哈喽 我是布莱恩·崔西 今天我想教大家
Hello, I’m Brian Tracy and today I want to teach you
how to turn your fears into fuel.
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I want to ask you, “what’s holding you back?”
Very often at my seminars,
I say, “what is you biggest single goal in life today
and what holds you back from achieving it,
what sets the speed at which you achieve the goal?”
When I ask this question at my seminars or my consulting work,
the common answers I get back are “lack of funding”
or “I don’t have the education”
or “my background” or even “I’m not sure the next step to take”.
What I’ve discovered, however, is that
while all of this may be factors that can impact success,
they are not the deciding or underlying factor.
Do you know what is shackling people and
depriving them from the success they desire and deserve?
In most cases, it is fear.
It’s a deep, unconscious fear of failure or fear of rejection.
It’s a fear of loss.
It’s a fear that you would not succeed or that would be embarrassed.
你可能会对自己说 “不是我 我无所畏惧”
You may say to yourself, “Not me, I’m fearless.”
But the reality is fear is innate in human beings.
顺便说一下 这是好事 它起着保护作用
Which, by the way, it’s a good thing, it’s there for your protection.
There are, after all, some things, we should be fearful of.
Playing golf in lightening, for example, or
literally swimming with the sharks.
But what about success?
We should be embracing success, enjoying topping goals and
accomplishing newer, better and greater things.
Yet, fear is a dangerous obstacle in part,
because you may fail to admit its existence.
Fear needs to be recognized and managed properly
or it becomes an anchor.
We can become indecisive,
have self-doubt and simply fail to act.
Fear may have us setting on a great concept or idea
or it may restrict us from using our true talents.
But what if there was a way to turn fear into fuel?
This is a great question.
First, you must realize that the role
negative thinking plays in feeding your fears.
The thoughts may already be there, suggesting, “You can’t.”,
“You shouldn’t.”, and “Yeah, but what if?”
Before you know it,
negative thoughts have piled one upon another
and it’ve become a seemingly insurmountable mountain to climb.
I’m not saying you should ignore reality,
but most often these negative thoughts
are just a boogie man under the bed.
When you look closer, you’ll find there’s nothing there.
I believe it is much more productive to be
proactive in managing these negative thoughts.
Instead of allowing negative thoughts to affect you emotionally to
the point of indecision or inaction,
put your logical brain to work in your favor.
Rather than listening to the “I can’t”,
ask yourself “How can I?”
Ask yourself “What’s the best way to achieve this?”
as opposed to “I shouldn’t” or “What if I lose?”
Change the words “What if it doesn’t work?” to
“Imagine how teriffic it would be when it works.”
It can help you to be even more specific about this.
“What are the eight best ways to raise funding for my project?”
or “Who are the five people I know best qualified to help me with this?”.
Force your brain into helping you
by stretching its thoughts and imagination and focus.
“What are three-five ways that my life will be better when I achieve this?”
When you put your brain to work on a positive task,
there’s little room for negative thinking.
This is turning fear into fuel.
Many of us strive just to be comfortable.
Letting go of that comfort zone can create real fear.
You may worry that by stepping out and
doing something you always want to do or
reaching for more may put your comfort in jeopardy.
You may risk your steady income or lifestyle or
You may not be able to get that 65 inches flat screen TV with surround sound.
If you allow your comfort zone to become a prison,
you must recognize it is working against you, not for you.
Jim Rohn used to say that, “The only difference between a comfort zone
and a grave is the depth.
So how do you get out of it?
Think about the times when you took a chance and were successful.
Remember how victory felt and how rewarding it was to achieve a goal.
Odds are, it was the time when you stepped out of your comfort zone.
事实上 离开舒适区 踏进非舒适区的
Virtually, all great success come from
moving out of your comfort zone, into your area of discomfort.
Please remember that taking risks and being bold
doesn’t necessarily equate to being reckless.
I would never suggest being reckless,
but I do know that life is often best lived
out of your comfort zone or at the very edge of it
Turning fear into excitement and anticipation
is another way to use it as fuel towards your success.
One of the best ways to use fear as fuel, is to face it head on.
It’s not embarrassing to fear change or to enjoy your comfort zone but
if you don’t recognize its presence, and sometimes its dominance,
fear can hold you back without you even knowing it.
Turn those fears into empowering, positive questions
that your logical brain can work upon.
Practice on reaching out from your comfort zone and
recognize and face your fears.
It very well could fuel you to the next level.
Before we wrap up, I’d like to leave you with a thought
to share with your friends and followers.
“Be willing to launch in faith to step out with no guarantees of success.
This is the mark of personal greatness
and it precedes all personal success.”
Peter Drucker once wrote: Whenever you see a successful business,
someone once took a big chance and won.
现在 我想听到你的回答 所以我今天的问题是：
Now, I’d love to hear from you, so my question today is this:
What fears are holding you back?
Of all the fears that are holding you back,
what’s the biggest?
然后 如果你最害怕的事情真的发生了 你最糟糕的事情是什么？
And then, what’s the worst thing that could happen if your worst fear came true?
When I work with business owners, they say the worst thing that could happen,
if you plunge, is that you lose all your money,
while in one time you have the money anyway.
And virtually, all millionaires had been broken,
几乎经历过两次 三次 五次或十次破产
nearly broke two or three or five or ten times.
So if you lose all your money, you will make it back,
don’t let…don’t let the possibility which is rare,
don’t let the possibility hold you back,
and then what you do is do everything you possibly can to
minimize the likelihood of losing all your money.
You do your due diligence, you do your research,
you write things down, you check things out
so that when you do make a decision, you’re not making it recklessly,
you’re just stepping out of your comfort zone into your zone of discomfort.
And in most cases, you’ll be astonished that how successful you’ll eventually be.
So leave a comment below and I’ll be sure to follow up with you.
Thanks for watching and remember:
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哈喽 我是布莱恩·崔西 今天我想教大家