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如何变得有吸引力 - 终极吸引力策略

How To Be Attractive - The Ultimate Attraction Strategy

大家好 这里是Actualized.org 我是里奥
Hi, this is Leo for Actualized.org.
本视频中我想要告诉大家 怎么变得有吸引力
In this video I’m gonna tell you how to be attractive
做心态的主人 创造非凡人生
[Master your psychology. Create an extraordinary life]
怎么变得有吸引力?让我们来说说看
OK, how to be attractive? Let’s crack into it.
这将是个快速的自助环节
This is gonna be a quick, self-help segment.
我会给你指出关键点 而不是没用的花招
But I am gonna give you the key, not some sort of little gimmick.
我会进行深入的讲解
And I can go in, I give you a list of
教给你们一些方法和技巧
a lot of little techniques and tips that you can use
来增加对异性的吸引力
to increase your attractiveness to the opposite sex
无论你是男生还是女生都能派上用场
whether you’re a guy, or a girl.
我想带给你们一些有深度的东西
But I wanna actually give you something that is very deep
这些内容需要你们花点工夫领悟
and this’s gonna take some effort on your part to understand.
因为这是一个深奥的概念
Cuz this is a profound idea
如果你懂得这个道理 并将它运用到生活当中
that if you just take this principle, and you apply it to your life,
那么你对异性的吸引力
the amount of attraction that you will generate from the opposite sex
将会大到离谱 这是个很有用的概念
is gonna be ridiculous, it’s such a powerful idea.
在这个部分 我会着重讲讲这种概念
And in the segment, I’m just gonna focus on it,
并在结束时提出一些观点
and one little point in the end,
那么这个概念是什么呢?我们一起来看看吧
but what is this idea? Let’s get into it.
接下来我就要讲了 但你可能会不太喜欢
So here it is, and you might not like it.
不过正因如此 它才是有用的
But this is why it’s powerful.
我想让你完全摒弃
I want you to be completely detached from meeting
只有遇到那个人 人生才能圆满这种观念
anyone to fulfill you in your life.
好 这是什么意思呢?
Alright, what does this mean?
意思是 我想要你明白
This means that I want you to realize,
事实上 成长到一定阶段 你会发现
and this is a deeper truth that you will realize with enough personal development work,
你的人生不需要任何人
that you do not need anyone in your life,
来取悦你或满足你 尽管现在看来它可能是对的
to make you happy or fulfilled, despite what it might seem like right now.
你可能会说 会说
Now, I know you might be saying, you might be saying,
“里奥 重点是 我之所以谈恋爱是因为我想
“Well, Leo, the whole point of getting into a relationship is because I want,
是因为我需要爱 想变得有同理心
I wanna have love, I wanna have compassion,
想要快乐 想做一切有趣的事
I wanna have excitement, I wanna do all these fun things,
想找到我的灵魂伴侣 或者我想结婚
I wanna find my soul mate, maybe I wanna get married,
我想有孩子 我想有个很棒的家庭” 等等
I wanna have children, I wanna raise a good family.” All these things.
你知道这都没错 这些都很好
You know, nothing wrong with that. That’s all well and good.
但是 我可以保证 你最大的问题
But I can guarantee that the biggest problem you’re having
如果你在一段感情中没有吸引力
if you’re not being attractive in a relationship,
不是你不够漂亮
is not that you’re not pretty enough,
或是你的行为异于常人
or that you’re behaving in some weird ways,
或是你做错了事
or you’re doing something incorrectly.
这种心理 这种心态是非常常见的
It’s a general idea, this philosophy, this mindset,
当你投身于一段感情
that you’re going into the relationship,
你会想让对方
with the need for somebody
成为你的另一半 能够满足你
to be your second half, to fulfill you.
