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如何在人生这场游戏中获胜?

How To WIN At The Game Of Life

I want you to imagine a board game similar to that of chess
请你想象一个类似国际象棋的棋盘游戏
but one where hundreds and hundreds of boards are lined up back to back
棋盘上黑白棋格列阵以待
a game where each move you make is equivalent to a day’s worth of time
在这个游戏中 你每日步步为营
this is a game with thousands of possible moves
在这个游戏中 道路四通八达
symbolizing the thousands of different choices you can make every day
这意味着你每天面临着成千上万种选择
welcome to the game of life
欢迎来到人生这场游戏
now the fact of the matter is you are playing this game
事实上 无论你是否意识到
whether or not you’re aware of it
你都已经是游戏的玩家
every single day you are either making the right moves
要么在某一天你做了正确的选择
bringing you closer to a happy and fulfilled life
它让你离幸福美满的生活更近
or you are making the wrong moves
要么你误入歧途
getting you further from all this good stuff
所有美好都离你远去
and closer to all the pain and suffering that the world has to offer
世界以痛吻你 让你步步入深渊
now i got good news and bad news for you
现在我有一个好消息一个坏消息要告诉你
the good news is that the game of life is a rather long game
好消息是人生这场游戏非常长
most players get to make around 28 000 moves
在结束这场人生棋局之前
that’s about 79 years worth of moves
大多数玩家都能走28000步
before the game is over
即有79年的时间去完成这场博弈
even more good news is the fact that you don’t have to play perfectly
更值得庆幸的是 你不必追求完美
you can make plenty of mistakes
你可以犯很多错误
and as long as you make more right than wrong moves
只要成功的次数大于失误
you’ll still be winning at the game of life
你就还是人生的赢家
you’ll still be able to find happiness
你仍然能获得幸福快乐
and to top that off there are dozens of right moves that you can make every day
更何况 你每天都有机会做出很多正确选择
so it’s not like you have to figure out exactly what to do
所以你不需要一下子想清楚所有正确的事情
you just have to figure out one of the many right things to do
你只需要找出其中一件
and if you’re able to make many right moves in a row
这时候如果你能接连数次一击即中
the benefits will start to compound
那你就会好事连连
and you will succeed at an astounding rate
并以惊人的速度取得成功
now let’s talk about the bad news
现在我来告诉你坏消息
the bad news is if you make a bunch of wrong moves
坏消息是 如果你错误百出
and don’t learn from those mistakes
却不能从中汲取教训
if you continue to make the wrong choices repeatedly
如果你持续重复犯错
your life will take a turn for the worse
你的生活就像在泥里打滚
and you will find yourself falling deep into a never ending pit
你会发现自己陷入了无底深渊
life can start to feel like hell on earth if you consistently make too many wrong moves
错误累积 人间就如地狱
now i want to end this little thought experiment by telling you about the best news
好啦 其实也没有那么悲观啦
the best news is that anyone can win at the game of life
在人生这场游戏中 任何人都可以成为赢家
no matter how behind you might feel
无论你觉得自己有多落后
how many wrong moves you’ve been making recently
无论你最近犯了多少错误
or what your current life situation is like
无论你目前的处境有多丧
you still have a very good shot at finding happiness and fulfillment in life
你始终有机会发现生活中的幸福与美满
the only question is
唯一的问题是
how do you know how to make the right moves
如何做出正确行为呢?
