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如何找到陪你练习英语的人?

How to Find People to Practice English

Hey naturals, welcome back to Go Natural English group.
嗨 自然者们 欢迎回到《自然英语》小组
We speak English fluently, confidently like a native naturally.
我们流利且自信地说英语 就像当地人一样自然
Today , we are going to learn how to win friends through English.
今天 我们将学习如何通过英语来交朋友
Yes, how to be more likable
没错 如何让自己更讨人喜欢
and how to connect with other people who also speak English.
如何与同样说着英语的人交流
So this is going to be really a life-changing lesson.
所以这真是一堂改变生活的课程
So I hope you’ll stay around and watch the whole thing.
我希望你能留下来 听完全部内容
Now if this is your first time here then welcome.
如果你是第一次听课 那么欢迎你
I’m Gabby, the founder and host of Go Natural English.
我是Gabby 《自然英语》的创始人和主持人
And our amazing Go natural English team teacher , Hale,
我们《自然英语》团队出色的老师Hale
is going to teach these lessons.
将教授这些课程
So Hale take it away.
那么 Hale老师上场吧
Hi guys, it’s me Hale.
大家好 我是Hale
And I have a question for you.
我有一个问题问大家
Do you ever have trouble finding someone to practice English with?
你曾经在找人练习英语上遇到过困难吗?
I’m not talking about a teacher or a language tutor
我说的不是老师 或者是语言教师
or someone that you pay to help you with your English.
或需要付钱才会帮助你提高英语的人
But I’m talking about just everyday language practice.
我现在谈论的是日常语言练习
Because this is a major problem that people can have especially beginners
因为找不到人做日常英语对话练习
is that they can’t find someone in everyday conversation to practice English with.
是每个人都会遇到的大问题 尤其是对于初学者
And there’s a reason for this.
遇到这个问题是有原因的
A lot of people, a lot of native English speakers
许多以英语为母语的人
don’t want to speak to beginner speakers,
不愿意和初学者聊天
because the conversation is so limited.
因为聊天内容受到很大的限制
You need to make people really want to talk to you.
你需要让别人真正想跟你说话
you need to make them want to be your friend,
你需要让他们想成为你的朋友
not just someone they’re helping with English.
而不仅仅只是帮助你练习英语
Today, I’m going to talk to you about how to make anyone like you
今天我要讲的是 如何让他人喜欢你
when you talk to them in English.
当你和他们用英语交谈的时候
So first, a little background.
首先 来一点背景知识
What I’m gotta tell you today is based on a very popular book.
今天我要给大家讲述的内容 基于一本十分畅销的书
The book is called How to Win Friends and Influence People
这本书叫做《人性的弱点》
by an author named Dale Carnegie.
作者是戴尔·卡耐基
Now this book was written over 80 years ago.
这本书是八十多年前写的
It’s a classic in business and self-help.
它是一本关于事业和自立的经典书籍
It has sold over 15 million copies worldwide.
它在全世界售出了一千五百多万本
So it is a time-tested book.
所以它是一本经得起时间检验的书
So the tips I’m gonna give you today are directly from this book.
今天我要教给你们的技巧 都直接出自于这本书
The author Dale Carnegie was born into poverty
作者戴尔•卡耐基出生在美国
in a small farm in the United States.
的一个小农场里 从小家境贫困
And using the techniques that he writes about in this book,
通过运用他写在这本书中的技巧
he was able to bring his family out of poverty and become very successful.
卡耐基领着家人走出了贫困 也变得非常成功
And this was back in the 1930s.
那是1930年的事情
This was long ago , over eighty years ago.
年代比较久远 都过了80多年了
So I’m going to share with you six tips from Dale Carnegie
我将和你分享来自戴尔·卡耐基的六个技巧
on how to make anyone like you.
如何让每个人都喜欢你的技巧
来自戴尔·卡内基的六个技巧 关于如何让每个人都喜欢你
Tip number one.