这非常好理解
And it’s very easy to get caught up in this,
因为这就是主流媒体告诉我们的
because mainstream media puts out this notion
什么是爱 什么是浪漫 什么是恋情
of what love, and romance, and relationships are like,
如果我们观看电影 阅读故事和倾听童话故事
if we watch movies, and watch stories, and listen to fairy tales,
我们会觉得爱是这样的
we get this picture that love is this,
找到一个人 让自己变完整
finding somebody else to complete you.
但这不是真正的爱
That is not what true love is.
这不是一段健康的感情
That is not what a healthy relationship is.
健康的关系应该是双方 男方和女方
A healthy relationship is one in which both parties, both man and woman,
或者不管你们的关系是
or whatever your relationship ends up being,
女女 男男 男女情侣都好
girl girl guy guy, girl guy doesn’t matter.
都要保持自信 独立 自己开心
You need to be confident and independent and happy by yourself.
对方也一样
And so does the other person.
只有这样 你们两个才能在一起
And only then, can you two come together,
实现1+1>2的效果
and create something that is greater than the sum of its parts.
这挺难的 我可能把你搞晕了
This’s hard. I gotta wrap your head around,
因为尤其是如果你现在感到孤单
because especially if you’re feeling lonely right now,
你感到你的生活中缺少了些什么
and you feel like you’re lacking something in your life,
你感觉 好吧 要是我能拥有那个男孩或那个女孩该多好
and you feel like, well, if only I had that guy or that girl,
如果我能拥有上一份感情中的那份爱该多好
if only I had that love, that I had maybe a previous relationship,
如果我能让我们旧情复燃该多好
if I could rekindle that kind of spark again,
那么 我将会很高兴 很满足 我的生命将变得完整
then I would be happy, I will be content, my life will be complete.
这就是问题所在 这对异性毫无吸引力
Well, that’s the problem. That’s highly unattractive to the opposite sex.
实际上这里有两点
There’re actually two points here:
第一点比较浅显易懂 即表层含义
first is the more shallow point, the surface of the point,
就是 这其实挺令人反感的
that is simply actually repulsive to the other person.
当你有那种思维的时候
And then when you’re coming from that mind frame,
你实际上将排斥他人 而不是吸引他人
you’re actually gonna be repelling rather than attracting people,
这是因为当你极度渴望 极度需要他人时
that’s because, well, when you’re desperate, and when you’re needy,
其他人并不想围绕在你身边
other people do not want to be around you,
至少对于那些你所需要的人来说是这样
at least not the kind of person that you want in your life.
当你处在需要别人和渴望之中
What you’re gonna attract, when you’re needy and desperate,
只会吸引到那些和你类似的人
is gonna attract somebody else who’s on that same level.
所以你可能吸引到同样需要他人的 渴望的人
So you might attract someone who is also gonna be needy and desperate,
或是你什么人也吸引不到
or you might not attract anyone at all.
那个人绝对不是你想要的人 因为他既贪婪又充满渴求
That’s definitely not someone you want, it’s a needy and desperate person.
这将会产生一种失调的关系
That’s gonna create a dysfunctional codependent relationship,
你想要吸引的人
instead what you want is you want to attract someone
应该是一个同样自信 稳定又快乐的人 而你也是一样
who’s equally confident and stable and happy themselves, just as they are,
这样当你们两个在一起时 一切都会非常合拍
so that when you two come together, things clicking, things are good.
再往深里讲
Now this goes deeper, too.
你之所以不想成为这样一个贪婪又渴求的人
The reason that you do not want to be in this needy, desperate position
是因为你所做的一切于自己而言都是不真实的
is because actually what you’re doing is you’re being inauthentic to yourself.
你并没有真的领会到 靠自己可以快乐的真相
You’re not really in touch with the fact that you can be happy by yourself.
你真正寻求的 是寻求依靠
And what you’re actually looking for, you’re looking for a crutch
你在利用你所谓的另一半 即便你说这是爱情
and you’re using this other person even though you call it love,
是浪漫 是满足
and you call it romance and fulfillment,
实际上你就是在利用另一个人
actually what you’re doing is using that other person
来填补自我的空缺
as a crutch to fill a void in your own ego.
