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如何正确且有意义地赞美他人

How to give ‘Meaningful Compliments’ – Learn unique English phrases - Free Spoken English Lessons

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Well, hello and welcome to today’s lesson,
我是瑞玛
my name is Rima
昨天讲了关于“有意义的”赞美
and yesterday is all about “Meaningful” Compliments.
当我使用 “有意义的” 这个单词时
Now when I use the word “meaningful”,
我是指当你赞美别人的时候
I mean that the compliment that you’re giving somebody
应该有一定的含义
should have a certain meaning.
它应该有一定的份量和深度
It should have a certain weight and depth.
它不应只是一句平常且无趣的赞美
It shouldn’t just be like a normal, boring compliment.
如果你使用恰到好处的有意义的赞美
Now if you use meaningful compliments which are unique to the situation,
就会给人留下文雅
you’ll come across as someone who is polished,
语言把控力强的印象
someone who has great command over their English.
让我们看下第一个
So let’s look at the first one.
你是一位好的倾听者
You are a great listener.
有时 你遇到一些安静的人
Now sometimes, you meet some quiet people
他们讨人喜欢 非常乐观 非常亲切
who are very pleasing, very positive, very pleasant
但他们确实很少交谈
but they don’t really talk much
但他们会更愿意让你多讲
but what they do is they let you talk a lot.
让你表达自己
They let you express yourself
这使他们成为了十分有耐心的倾听者
which makes them very patient listeners.
因此可以这样赞美这种人
So a great compliment to give to such a person is,
你知道吗 我意识到
“you know what, I’ve realized,”
你是一位好的倾听者
“you’re a great listener.”
这会让对方觉得自己是有价值的 被人欣赏的
That makes the person feel so valued, so appreciated.
所以 学着使用这个句子
So really learn to use this one,
是给别人的大大的赞美
this is a great compliment to give.
你是一位好的倾听者
You are a great listener
就是说你是一位会耐心倾听的人
meaning someone who listens patiently.
通常 我听到女性谈论
So mostly, I’ve heard women talk about
她们多么喜欢一个会耐心倾听的男性
how they like it when a guy is a great listener
因为女性真的很喜欢
because women really like to talk a lot
谈论自己 谈论她们自身感受
about themselves, their feelings,
她们很情绪化很有表现力
they’re very emotional and expressive.
如果你是名男性
And if you’re a guy
并且你具有了耐心倾听的品质
and you can inculcate this quality of listening patiently,
那么 你已经讨到女性的欢心了
well, you have it made for you.
继续来看下一个
Moving on, I have the next one,
也就是 你是一个非常自信的人
which is, you come across as a really confident person.
如果你遇到某些很团结的
Now if you meet someone who’s very together,
明确知道自己在做什么或说什么
very sure of what they’re doing or saying
或知道自己从事工作的人
or of the work they’re doing,
给他们的很好的赞美是
a great compliment to give such a person is,
你是一个非常自信的人
you come across as a really confident person.
这意味着你遇到了一个
Meaning you come across as a person
对他们自己
who has great confidence in themselves,
所说的话和工作很自信的人
in what they say and in their work.
你可以用这句赞美
Now you would give this compliment
那些对你来说有点陌生的人
mostly to a person who’s kind of new to you
或者你不是很了解的人
or whom you don’t know very well
我会告诉你原因
And I’ll tell you why.
比方说 你有一个朋友
So let’s say, you have a friend,
你们已经相识近十年
who you’ve known for like 10 years.
你知道你的朋友什么时候是自信的
Now you know when your friend is confident,
什么时候缺乏自信
you know when he or she is not confident.
所以 你从来不会跟对方说
so you would never tell that person,
你是一个非常自信的人
“you come across as a really confident person.”
因为你只会这么说
Coz you could just say,
有时候你非常自信
you know what at times, you’re really confident,
有时候缺乏自信 因为你了解对方
at times you lack confidence coz you know the person.
如果你遇到那些
But if you meet someone new
你不太了解的陌生人
whom you don’t know very well
他们对自己很自信
and the person comes across as very sure of themselves,
那么 你可以这样赞美他们
then you can give them this compliment.
你可以说
You can say,
你是一个非常自信的人
“you come across as a really confident person”
这会很有效
and it will work just fine.
继续往下看 这一个 我的天啊
Moving on, this one, oh my God,
谁不喜欢听到这句话呢
who doesn’t like to hear this one?
你可以跟所有的
You can say this to all the people
你喜欢并欣赏他们工作的人说
whose work you really like, work you really appreciate.
我认为你的工作做得太棒了
I think your work is incredible!
