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怎么找到心仪的女孩

How to talk to any girl without being creepy? Approach Girls Confidently | Dating Advice & Tips Men

Hello friends! Well,
嗨 朋友们
thank you for clicking on yet another very interesting session.
非常感谢你们点进这个有趣的视频
I know it’s very daunting to approach someone.
我知道接近一个异性是非常有难度的
of the opposite sex, especially for the guys.
尤其是对于男人来说
well after all a man is supposed to take the first step,
毕竟男人应该迈出第一步
am i right?
我说的对吗?
So guys I totally understand that pressure.
所以男孩们 我完全理解那种压力
I know what you feel.
我了解你们的感受
Well in most cultures we are taught
在大多数文化里 除了一种技巧
everything except for one social skill,
我们什么都学
well I call that ‘ dating’or ‘ relationship skills.
我把它们叫做“约会”或者“交往”技巧
the truth is that if you have great social skills,
如果你拥有很棒的社交技巧
you will have a great dating life.
你就会有一个美好的恋爱生活
so people it’s time for you to learn,
所以 小伙伴们是时候学习
what your teacher did not teach you in school.
那些学校老师不会教你
or probably your mom was not very comfortable teaching you.
或者你妈妈可能难以启齿教你的内容
Today’s session will show you
今天的课上将会给你展现的是
how you can approach a girl without being creepy.
如何接近一个女孩儿而不让自己感到尴尬
Well I believe that this session will
我相信这节课
not only help you with starting relationships
不仅仅能帮你和喜欢的人开始恋爱关系
with someone that you really like
而且
but guess what it will also help you to
它还能帮你建立
build or tone up your social skills.
或提高你的社交技巧
So stay tuned with me,
所以快跟上我的节奏
I am Niharika and you are watching me
我是尼哈里卡 我在《技能大全》
on ‘ Skillopedia ’, the place to learn skills for the real world.
这里你可以学习生活中的各种技巧
Well here’s the first thing,
首先第一件事是
you need to “ stop being over romantic ”.
你需要停止过度浪漫的行为
well the fact is that your life is so different
事实上你的生活
from what you see in the movies.
和你在电影里看到的有很大区别
In the movies
在电影里
a girl is always approached with a bunch
追求者总是给女孩儿送花
of flowers or probably a guy playing an amazing
或用吉他弹奏美妙的音乐
song on the guitar or some cute poem which is written
抑或在巧克力盒上写美丽的诗句
on the box of chocolates, oh!
噢!天哪
Honestly as a girl I would really love all
诚实地说 作为一个女孩儿 我非常喜欢这些
of that, I mean I would appreciate
我是说我很憧憬这些情景
the gesture but you know what,
但是你知道
as a person or girl I would like to know that guy more.
作为一个女孩儿 我希望更深入了解那样的男孩
So you know being romantic is wonderful but
浪漫是美好的
it can be a little cheesy too.
却也会带来不真实感
So what I would
所以 我建议你
advise you is that you use that extra romance
如果你们俩都感觉良好的话
on maybe one of your third or the fourth dates
在你的第三次或者第四次约会上
assuming that you two are now a little more comfortable.
使用这些额外的浪漫
Please don’t do all of this on
请不要在约会第一天就干这个
the very first date because that’s creepy.
因为那样很怪
Well here’s the next one, “no stalking”.
然后下一个要点就是 “不要监视”
Well of course we love social media and
我们喜欢社交媒体
because of social media well access to people’s lives
因为社交媒体 我们非常容易
is pretty easy.
获取别人信息
I mean you can just go
我是说你只要
onto Facebook and Instagram and pretty much figure
进入脸书和Instagram 几乎可以找到
out where someone partied
上周末对方聚会的地方
over the last weekend or what food you like or what color you totally
或者对方喜欢的食物 或者对方中意的
love to wear.