技巧一
Be genuinely interested in the other person,
真正对他人感兴趣
now, sometimes we just want to practice English.
有时我们只是想练习英语
We want to get the hours in of English practice,
我们想要花几个小时来练习英语
so we can become fluent.
那样我们的英语就能变得更流利
But the other person is going to be on to you.
但是那些将要跟你交谈的人
They might know that you just want to practice English with them
可能会发现你只是想和他们练习英语
and that you aren’t really interested.
而不是真的有兴趣和他们聊天
So you need to ask yourself.
所以你有必要问问你自己
Are you genuinely interested in this person?
你真的对这个和你练习英语的人感兴趣吗?
Do you like to spend time with them,
如果不练习英语
if you weren’t practicing English?
你愿意花时间和他们在一起吗?
Would you want to spend time with them?
你愿意花时间和他们在一起吗?
And be brutally honest with yourself.
你要勇于诚实地面对自己
Because if you’re not genuinely interested in the other person,
因为如果你不是发自真心地对他人感兴趣
they’re going to know and they’re not going to want to spend time with you
他们将会察觉到 也不会愿意花时间
and talk to you in English
用英语跟你聊天
So if they’re not interested in them, that’s okay.
如果你对他们不感兴趣 那也没有关系
There are billions of people in the world
世界上有数十亿的人
and many of them speak English,
其中许多人都会说英语
and you can find them find someone that you’re interested in.
你可以找到你感兴趣的人
You can find them online in your town.
你可以通过网络在你的小镇找到他们
Just be sure that you’re genuinely interested in this person.
只要确信你是真心对这个人感兴趣
Now, tip number two.
技巧二
This one’s easy, tip number two is smile.
这个技巧很容易 那就是微笑
This one is pretty self-explanatory,
这个技巧非常容易理解
but a smile is like an invitation to friendship.
微笑就好像是你对友谊发出的一张邀请函
So just be smiling when you’re talking and when you’re during the conversation
当你和他人交谈或者倾听的时候 保持微笑就好
Now you don’t want to be creepy about it,
现在你不会笑得很怪异吧
you don’t want to look like this,
你不需要笑起来像这个样子
that would be creepy,
那样就有点怪异了
so have like a natural smile like this.
只需一个很自然的微笑 就像这样
Tip number three.
技巧三
Remember their name.
记住他们的名字
Now, this should be an obvious one.
这点是很重要的
But a lot of people forget it,
但是很多人会忘记这一点
a lot of people don’t remember names,
很多人不记得别人的名字
and they say, oh, I’m bad with names.
他们会说 噢 我不擅长记名字
No, I used to be the same way.
不 我过去也和你一样
I used to tell everyone,
过去我常常告诉别人
oh, I’m bad with names, I don’t remember your name.
我不善于记名字 我记不住你的名字
But really it’s a decision,
但这真的是决心问题
if you want to remember names,
如果你想记住这些名字
first, you need to commit to being a person
首先 你要下定决心当一个
that can remember names, make the commitment.
能够记住别人名字的人 一定要下定决心
And now when you’re talking to a person,
当你和一个人聊天的时候
if the way to remember their name, there’s a few tricks here.
如果想记住他们的名字 有几个方法可以帮助你
Number one.
方法一
You can repeat their name,
你可以重复他们的名字
so when you’re in the conversation repeat their name a few times
你可以在交谈中多次重复他们的名字
and then that will help put it in your memory.
这样能够帮助你记住他们的名字
And also another way to do it
另外一种方法
is to associate their face with their name.
是把他们的脸和名字联系在一起
So this is a memory trick of Association.
这是一种联想记忆方法
And so when you hear their name,
当你听到他们名字的时候
think of an image that that name reminds you of
想象那个名字在你脑海中浮现的形象
and then in your mind associate their face with that image,
然后在你的脑海里 把他们的脸和形象相结合
and this trick when you see their face again,
当你再次看到他们的脸时
you will think of the image which will remind you of their name.