就是这样
That is there.
这就是问题所在 这就是令人不舒服的地方
And here’s the thing, here’s the really mind-blowing thing,
即使你得到了这个人
is that even if you get that person,
找到了那个最合适的人来填补那个空缺
and you find that perfect person to fit that hole
你心中的那个男孩
that boy that you have in yourself,
还是不会起什么作用
it’s not actually gonna work.
这和跟谁交往没关系
It’s not different than going out there.
比如 一个传统意义上的商人
For example, and you know that stereotypical businessman that goes out there
他把握着公司的晋升大权
and tries to dominate corporate ladder
他想要挣上几百万美元 并且认为那样自己就能快乐
and tries to earn a million dollars and thinks that’s gonna make him happy
当他走到最后
and when he gets to the end of that whole journey,
他才发现 他并没比刚开始时开心
he finds out he’s not happier than when he started.
从金钱的角度来看 这是非常非常真实的
That’s very, very true from a money perspective,
从人际关系的角度来看 也同样非常真实
but it’s also very true from a relationship perspective.
如果你觉得某个人会来陪你
If you think that somebody else is gonna come in there
满足你 填补你自我的空缺
and fulfill you, fulfill that gap in your ego,
那是不可能的 原因如下
it’s not gonna happen. And here’s why.
因为你实际是在逃避某些事情
Because you’re actually running away from something,
某些你内在的东西 一些你心理上无法直面的东西
there’s something within you, within your psychology that you’re not facing up to.
并且当你用一些权宜之计
And when you avoid that by just going and getting a quick fix
像性爱 交朋友 谈恋爱 结婚
of sex, or companionship, or love, or marriage,
组建家庭或是其他的一些方式来逃避它的时候
or starting a family, whatever that is,
你所做的一切只是在自己更深的伤口上
all that’s doing is that putting a Band-Aid over
贴上一张创可贴
a much deeper wound that you have within yourself.
因为 说实话 你不需要任何人就能快乐
Because honestly, you do not need anyone to be happy.
这对世界上的每个人都适用
And this applies for everybody in the entire world.
你靠自己就能获得快乐
You can be completely happy all by yourself.
你不需要任何人来满足你
You do not need anyone to fulfill you,
如果你觉得 对你来说不是这样
and if you feel like that’s not true for you,
好吧 我得揭露一个惊人的真相了
well, then I got a shocking revelation.
那是因为你没有充分地自省
And that is because you have not done enough introspection
不够了解你自己 不知道你的癖好
and have not figured out what your quirks are,
不知道你所持的成见 不了解你自身的缺陷
what your limiting beliefs are, what your ego deficiencies are.
你个人发展的功课做得不够
You’ve not done enough personal development work
还没有能把握好那部分
to get that part of your life handled.
所以我正在告诉你 把握好那一部分
So what I’m telling you is, get that part of your life handled,
保持淡然 你会变得有吸引力
be detached and you will be attractive.
你不仅仅会变得有吸引力 还会得到满足
So not only will you be attractive, you’ll also be fulfilled,
这是非常重要的一点
which is really even more important.
但对于吸引力这个东西 对于异性 男孩们 女孩们
But with the attractiveness thing, what‘s attractive to the opposite sex,
什么才是吸引人的
to guys and to girls, it’ll be able to
可能就是完全真实 百分之百的真实
be completely authentic, a hundred percent authentic,
变得完完全全 百分之百真实
and to be completely a hundred percent authentic,
你要对自己有信心
you have to able to be confident in who you are and
你要能让别人走进和走出你的生活
you have to be able to let people come and go into your life
却不需要把他们作为依靠
without needing to clutch on to them,
不需要依附他们 也不需要控制他们
and cling to them, and hold them.