衣服颜色
So don’t start your conversation telling your crush
所以 别一开口就告诉你的对象
that I know you love the
你知道她喜欢粉红色
pink color, well your Instagram stories are full of pink color. Okay,
你的社交账号里都是粉色 好吧
well believe you
相信我
me these comments are not impressive.
这些话一点都不吸引人
It just shows that you have been stalking her, following her,
这只能说明你在跟踪监视她
understanding what she does in her personal life.
窥视她的私生活
I’m sure she’s not gonna look back.
我确定她会毫不犹豫的离开你
So avoid stalking or making comments that show
所以避免跟踪监视或者说一些
that you know so much about her already.
自以为很了解她的话语
Well here’s the next thing “finding a common ground”.
接下来就是“寻找共同点”
Well I believe that whether you
我相信无论是想要交朋友
want to make friends or just start a new relationship,
或者是开展一段新关系
well you can do that successfully if you understand
你都能够成功地做到
what’s common between you two.
前提是你知道你们之间的共同点
Something common, well that will be fantastic.
一些共同点 嗯 这太棒了
So probably
或许你喜欢看电影
you love watching movies and guess what the
你感兴趣的女孩正巧也喜欢看电影
girl that you’re interested in she loves movies too.
是不是也同样喜欢看电影
Wow!
哇噢!
So here’s something common in you two.
然后你们之间就有了共同点
So what happens?
接着会发生什么
Well your conversations
接下来的对话
are so smooth.
就顺理成章了
She finds you super interesting and
她会发现你超级有趣
definitely would like to date you couple
而且肯定想要和你多次约会
of more times, right?
对吧
So this always works be it
所以原理就是这样
with your friends or be it with your
当你和朋友 喜欢的人 感兴趣的女孩
crush or the woman that you’re interested in.
在一起时会非常有效果
Something that’s common gets the conversation going.
一些共同点让话题得以延续
Common likes or dislikes make people feel
相同的好恶能让人们觉得
that they can trust you more and let’s
你值得信任
face it she will trust you and also
让我们想想 她将会信任你
you would be more comfortable because you two can have
而你也会因为两人之间良好的对话
such great conversations.
感到更加自在的交流
Here’s the next thing “listening”.
下一个秘诀就是“倾听”
Now as you are approaching
当你想接近一个女孩
the girl, you so want to talk to her and know about her.
想去了解她的一切
You have so many questions for her,
你有很多问题想要问她
well after all you really want to get her, right?
总之 你就是想了解她 对吧
So while you do that it’s absolutely
你完全可以这么做
fine but, make sure that you don’t over talk.
但是要确保别说太多
Well it’s time for you to listen to her.
适时倾听她的意见
I mean just by bragging about yourself and not letting her to talk,
我的意思是 仅仅吹嘘你自己而不让她接话
that’s not interesting. Well,
会显得非常无趣
let her speak as much as she wants.
让她尽量多说一些
All you have to do is, listen and of course
你只要做到一件事 那就是倾听
mean it. Actually listen and not pretend to.
这意味着 认真地倾听而不是做作样子
Make sure you understand and learn things
你要确定自己理解了她的意思
about her. Here’s the next thing, “make a personal connection”.
然后下一步就是 “建立个人关系”
Now once you have
一旦你成功了
listened enough and you have got to know the girl pretty well,
你充分了解这个女孩的美好
what’s the next thing that
接着你还要做些什么呢
you do? Well you take it to the next level.
你要更进一步
Now you can make a personal connection with her,
现在你可以和她建立一个私人的关系
how do you do that?
那么要怎么做呢
Well you can tell her
你可以跟她说
that you would like to stay in touch and
你想要和她保持联系
if she is okay with it then you can ask for her number.
如果她没意见的话接着你就能询问她的手机号码
But let her know that why you
但你得让她知道你为什么
want to stay in touch with her.
想要和她保持联系
Maybe you should tell her that you found her interesting,
也许你会告诉她因为你觉得她很有趣
maybe you should tell her that you are such an amazing person.