well there are three ways to do this
以下有三种方法可供选择
the first is through luck
1 碰运气
sometimes we don’t know what to do
有时候我们不知道做什么
and we just randomly choose what move to make
我们的行为也是随机的
and by pure chance it turns out that we did the right thing
纯粹出于偶然 我们才做了正确的事情
the second way is through mentors
2. 找一个导师
good mentors are essentially people
基本上 好的导师就是
who have been successfully playing the game of life longer than you have
那些人生阅历比你丰富的人
they can look over your shoulder at your board
他们高瞻远瞩
and help you differentiate between the right and the wrong moves
并帮助你鉴别行为的正误
but good mentors are far and few
但是好的人生导师可遇而不可求
if you have access to one
若你有幸遇见
definitely try to nurture that relationship
请一定好好维持这份感情
the third and final way to make the right move is the most important
最后一条做出正确行为的方法也是最重要的
it is through wisdom
3 通过智慧
which is when you can tell the right from the wrong all on your own
有了智慧 你就能凭一己之力明辨是非
this is the most crucial of the three
这是三个方法中的重中之重
because you got to be able to rely on yourself at the end of the day
因为最终你能依靠的只有自己
your mentors teachers and parents can’t hold your hand forever
导师和父母不可能永远牵着你走
and the great thing about wisdom is that
而智慧的伟大之处就在于
anyone can cultivate it by studying three simple subjects
任何人都能通过学习三个简单课程来培养它
the first subject is human behavior
第一个课程是 人类行为
you need to study how people think and behave
你需要研究人类的思想和行为
what will people most likely do in certain scenarios
比如在某些情况下他们会倾向于怎么做?
why do they do those things
他们行为背后的原因是什么?
what are some patterns that appear over and over again in certain cultures
特定文化背景中频次较多的行为模式是哪些?
what do people want in life
人类在生活中的欲求是什么?
you must study human nature
你必须研究人性
because the fact of the matter is that we live in a world run by humans
因为我们生活在由人类主宰的世界
humans are the only species on this planet
在这个世界上
capable of accomplishing great things
人类是唯一有能力创造伟业的物种
and the only ones capable of bringing about mass destruction
也是唯一有能力造成巨大破坏的物种
and if you know how humans act
如果你知道行为心理
you can predict the future with far more accuracy
你就能更准确地预测未来
for example i know that humans have a habit of procrastinating
比如我知道人类有拖延的习惯
as a species we don’t like to take action
人类一般不喜欢采取行动
until the problem is so severe that we can no longer ignore it
直到问题严重到不能再被忽视的程度
just look at how we reacted to the virus
不信你就看看我们面对病毒的态度
we didn’t really do anything until it was already too late
我们重视起来的时候已经来不及了
and i had a feeling that this would happen
一月份我开始读到病毒的消息
back in january when i first read about the virus
再反观美国人的反应
and saw how america was responding to it
我就有预感这种后果会发生
i realized that we would react too slowly
我知道人类的反应太迟钝了
so i made several moves based on this prediction
所以基于预测我采取了一些行动
which allowed me to increase my net worth by 50%
这让我的净资产在短短几个月里
in just a couple of months.
增加了50%
i was able to make the right move
我之所以能采取正确的行动
because i understand human behavior
是因为我了解人类行为
now the question remains
现在问题来了
how do you improve your understanding of human behavior
如何加深对人类行为的理解呢?
well first and foremost you got to read psychology books
首先 你要读心理学书籍
like the laws of human nature by Robert Green
比如罗伯特·格林的《人性法则》
which breaks all of it down in extreme detail
里面透彻分析了人性
you can read certain history books
你还需读历史书
like sapiens by Yuval Ferrari
比如尤瓦尔·赫拉利的《智人》
which will give you insight on what humans have done throughout history and why
它会告诉你历史上人类的行为及其原因
and finally you can learn from experience by exposing yourself to
同时你要尽可能多参加社交活动
as many human interactions as possible which will allow you to become
通过这些活动逐渐熟悉人类行为模式
more familiar with their patterns over time
最终获得宝贵的经验
of course you should probably wait until the pandemic is over before doing this
当然 疫情结束后再聚集吧
the second subject you have to study are the current events
第二课 研究时事
now many people in the self-improvement world will tell you
一些提升自我的人士会告诉你