这一点普遍适用 不论你现在是单身
Now this applies whether you are single right now,
或者你有女朋友 男朋友
or you’re in some sort of boy girlfriend boyfriend relationship,
亦或你已经结婚
or even if you’re married.
好 即便你已经结婚 你也不应该把自己和配偶捆绑在一起
Alright, even if you’re married, you should not be attached to your spouse,
你的生活可以不需要配偶
you should not need that spouse to be in your life.
如果你这样做了 我能预见
If you do, then I got a very high probability of
这段婚姻或感情很可能会在几年之内变质
predicting that marriage, or that relationship, is gonna go sour
可能会更快一些
within a few years, maybe even sooner,
也可能过个五年 十年
or maybe within 5 years, 10 years,
但是最终 它注定不能长久
but in the end, it’s not gonna be able to last,
因为它建立在虚伪和不真实之上
because it’s built on something that’s fake.
它不真实
It’s not authentic.
如果你希望从某人身上获取什么 就无法对他真诚
You could not be authentic with someone that you need something from.
总的来说 你需要让自己进入一种更深层次的关系
Generally, what you really need to come into a deep relationship of,
也就是我在做的事
this’s something that I’ve been doing,
比如我一直在进行更多的沉思
as I’ve been doing more meditation,
自己多做一些启蒙工作
more enlightenment work on myself,
我有了一些更深的理解
is I’ve been really coming to deeper understanding
即在这世上 别人能帮我做的事
that there’s nothing that anyone in the world
我都能自己做
can offer me that I cannot offer myself.
当然 这并不意味着
Now, of course, that doesn’t mean that,
我可以自己修水管 修车
I can fix my own plumbing, or I can repair my own car,
我可以自己种东西吃
or I can grow my own food.
我需要有人为我做这些
I need people for that.
是的 我们需要依靠他人来做各种事情
Sure, we depend on each other for those kinds of things.
我们生活在社会中
We live in a society.
我所谈的是心理上的依赖
What I’m talking about the psychological dependency.
你不需要任何人在心理方面满足你
You do not need someone to fulfill you psychologically.
至少 你不应该
At least you shouldn’t. Right now,
到现在 说了这么多 可能都不符合你的情况
that is most likely not the case for you.
我们花了很多时间切入正题
It takes a lot of work to get to the point
现在到了重点
when you’re really there.
我自己也没完全到那种状态 但我正努力的去做
I’m not there myself, I’m working on this,
现在 非常积极地去做
right now, very actively.
但是你需要更加关注这件事
But you need to start getting more awareness of this,
它是一种你所具有的心理依赖
is the more psychological dependency you have
对你的父母 兄弟姐妹 配偶
on your parents, on your siblings, on your spouse,
孩子 上司 生命中的每个人
on your children, on your boss, on anyone in life.
一旦你觉得他们真的可以给你一些有价值的东西
As long as you think that they can really give you something of value,
你就开始走偏了
then what’s gonna happen is you’re gonna set,
你会觉得有必要牺牲自我 压抑个性
you’re gonna feel a need to sacrifice your own authenticity.
你将不能按照自己希望的方式
You’re not gonna be able to express yourself,
来表达自己的想法
the way you want to express yourself.
然而“真实”恰恰是
And that’s what actually
最能吸引人的品质
most attractive, and most magnetic within people.
当你看到那些明星
When you see people like celebrities,
或者是那些很吸引你的人时
or you see someone that you’re really attracted to.
原因就在于那个人是完全独立的个体 对吗?
The reason that is because that person is totally outcome independent.right?
他们舒服地做自己
They’re comfortable being themselves,
他们取悦自己
and they’re happy by themselves.
他们是真的快乐 不是装出来的
They actually are happy. They’re not faking it.
不是那种装出来的淡然
This’s not some sort of fake detachment.
是真实的
This is a real
我对我的生活很满意
I’m happy with my life.
我不需要任何事情来充实它
I really don’t need anything else to complete it.