也许你会告诉她 她是个很棒的人
Well this will not sound creepy,
这些听起来不会很奇怪
trust me.
相信我
It’s just that things
在下个阶段
that you would like to do together that’s what
你想要和她做的事情
the next level should be.
就是这么简单
So you know you can go
你知道你可以再次
ahead catch up with her again over
约她一起喝咖啡或者
a cup of coffee or probably watch a
看电影
movie together and take that privilege for something
用这种特权做一些
that she loves.
她喜欢的事情
Now this will eventually lead to
这最终会引向
sharing phone numbers and yes there you
分享电话号码而且
go I’m sure if she ends up giving
我确定如果她最后给了你
you the phone number which means she likes you.
她的电话号码就意味着她喜欢你
here’s the next thing and the most important one,
接下来是最重要的一点
“ don’t mention your ex-lovers ”.
“不要提起你的前任”
I know you are supposed to share the
我知道你可能会分享一些共同点
common ground but don’t share too much.
但是不要说的太多
Well what

I mean is that
我的意思是
if you know that the girl’s ex-boyfriend is her best friend or probably
如果你知道这个女孩儿的前任
someone that you know,
是她的好友或是你认识的人
you didn’t have to mention that be it your ex-lover or be it
你没必要提到你的前任
her ex-lover, you don’t want to make her uncomfortable
或是她的前任 你不会想在头次约会
on the very first date, that’s definitely creepy.
就让她不舒服的 那让人非常恶心
So dude please take your ex connections,
所以伙计们 请把和你们前任有关的东西
your past completely out of the first meeting, okay?
在第一次约会前统统抛掉 好吗
You really don’t want to show
你不会想要展示出
that you’re still involved or still pretty much in that
自己和之前的女孩还有什么牵扯
relationship that you had with the past girl.
或者暧昧关系的
So you can eventually let her know about your
你可以让她知道你的过去
past but not at the moment.
但不是现在
Well here’s the next one, “don’t be too awkward”.
然后接着是“别表现的太尴尬”
We have
我们已经
talked about how daunting approaching the opposite sex is,
谈论过接近异性有多难了
but as awkward as you feel,
尽管你感到很尴尬
keep your nerves in control.
也要控制好紧张感
Make sure you take a deep breath
在开始谈话或者喝咖啡之前
before you start the first
先做一个深呼吸放松一下
conversation or just have a cup of coffee so that you calm yourself down.
这样可以让你冷静下来
Use the right
利用恰到好处的幽默
kind of humour, alright?
没问题吧?
Just make sure that you don’t crack silly jokes.
保证自己不是在硬讲冷笑话
Something that
一些
she would be not impressed about and something that is out of taste.
她不会感兴趣或者已经过时了的段子
Now this will show that
这些会显得
you are feeling awkward
你非常的尴尬
if you end up cracking silly stupid jokes and it can be a little
如果你再讲这些愚蠢的笑话
offensive too. So remember guys please don’t feel too awkward.
也会招致反感 所以记住 不要觉得太尴尬
So guys that’s about it
朋友们 这些就是今天的
on this session today.
全部内容了
Hope now you are well equipped
希望你们现在已经掌握了
with the things that you need to
这些你需要做的事情
do if you find a cute girl and you’re super interested in her.
如果你发现一个深深吸引你的可爱的女孩
Don’t worry you don’t have
别担心你不够完美
to be perfect and you don’t have to be nervous either,
也没必要紧张
it’s alright but yes these are the
这些是正常的 这些事是
points that you need to note down so
你需要注意的要点
that you do not sound creepy and eventually your
让你不会显得很奇怪
first date will become or convert into many more dates.
这样你将会获得更多的约会机会
I’ll be back soon till then you
好了 在你享受完美好的约会之后
take care and enjoy dating.
我很快就会回来

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