我放了个感叹号在那儿
Well, I’ve put an exclamation mark there
因为无论何时我欣赏别人的工作
because whenever I preach I appreciate someone’s work,
我会因此感到兴奋
I actually get my excited about it
我实际上是用一种特别的音调来说
and I actually say in this particular tone by saying
我认为你的工作做得太棒了
“I think your work is incredible.”
这句话是给所有
So well, this is for all the people
与你一起工作的或者你特别了解的
who you work with or who you know professionally
做了丰功伟绩的人 如果你想鼓励他们
who do some great work and if you want to encourage them,
如果你想夸赞他们
if you want to say something nice to them
比起说一些平常而无趣的话
it’s just saying something as simple plain and boring
如 你今天看起来很美
as “you look nice today”,
哇哦 你的办公室真不错
“oh wow, you have a nice office”,
你可以说 我认为你的工作做得太棒了
you could just say, “I think your work is incredible.”
这会让人感觉如沐春风
And that would really make the person feel really good and appreciated.
继续往下看 这一句
Moving on, now this one,
这只能用于
you should reserve only for
特别的情形或特殊的人
special occasions or special people.
如今 我们总是在
Now we always come across people
个人和网络生活中碰到各种人
in our personal lives and network lives
他们确实会激励我们在工作中做得更好
who really inspire us to do better in terms of work
或成为更优秀的人
or to become better people
你明白的
or to kind of you know,
在言谈举止方面做得更好
be better in the way we speak or carry ourselves
或让我们在
or be better in the way
外貌 衣着或搭配方面做得更好
we look or dress or groom ourselves.
这种人给人鼓舞 就是说
Now such people are very inspiring meaning,
他们鼓励着你
they encourage you
去养成同样的品质
to have the same quality.
好的 如果你知道
Okay so if you know
有人激励着你在工作上做得更好
somebody who really inspires you to be better at work
或者如果你知道一个人很真诚
or if you know somebody who’s face sincere
当你看到那个人时 你会受到鼓舞
but we when you look at that person, you get inspired
要成为一个真诚又努力工作的人
to become really sincere and hardworking,
这时 你可以用这句话来赞美他
then you could just compliment that person by saying,
你知道吗 你激励着我
“you know what, you inspire me”
或者说 每当我看到你
or “whenever I look at you,”
你总是激励着我去成为一个更好的人
“you always inspire me to become a better person.”
这是个很好的赞美 但是我要告诉你
Now that’s a great compliment but let me tell you
这种赞美不能用在所有人身上
this compliment cannot be given to justabout anyone.
这只能用在一个
It has to be for somebody
让你发自内心的感到高兴并激励着你的
who genuinely makes you feel very excited and inspired
让你自己想变得更好的人身上
and makes you want to become better
无论在工作中或是作为一个人
either at your work or as a person.
所以 务必把这句话留给
So make sure you reserve this one for all those
你生命中特别的重要的人 你激励着我
special and important people in your life, you inspire me.
继续往下看 这句是
Moving on, there is,
我认为你将会成为很优秀的父母
I think you’ll make a wonderful parent.
我们都有朋友
Now we all have friends
要么怀孕了
who are either expecting children
要么想要有自己的孩子 要么有时
or want to have children or sometimes are not very
不确定如何为人父母
sure about how they’ll be as parents.
所以 当你听你的朋友
So if you really listen to your friends
谈论他们的恐惧和不安
or these people talking about their fears and insecurities,
而你又不知道如何改善这种情况时
now you don’t know how to make it better,
但你可以通过这句话来
but you can give them a compliment
提前赞美他们 你知道吗
well in advance by saying, “you know what,”
我真的认为你将会是一个优秀的父母
“I really think that you will make a wonderful, kind parent.”
现在当你这样说
now when you say that,
好像提前给他们一个赞美他们
it’s like giving them a compliment in advance
因为他们还没准备好做父母 但是同时
because they’re not already parents but at the same time,
你在给他们鼓励
you are encouraging them
给他们自信
and giving them confidence.
如果从你那得到的赞美可以实现这两件事
Now if one compliment from you can achieve both these things,
鼓励人们并给人自信
encouraging somebody and giving them confidence,
那么 我认为这是一句很好的赞美
then I think it’s a wonderful compliment.
所以你一定要在
so you must use it
恰当的情形中
as and when it’s relevant to the situation
告诉人们不要担心
and tell the person you know what don’t worry,
我确信你将会是很优秀的父母
I’m sure you’ll make a wonderful parent or
或者告诉你认识的
or let’s say a couple that you know
刚刚宣布要生孩子的夫妇
just announced that they’re gonna have a baby.
你可以走向他们 然后说
So you could walk up to them and say,
恭喜两位
“congratulations to the both of you,”
我认为你们将会是很优秀的父母
“I think you will both make wonderful parents.”