你想来就来
If you wanna come in here and you wanna
如果你想参与我现在正在做的事
kind of intermingle with what I’ve got going on,
那就来吧 看看是否起作用
then let’s do that. Let’s see if it’ll work.
我们要努力去做到 这是稳定关系的基础
We’ll try that and that’s the base of a strong relationship.
知道吗 如果不行 我们也没有任何损失 对吧?
You know what? If it doesn’t work, something doesn’t go, right?
那我们就各走各的 也不用难过
Then we’re just gonna like bounce our separate ways and not hard feelings.
因为我快乐 我也希望你快乐
Because I’m happy, I expect you to be happy.
就是这样 对吧?
And that’s just how it is, right?
这就像是两个互不依赖的个体在一起接触
It’s like two non-needy entities coming into contact with each other,
就是想看看会发生什么
and just seeing how it’s going to play out.
与正常的关系运转方式不同的是
Versus the way that a normal relationship works,
我所定义的那种失调的关系
this is, what I would define as a dysfunctional relationship,
两个人在一起是为了从对方身上各取所需
is two people coming together needing something from the other.
我需要从你这里得到性 你需要从我这里得到安全感
I need sex from you, you need security from me,
你想要从我这里得到慰藉和爱
you want comfort from me, you want love from me,
我想要从你那里得到愉悦
I want excitement from you,
我想要你的陪伴
and I want a partner from you,
我想要你的钱
and I want money from you.
你要知道 当你们进行这种交易时
You know, when you’ve got this kind of trade,
这种以牙还牙的行为
this kind of tit for tat going,
两方都不可能表现出完全的真实
then neither party is gonna be able to be completely authentic
因为你总会深深地担心
because what’s gonna happen is you’re always gonna have that fear,
你会在内心深处想
deep down that, well, hold on,
如果我做了另一方不同意的 或者不喜欢的事
if I do something that person disapproves of, that person doesn’t like,
那我有可能让他们不高兴
then I’m gonna risk upsetting them.
因为我做了一些事
I’m gonna do something that,
他们可能会不再喜欢我
maybe they’re going to stop loving me,
他们可能会生气 可能会不悦
maybe they’re gonna get angry, they’re gonna get upset,
他们可能会把之前放在我身上的某些东西收回对吗?
and they’re gonna pull something away for me,right?
他们会收回他们的爱
They’re gonna pull their love away.
收回安慰的话语
They’re gonna pull their comfort away from me.
当你处在这种关系中
And when you’re in that kind of relationship,
这种建立在担心之上的关系
that’s a relationship based on fear.
那就是一种失调的关系
That’s a dysfunctional relationship.
如果你想拥有真实的吸引力
So if you want to be really authentically attractive,
那么你要做的就是
but what you gotta do is you gotta really work on this,
从自己开始 从自己的心理开始
that I mean working on yourself, working on your psychology,
认清你自己 你懂吗
working on your own quirks. You know,
你为何如此需要爱情?
why it’s that you feel you need that love so badly?
你为何如此渴求爱情?
Why do you thirst after it?
你为何如此需要陪伴?
Why do you need that companionship so much?
为什么不能?为什么你不能悦纳自己?
Why are not? Why are you not comfortable in who you are?
为什么你一个人 不依赖他人的时候就不快乐?
Why can’t you be comfortable just by yourself without needing anybody else?
这些都是你必须要解决的事情
These are the issues you’ve got to really work out.
现在 下一个问题就是
Now, the next point is that
我非常希望你去创造属于自己的快乐生活
I really want you to create a happy life for yourself.
这就意味着 如果你现在正独自在家待着
So that means that if you’re sitting home alone right now
你不能让自己开心
and you cannot be happy by yourself,
如果你不出家门 不让自己分心 要借助刺激
without going out and distracting yourself, with some sort of stimulation,
像电视 网络 性 毒品 酒精 任何外界力量
television, Internet, sex, drugs, alcohol, whatever.