你就会想起脑海里的形象 这会让你想起他们的名字
So those are some quick tips on how to remember names.
这些就是让你快速记住名字的方法
But remembering names is an important part
如果你想要某个人喜欢你
if you want someone to like you,
记住他人名字是很重要的
they want to feel special.
他们也想要感到与众不同
Tip number four is be a good listener now.
技巧四 从现在开始做一个好的倾听者
this one can be hard when you are a beginner English speaker,
在你还是个英语初学者时 要做到这点比较难
because you are trying to think of
因为你正在努力思考
the next thing to say in the conversation,
在对话中 下一句应该说什么
instead of actually listening very carefully to what the person is saying,
而不是认真地听对方在说什么
and this is because you don’t want to be caught off guard,
这是因为你不想感到措手不及
when your time to speak comes
当轮到你说话的时候
that you don’t know what to say and you feel dumb.
你却不知道说什么 就会觉得自己很蠢
So I know I’ve been there when I’m learning other languages,
当我学习其它语言时 也遇到过这种情况
I try to plan what I’m going to say while the other person is talking,
当别人在说话时 我就在努力酝酿下一句要说什么
and the problem with this is
这样做的问题在于
you haven’t really heard what they said
你没有真正听到他们说了什么
and you haven’t showed that you’re interested in what they said
你没有通过你的肢体语言和回答
in your body language and in your response.
显示出你对他们说话内容的兴趣
So a way to counteract this is to be an active listener.
解决这个问题的办法就是 做一个积极的倾听者
And being an active listener, there’s like several ways.
要做个积极的倾听者 有以下几种方法
There’s the body language you can nod along while they’re talking,
他们说话的时候 你可以通过点头这种身体语言
let them know that you’re listening.
来让他们知道你正在倾听
And also you can repeat back what they said to you
当他们结束说话的时候
when they are finished talking to show that you understood,
你可以复述他们对你说过的话 来表示你听明白了
not just repeat exactly but to acknowledge what they said,
不要只是重复 而是要认可他们说的
and then repeat it back in your own words.
然后再用你自己的语言进行复述
Now, this will show them that you were listening
这样能向他们显示你有在听他们说话
and it will also help you express yourself in English.
这也能帮助你用英语来表达自己
Because you will get to resummarise
因为你将再次总结
what someone else just told you in English.
别人刚刚用英语告诉你的东西
So it’s a win-win situation.
因此 这是一种双赢的局面
Now tip number five
技巧五
is about talking in terms of other people’s interests.
就是根据别人的兴趣爱好来聊天
So now this one can be a little bit counterintuitive for a beginner English speaker,
对英语初学者来说 这个技巧可能有点反常
because we often learn that like learn how to talk about yourself.
因为我们学的多是如何谈论自己
Learn how to talk about your background,
学习如何谈论你的背景
talk about your interests, talk about your job,
你的兴趣爱好 你的工作
talk about where you’re from and that’s all very important.
你来自哪里 所有的这些确实很重要
You should definitely know how to say that.
你必须知道该如何表达上述内容
But when you’re trying to get someone to like you,
但是当你在尝试让别人喜欢你时
because you want them to be your English speaking partner or your friend,
因为你想要他们成为你的英语对话伙伴 或者朋友
both preferably,
两个都挺好
then you need to really show more interest in what they’re saying,
那你就真的要对他们说话的内容表示感兴趣
and this is part of its being an active listener,
这是成为一名积极倾听者的一部分
which was tip number four.
也就是技巧四
But now we need to actually talk
但是现在 我们需要更深入谈论
and develop further about what they’re interested in.
并进一步了解 他们感兴趣的内容
And you might say,
你也许会说
but I don’t have the vocabulary right now to talk about that
可我现在没有足够的词汇量去谈论那些
and that’s true, that might be true.