that you should stay as far away as possible from the news
你应该离新闻越远越好
as it will bring too much negativity into your life
因为它会给你的生活带来负面影响
but i think that you should keep up with the current events
但我认为你应该紧跟时事热点
because it essentially dictates the roles of the game
因为它基本上决定了你在游戏中的角色定位
let me explain
让我解释一下
just a year ago before we had the pandemic
一年前还没有疫情的时候
we were essentially playing a totally different game
我们参与的是一场截然不同的游戏
what was considered to be the right moves back in that world
当时被认为是正确的行为
are totally different from the right moves in this world
今天已经完全行不通了
back then you could still open a small business with a physical location
当时你可以在实体店做一些小生意
and expect to do relatively well
并且收益良好
while nowadays we all know that such a task is practically impossible
但今天我们都知道这种操作是不可能的
if you were unaware of the current events
假如你对时事一无所知
if you didn’t know about the pandemic
假如你不知道疫情发生了
until it actually hit your neighborhood
直到你的邻居被感染你才后知后觉
and you decided to start a business with a physical location in january
而你在一月份的时候开了一家店做生意
you would have been absolutely screwed
那你可就完蛋了
on the other hand
反过来说
if you read about the virus back in january like i did
如果你像我一样在一月份读过病毒相关信息
then you would have realized that the game was about to change
你就会意识到游戏已经出现变数
and that you should hold off on any major decisions until you see how it plays out
在搞清楚状况前应该推迟重大决定
it is foolish to not read the news
不读新闻很愚蠢
because the world is constantly changing
因为世界是瞬息万变的
if you are caught at the wrong place at the wrong time
假如你没有意识到这些改变
because you aren’t aware of these changes
在错误时间进入错误地点
it can literally be the worst move of your life
你可能就一步错终生错
imagine being stuck in a country as its government collapses
想象一下 你被困在一个政府垮台的国家
like we are currently seeing in multiple places worldwide
——现在这种事情并不少见
you won’t even have time to worry about self-improvement
这个时候你没时间担心如何提升自己
because you’ll have to worry about surviving
因为连活着都成为一种奢侈
now there is some truth to what people say about the news
不过关于新闻 有些见解是对的——
if you spend too much time reading it
如果你在上面花费太多时间
it can definitely bring a lot of negativity into your life
它就一定给你的生活带来负面影响
this is why i suggest
所以我建议你
that you either update yourself just once a week or even once every two weeks
刷新闻的频率控制在一周一次或两周一次
if you feel like you are especially sensitive
如果你觉得自己特别敏感
or if you are like me and you don’t mind doing it daily
如果你和我一样 不介意每天刷新闻
make sure to do it later on in the day
请确保将此活动推到一天的末尾
when you’ve already finished with all of your work
在你完成了一切工作之后再进行
so that it doesn’t interfere with your focus
这样它就不会干扰你的注意力
which is why this episode was brought to you to help the guys over at morning brew
视频到这里 我要向大家推荐morning brew
morning brew is a free daily newsletter
它是一个提供每日简讯的免费媒体运营商
that arrives in your email inbox from mondays to saturdays
周一至周六它会往你的邮箱推送消息
and simply put
简单来说
they update you on the latest news in a fun and entertaining way
他们用有趣的娱乐化方式向你推送最新消息
this is great because it allows you to keep up to date with current events
这一点很棒 因为它可以让你及时了解时事
without spending hours on actual news sites
又不用在一些新闻网站上花费太多时间
morning brew compiles the most important news of the day
morning brew会选取每日热点
into a simple and easy to read email
将其编纂成简单易读的邮件
that you can consume in less than five minutes
让你在5分钟内消化掉它
last week they covered the current drama going on in the post office
上周他们推送了当时的邮局喜剧
they also provided me with some statistics about how colleges are operating during the pandemic
他们还会推送疫情期间大学运营状况数据
you can also subscribe to some of their alternative newsletters
你也可以手动订阅他们的一些简讯版块
that focus on business marketing tech and much more
内容涵盖商业营销技术等等
morning brew is completely free with no strings attached
morning brew完全免费 没有任何附加费用
all you have to do is click on the link in the description box below
你要做的只是点击下方简介里的链接
and enter your email and that’s it