如果你自己一个人的时候不能舒服 快乐
If you’re not able to just be comfortable, happy by yourself,
你就得做点事了
then you got some work to do.
要意识到你有事要做
Realize that you got some work to do.
我同样希望你可以借助外部条件为自己创造一种好的生活
I also want you to set up a good life for yourself with nice external circumstances.
这就意味着 比如 确保你生活富足
So that means, for example, make sure that you have a rich life,
有份好工作
have a good career,
生活中还有事情能让你充满热忱
have something that you’re passionate about your life,
有人生目标
have a life purpose,
有三五知己陪伴
have some nice friends that you like to hang out with,
有点小爱好
have some hobbies that you enjoy,
解决好你的财务问题
have your money situation handled?
确保自己不对某件事上瘾
Make sure you’re unhooked from addictions,
像毒品 吸烟 酒精 暴饮暴食
like drugs, smoking, alcohol, overeating.
确保自己家庭生活幸福
Make sure you’re happy with your family life.
保证自己的健康 个人卫生良好
Make sure you have your health, your hygiene in order.
当你做到了这些 你就会快乐
When you’ve got all this stuff, you’re gonna be happy.
你在心理方面的努力不仅于此 对吧?
And also you’re gonna work on your psychology beyond that.Right?
你解决了自己的心理问题
You’ve got your psychology down.
你搞定了所有的外界因素
You’ve got all these external factors in your life down.
现在 你已经创造了属于自己的完美生活
Now, you’ve created an awesome life for yourself.
现在 你已经变得真实
Now, you can be authentic.
现在 只要你和别人交流时
Now, as long as you’re just interacting with people
那些在你之外的 身边的人们
in your out and about,
当你会有机会遇上他们时
and you have chances to bump into other people.
他们会看到一个快乐自信的你
Then they’re gonna see you being happy, and being confident,
绝对的真实 不需要什么别的
and being completely authentic, and not needing anything,
就像是“哇!酷毙了我从没遇到过这样的人”
and that may be like “Oh! That’s kind of cool. I rarely meet a person like that.”
他们将被你所吸引
And they’re gonna get attracted to you.
别小看了这件事的力量
Don’t discount how powerful this is.
可能看起来有点抽象 有点玄幻 难以置信
It seems a little bit abstract, can be airy-fairy, hard to believe.
但是 我告诉你们 这正是
But I’m telling you that this’s really the secret of building
打造长久吸引力的秘诀 绝非骗人的把戏
lasting non-gimmicky attraction.
我想说的最后一点是
And the last point that I’m gonna make is,
作为总结 照顾好身体
cuz I’m wrapping up here is, really, take care of your body,
保持个人卫生 注意身体健康
and take care of your hygiene, take care of your health.
保证规律饮食
Make sure you’re eating well.
注重基本的卫生问题
Make sure that you’re taking care of basic hygiene stuff,
刷牙 每天洗澡
brushing your teeth, showering everyday,
做瑜伽 静坐冥想
doing your yoga, your meditation,
坚持定期去健身房锻炼
your gym routine following up on that,
健康饮食 调整饮食结构
eating healthy, cleaning up your diet.
这些事情非常实际 听起来或许浅显
These are some very practical things and they might seem shallow.
但是你这么做的原因是为了你自己
But really the reason you’re doing them is you’re doing them for you
为了创造属于自己的快乐生活
and get to create a happy life for yourself.
但与此同时 你也在让自己变得更有吸引力
But you’re also going to make you attractive
因为如果你尽最大的努力照顾好自己
because if you’re taking care of yourself to the best of your ability,
解决了心理问题 你的生活就是完美的
and you’ve got your psychology down, and your life is awesome.
有谁会不想这样呢?
I mean who would not want to be a part of that?
当然 人人都会向往
Of course, they would.
每个人都希望这样
Everyone wants to be a part of that.
