元进入了一家商店
and you spend that twenty dollars on a new game
然后用这20美元买了一款新游戏
What don’t you get to spend that twenty dollars on?
你用这20美元买不到什么东西?
anything else you could have bought with the twenty dollars
所有那些你原本可以买到的
so the other things you could have bought with the twenty dollars
所以你原本能用20美元买到的东西
represent the opportunity cost of spending it on that game.
代表的就是把钱花在游戏上的机会成本
Now in a similar way how we spend our time
同理 我们如何用好自己的时间
means that we don’t get to spend it on something else
意味着我们不会将时间花费在其他事情上
I’m guessing your parents probably aren’t too concerned about the games you’re playing
我猜你的父母可能并不太担心你玩的游戏
if they are maybe that’s another conversation
如果他们担心的话 那就是另外一个问题了
but most games are okay they’re not bad
但大多数游戏还好 没什么坏处
you can’t really make that argument with your parents
你不能因为这个就跟父母争吵
because they already know it’s not a bad game
因为他们已经知道知道游戏并无害处
what they’re concerned about is all of that other stuff
而他们担心的是
that you’re not doing while you’re over there playing your game
让你玩游戏时 而没去做的那些其他的事
you’re tracking this the opportunity cost
你理解了吗?机会成本
so they might be thinking
所以 你的父母可能就在想
oh as long as he’s playing that game
哦 只要他在玩游戏
he’s not doing his homework
他就不是在做作业
see that’s the opportunity cost as long
看 这个就是机会成本
as he’s playing that game he’s not working to earn some money
只要他在玩游戏 他就不会去赚钱
opportunity cost
机会成本
this is important because it’s how parents think so
这很重要 因为这是你父母的想法
give a little thought for a moment to the opportunity cost of you playing video games
花点时间想想 玩电子游戏的机会成本
That’s important for you personally.
这个对你个人来说很重要
But also it’s going to help you to deal with your parents
当然也能帮助你处理和父母之间的关系
Okay here’s tip number two
好 该说第二点了
and this one is huge for parents
这点对于父母来说很重要
Sometimes they feel like they have to control you because you don’t control you.
有些时候他们觉得 他们不得不控制你 是因为你缺少自控力
Right?
对吧
They want to put limits on the game why?
他们想要限制你玩游戏 为什么呢
Because you’re not putting limits on the game
因为你自己在玩游戏时毫无节制
Learn to self limit
学会自控
This is a maturity factor
这是一个成熟的要素
it actually tells your parents that you’re more mature if you put the limits on it.
如果你学会自律 父母才会知道你长大了
what just try this
为什么不试试呢
what if the next time you’re playing the game
假设下次你玩游戏的时候
you actually have a kitchen timer sitting right there by your computer
放一个计时器在电脑旁
and the kitchen timer is counting down for some reasonable amount of time
设定一个合理的时间进行倒计时 又会怎么样呢?
let’s say,start with a half-hour okay
这么说吧 先从半个小时开始
I know nobody plays a game for just half an hour
我知道没有人玩游戏只花半个小时
but what if you did
但是如果你真的做到了呢
what if you set a little timer right by your computer half hour
如果你真的在电脑旁放一个计时器 就半个小时
when it goes ding or when it the alarm goes off
当它响起来或者铃声结束的时候
you turn off the game
你把游戏关掉 会怎么样呢?
I know you probably don’t want to cut the game off after half an hour
我知道你虽然可能不想半小时后中断游戏
but here’s the thing If your parent see you doing that
但问题是 如果你的父母看到你这样做了
they’re not gonna feel like they have to put the limits on the game
他们就觉得不再需要限制你玩游戏的时间
It’s parent psychology
这就是父母的心理
ok let’s go to the third tip
好 我们现在讲第三点
because this one affects the other two as well
因为 这一点对其他两点也有影响
Communicate
沟通
You got a mouth, right?
你有一张嘴 对吧
you know the language, right?
你会说话 对吧
Talk to your parents
多和父母聊聊天
let them know that you’re on it
让他们知道你正在努力
if you’re on it they don’t have to be
如果你在努力 那他们就不需要了
This is the best way I know to get your parents to back off of anything
这个是我所知道的 让父母放手的最佳方式
you show them that you’re on it and communicate that
让他们知道你在努力 并且和他们不断沟通
So like the other two things that I shared with you opportunity cost
所以 就像我之前分享的两点 机会成本
I can just see this now you sit down to dinner with your parents
我能想象的到这个场景 你和你的父母共进晚餐
and you bring up
然后你开始提起这个话题
hey mom dad I’ve been thinking about the opportunity costs involved with playing that game
嘿 爸 妈 我一直在思考玩游戏所造成的机会成本
and I’m a little concerned
我有点担心
okay first of all you’re probably gonna have to revive your parents right about then
好 首先 关于这个话题你很有可能会提起父母的兴趣
cause they’re not expecting this
因为他们没想到会有这个话题
but it’s gonna blow them away
但这将会给他们留下深刻的印象
that you know something about opportunity cost
就是 你懂得了机会成本
and they’re gonna think you’re more mature
他们会认为你长大了
and if they think you’re more mature
如果他们这样想的话
they’re gonna back off and not be quite so controlling
就会让步 控制欲不再那么强烈
this is brilliant
明智之举
what about the second one that I shared with
我之前和你们分享过的第二点
you learning to self limit
学会自我设限
You might say
你可能会说
you know what mom
你知道吗 妈妈
I put a limit on that game today
我今天控制了游戏时间
cut it off after half an hour
只玩了半个小时
and it was hard but I kind of like the way that I felt being able to just turn it off right then
这个对我来说很难 但我挺喜欢自己能控制自己 当时就关掉
still have fun”.
并且还是能玩的很开心
Who talks like this
谁会这么说话呢
Well I’ll tell you what
好吧 让我来告诉你
people who don’t have to worry about their parents controlling their behavior talk like this
那些不必担心自己的行为受父母限制的孩子 会这样说话
I hope you found this helpful and if you did you can share it with your buddies
我希望你能有所收获 如果有 可以分享给小伙伴们
If you need help with your parents
关于父母的问题 如果你需要帮助
send them to me
发邮件给我
I’ve worked with a lot of parents
我跟很多家长都通力合作过
there’s a website called parentingpowerup.com
这是网址 parentingpowerup.com
You can link to it right over there or down in the description.
你可以点击这个链接或者直接点击评论中的链接
And if you send your parents there
如果你向父母介绍了这个网站
they get to start learning some things that will help them to be less controlling
他们就能开始学习一些降低控制欲的方法
and that’s going to be good for you.
这或许对你也有帮助

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三个技巧帮你解决游戏和父母之间的矛盾

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