这是真的 也许是真的
Maybe right now, you don’t have the vocabulary,
可能现在你没有足够的词汇量
so this is this conversation step one,
所以这是对话的第一步
and then step two is to learn the vocabulary,
第二步是在下次和他们聊天之前
about what they’re interested in in the near next conversation with them.
提前学习他们感兴趣话题的相关词汇
You can continue developing that conversation about their interests,
围绕他们感兴趣的话题 你可以不断展开对话
because people really like to talk about what they’re interested in,
因为人们都喜欢谈论自己感兴趣的话题
and this these tips are about how to make people like you
当你和别人用英语交谈的时候
when you’re speaking with them in English.
这些都是关于如何让别人喜欢你的技巧
So this is a great one.
所以 这是一个很棒的技巧
And tip number six,
技巧六
now this is a culmination of all the tips.
这是所有技巧的最终结果
Tip number six is make the other person feel important.
技巧六就是让别人感到自己是重要的
So if you followed tip one through five,
如果你用了前面五个技巧
the other person should feel super important right now
别人应该会立刻感觉到自己非常重要
and want to be around you,
并且想和你在一起
because we Pete when you make someone feel important.
因为当我们让别人感觉到自己很重要的时候
They want to spend time with you.
他们就愿意花时间和你在一起
They’re going to want to talk to you.
他们将会愿意和你聊天
They’re gonna want to be around you
他们想要在你身边
and then you’re going to be able to practice your English with them.
这样你就能够和他们练习英语了
It’s a win-win situation.
这是一种双赢的局面
Everybody gets something.
每个人都有所收获
People get a friend, people get to practice English.
有人交到了朋友 有人练习了英语
Everyone wins like I said.
正如我所言 每个人都是赢家
Now these six tips,
我说的这六个技巧
they don’t just have to be used for practicing English.
它们并不仅仅是用来练习英语的
You can use them in your everyday life, in your native language.
你可以把这些技巧用到你的日常生活和母语环境中
That’s the beauty of these tips.
这才是这些技巧的魅力所在
They can be used for anything to get people to want to be around you,
它们可以用于任何情境 使得大家愿意和你在一起
and spend time with you and talk to you.
与你共度时光 和你聊天
So get out there and practice them today.
所以今天就出去练习一下这些技巧吧
I want you to think right now.
我想让你现在就想一想
Who is the one person today that I can practice this on?
我可以把这些技巧运用在谁的身上?
And then go do it,
开始行动起来吧
and also, I want you to comment below
我也希望你能在下方评论
and tell us which of these tips was the most surprising.
告诉我们在这些技巧里 哪个是最有用的
Maybe you’ve heard tips about how to
也许你听说过关于如何
make make people like you and be more sociable.
让人们喜欢你和让自己更受人喜爱的技巧
But were any of these six tips a big surprise for you?
但对你而言 这六个技巧 哪一个才算是大惊喜呢?
Let us know below, but most importantly.
请在下方留言让我们知道 但最重要的是
Get out there and put them into action.
上完课就把它们付诸实践吧
You can do this.
你可以做到的
You can make people want to talk to you when you speak English.
当你说英语的时候 你可以让人们愿意跟你聊天
Go get it.
赶紧行动起来
This was an awesome lesson. If you enjoyed it,
这是一堂很棒的课 如果你喜欢的话
then make sure to subscribe hit the button right down there,
一定要点击下方按钮进行订阅
and make sure to turn on notifications.
一定要打开消息通知
Now, if you would like to learn more with go natural English,
现在 如果你想在《自然英语》学到更多东西
join our fluency challenge happening this week.
就请加入我们这个星期将要开始的流利挑战
You can sign up by clicking right down there,
你可以点击下方链接报名
and going to go natural English dot com slash challenge.
前往gonaturalEnglish.com/challenge
I hope to see you there. Bye for now.
我希望在流利挑战中看到你 再见

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六个技巧教你快速找到和你练习英语的人。

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