人们厌恶的是那种“有所求”的状态
What people are repelled by is neediness,
你在我们的关系里 只想着从我这里索取更多
you coming into our relationship and just wanting more from me, me, me.
就像是我需要这个 我需要那个
It’s like I need this. I need that.
我需要你取悦我
I need you for me to feel happy.
没人想处在这样的关系中
Nobody wants to really be in a relationship like that,
至少健康的人不会 关系失调的人可能会
not a healthy person. A dysfunctional person might.
这就会给你带来一些你不希望的结果
And then that will create something that you are not gonna want anyways.
好了 就是这样
Alright, so that’s it.
这就是如何变得有吸引力的秘密
This is the deep underlying truth how to be attractive.
不要听那些骗人的把戏 解决问题
Don’t listen to the gimmicks, solve this problem,
将依赖他人的想法扼杀在萌芽状态
nip in the bud by addressing your need for other people.
你真的不需要他们
You really don’t need other people.
搞清楚你现在为什么不高兴
Find out why you’re not happy as you are right now.
好的 我是里奥 今天的节目就要结束了
Alright. This is Leo. I’m gonna be signing off.
对我而言 这是个有趣的主题 在这个问题上我有更多的想法
This is a fascinating topic to me I’ve got more ideas on it,
关于如何变得有吸引力 有魅力
on how to be attractive and attractiveness.
关于这个话题 我还会录更多的视频
I’ll show up more videos on that coming up.
我已经上传了一些
I already got a few up there.
你们也可以看看
So check those out too,
如何吸引男孩 女孩
how to attract a guy, how to attract a girl.
我也录了相关的视频 给男孩们和女孩们
I’ve got specific videos on those too, for guys and girls
节目就要结束了 请留下你的评论
and that’s gonna to be end. Leave me your comments,
如果你愿意 点个赞 转发一下
like this, share this, if you would.
当然 请点击浏览Actualized.org
And of course, come, check out Actualized.org.
因为我们有独家的新闻资讯
Because what we’ve got on there, we’ve got exclusive newsletter,
还有独家福利 你在别处看不到
with some exclusive amazing bonuses I’m gonna find anywhere else.
我们有19部系列视频
We’ve got 19-part video series.
现在我们有机会推出一些生活指导 将由我来负责
We’ve got an opportunity to get some life couching with myself.
我是一位生活教练 我可以帮你解决一些问题
I’m a life coach. So I can help you work on issues.
我每个月做两个小时的生活教练
I get away two hours of coaching every month,
你需要注册本网站的原因就是
really the way, the reason that you want to sign up to
我将致力于
Actualized.org is because I’m committed to
帮助你找到使生活变得更好的心理状态
help you to figure out the psychology of getting your life into shape.
这不止是人际关系问题 正如你所注意到的
Not just your relationships, but as you’ve noticed
真正的关系比在表面上保持吸引力
this relationship stuff it goes much deeper than just
要深入的多
being attractive on a surface level.
对吧?那是对自我身份的理解
Right? It’s about understanding who you are.
我希望帮你搞清楚你在生活中究竟是谁
I wanna help you understand who you’re in your life,
这样你不仅能让你的关系步入正轨
so that you can get not only your relationship into place,
还能让事业走上正轨 身体健康
but your career into place, get your health into place,
让你能合理理财
get all that your money into place.
你就可以过那种美妙绝伦的生活
So that you’re just living in awesome extraordinary kind of life
我有很多想法
and I’ve got a lot of ideas,
很多洞见和你分享
a lot of insights to share with you,
我希望你能持续关注 因为我会不断更新内容
and I want you to be following along cuz I’m releasing content all the time.
最好的办法是订阅我的专栏
And the best way to do that is subscribe to my newsletters,
你会收到邮件更新 每周我会更新免费内容
cuz you get E-mail updates, I release content for free every week.

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如何获得吸引力?取悦自己还是取悦他人?怎样维持一段感情?跟随Leo,一探获得吸引力的秘诀!

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