键入你的邮箱就行了
you’ll start receiving a daily newsletter
然后你就能收到每日简讯啦
and you can unsubscribe at any time
而且你随时都能取消订阅
if you guys want an easy way to keep up with current events
如果你想通过简单的方式紧跟时事
then i highly suggest you to check them out
我强烈建议你订阅morning brew
now back to the topic at hand
现在回到我们的话题吧
the last subject you need to study are the facts of nature
你需要学习的最后一门课程是大自然的规律
this is basically understanding how nature works
要理解大自然是如何运作的
things like physics biology technology etc
你得掌握物理 生物技术等知识
and you need to study this
你需要学习这些知识
because these things are proven to be true
因为不管世事如何变迁
and will continue to be true
这些东西经证明是正确的
no matter what the circumstances are
未来它们也是正确的
we can predict that an apple will fall
我们可以预测
when you drop it because of gravity
扔一个苹果 它会由于万有引力而下坠
we can predict that
我们可以预测
a virus will spread more rapidly nowadays because of international air travel
由于国际旅行 病毒会传播得更快
we can predict that people will have more health problems
我们可以预测 在空气污染严重的城市里
in cities with high air pollution
人们会有更多的健康问题
these are just facts about how the world works
这些只是世界的运行规律
now how does this translate into making the right move in life
如何在生活中做出正确的行为呢
well i’ll give you an example
举例说明吧
based on what i’ve learned about the climate i predict
根据我对气候的理解
global warming will cause sea levels to rise much faster
我预测全球变暖会使海平面上升
than people think it will
其速度出乎你的意料
and if i was someone who planned on investing in reale state to grow my wealth
如果我打算投资不动产来增加财富
and if i lived in a place like new york city or the southern part of florida
如果我在纽约市或佛罗里达州南部买房
i would be absolutely screwed
我就完蛋了
if i doubled down and started purchasing property in those areas
——我加倍努力在这些地区买房
because chances are in a couple of years
以期未来几年房价上涨
my properties will get flooded and i’ll lose a ton of money
结果我的房子被淹 我会损失一大笔钱
knowing this i can invest in real estate in other areas
若能预见这些 我就会在其他地区投资不动产
that are less likely to be affected by climate change
这样就比较少受到气候变化的影响
which has a higher chance of being the right move
这样就更有可能做出正确举动
now it can be a bit hard to study the laws of nature
研究自然规律可能有点困难
because most of us are not scientists
因为我们中大多数人都不是科学家
which is why the best alternative is
所以最好的选择是
to consume content by people who specialize in specific fields
相信某领域专业人士提供的内容
but it’s also important to note that you’ll find people who support both sides
但也要注意 正反观点都有支持者
most scientists believe in climate change
大多数科学家相信气候变化
but there are still some that do not
但也有一些科学家不相信
in these cases it’s crucial to listen to both sides of the argument
这种情况就要听取争论双方的意见
and see who backs their claims with facts as compared to emotions
看看谁的论据是事实 而不是情绪
the side with more evidence is usually right
尽管有些证据可以伪造
although sometimes the evidence can be made up
但证据更多的一方一般是正确的
so you do have to do a decent amount of research
所以你必须做大量调查
you can also test to see if what they’re saying is true
你也可以测试言论的正确性
for the rising sea level example
就拿海平面上升的例子而言
you can just look up the amount of ice in the arctic
你可以去看北极冰川
once you do you’ll see that it is at record lows this year
若你看到今年的冰川量达历史新低
which supports the idea that climate change is in fact happening
这就佐证了气候改变是实际发生的
and that’s it make sure to study
所以我们一定要广泛研究
human nature current events and the laws of nature extensively
人性 时事和自然规律
to increase your chances of making the right moves in the game of life
以此提高在人生游戏中做出正确举动的几率
if you can do this you will be able to find more happiness in life
这样做之后 你就能在人生中找到更多快乐
and you will also be able to avoid unnecessary pain and suffering
你也将避免不必要的痛苦和折磨
i hope you guys found this video helpful
希望本视频对你有用
and besides that guys stay tuned
还有 记得关注我哦

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人生就像一场游戏,太认真你就输了,不认真你也输了。如何成为成功玩家呢?我们能决定自己的人生吗?我们应该秉持怎样的人生态度呢?答案就在视频里!

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