现在这个还没有发生
Now, this hasn’t already happened
但这就像源于你的自信
but it’s like a confidence of yours
你相信他们将会成为很优秀的父母
that you know that they’ll really be wonderful parents
这就是你用这句话赞美的原因
which is why you’ll use this compliment.
继续往下看 这句话
Moving on, now this one
不需要我的任何鼓励
doesn’t need any encouragement from me.
好的 如果你有一个很好的朋友
Okay if you have a wonderful friend,
无论是伤心还是愉快的时候
someone who’s been there for you
一直在陪伴着你
in bad times and in good times,
那么很自然地 告诉你的朋友
then very naturally, you can just go tell that person
你知道吗 你真是一个好朋友
you know what, you’re an amazing friend,
我很幸运我的生命中有你
I’m so lucky to have you in my life.
这经常发生
Now it always happens
你所认识的朋友来了又离开了
that you kind of know your friends in and out.
你知道他们的品行 他们的优劣势
You know their qualities, their strengths, their weaknesses
很多时候
and a lot of times,
朋友之间不会太过恭维
compliments don’t really flow well between friends
因为彼此已经非常熟悉了
because we are already so familiar.
但是偶尔 可以在友谊日
But once in a while, maybe on Friendship day
或在他们的生日 或在特殊的时机
or on their birthday or on a special occasion,
你可以说这话让朋友觉得自己是受重视的
you can always make your friend feel very valued by saying,
你真是一个好朋友
“you’re such an amazing friend.”
说这句话足矣 不需要再多说
You say this line and you need not say more
因为这样让你朋友知道
because it kind of shows
那个人对你意味着多少
your friend how much that person means to you.
继续往下看 这是我最喜欢的赞美句之一
Moving on, this one is one of my favorite compliments.
在生命历程中
Now in the course of life,
遇到了许多人
one comes across many people
许多真正友善的 有同情心的 慷慨的人
who are genuinely kind, compassionate, generous
他们做的很多工作不仅是为自己
who doing a lot of good work not just for themselves
也是为了别人
but for other people.
所以如果你遇到这种人
So if you come across somebody like that,
比方说 有人
let’s say somebody who is doing
为了孩子做了很多事
a lot of work for kids.
一个人为贫困的孩子工作
You know, somebody who’s working with underprivileged kids
或有人做了很多社区服务
or somebody who is doing a lot of community service,
相比告诉他
you know what, instead of telling that person,
你做得很好
you’re doing great work.
这有点平常
Now that is kind of common
因为人们知道他或她从事着伟大的工作
because the person knows he or she is doing great work,
这就是为什么他们要这样做
which is why they are doing that work.
你可以像这样说 你好有爱心啊
You could just something like, what a kind heart you have!
这样说效果更好
And that’s such a beautiful thing to say
同时你也可以对那些非常熟悉的人
and you could say this to somebody you know really well
或刚遇见的人说
or to someone you’ve justmet.
那你要怎么说呢
Now how are you saying that?
根据他们的工作
You’re saying this based on their work
或他们接人待物的行为方式
or based on their behaviour towards certain people and certain things.
所以 你可以说
So you can just say,
哇 你真有爱心
“wow, what a kind heart you have!”
我希望我可以像你一样
“I wish I could just be like you.”
我想 这样很受人喜欢
And I think that is flattering.
同时 这是给别人的极好的赞美
At the same time, it’s a fantastic compliment to give.
我希望你们可以理解
So well I really hope that you’ve figured out
如何给别人有力而有意义的赞美
how to give people great meaningful compliments
这样能给他们的生活带来价值
that add value to their life
给你们的关系增值
and add value to your relationship with them
不要说你看起来很好这样普通无趣的赞美
instead of your normal, plain, boring compliments
而是说你看起来很高兴
like you look great, you look happy.
哇 我喜欢你的穿着
Wow, I love what you’re wearing
因为这些听起来都很肤浅
coz all of these can seem very shallow
当你交谈时用像这样的真正的赞美句
when you talk about real compliments like these.
所以下次你看见别人身上好的品质
So next time you see some amazing quality in a person
尝试着赞美那些品质
try and compliment that quality
这将是一种有意义的赞美
and that will make for a meaningful compliment.
希望你们可以享受今天的课程
I really hope that you’ve enjoyed today’s lesson
确保订阅了我们的频道
and make sure you subscribe to our channel.
我们回头见
I’m going to catch you later.
我是瑞玛 下回见
This is me, Rima, signing out.

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赞美时常出现在我们生活中,如何做到正确且有意义地赞美他人呢?Rima老师带给我们7个赞美的句子,让我们一起来看下!

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