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如何平衡个性让自己更强大

How To Balance Your Personality To Become Powerful

要如何平衡自己的个性
So,how can you balance your personality
你才能够赢得朋友 影响他人
so that you can win friends,influence people,
改变职业 增加收入
change careers,raise your income,
成为一名企业家等收获一些好事
become an entrepreneur,ll that good stuff.
我和我妈妈在一起 她从圣地亚哥过来看我
I’m here wirth my mom who’s visiting from San Diego,
还有乔瑟琳……她……你为啥做这个手势
and Jocelyn,and…she–why are you doing the–
这是我的最爱![笑声]
That’s my favorate!(laughs)
她在摆星际迷航中里的手势
She’s doing the StarTrek deal.
我们刚刚在讨论
So we were just talking about–
你听到了吗?[乔瑟琳]那是鱼的声音吗?
Oh,you hear that?[Jocelyn]Is that the fish?
我的鱼会被自动喂食
My fish are being automatically fed.
我没开灯 但是……
I do’t have a light on,but…
他们在下面很疯狂
Down there they go crazy.
大鱼会欺负所有的鱼
The one big one bullies ’em all.
那条又胖又大的?
The big fat one?
是它怀孕了吗?
Yeah.Is he pregnant?
没有没有那它只是胖?
No,no.He’s just fat?
下年让我们回到个性类型这个话题
Alright,back to personality types.
我们应该如何……
Okay,how do we balance…
去平衡性格我妈妈的个性
balance so the way to balance
我给自己设计了一个应用于商业
my mom I’ve created a personality type system
关于个性种类的方法
that I invented for myself just to use in business
这个方法现在很受欢迎
and now it’s become pretty popular.
这个方法叫PASE P-A-S-E
It’s called PASE system,P-A-S-E.
所以我妈妈…… 现在你们要做的就是在
So my mom–what you would do with this
PASE这四个字母中
is find P,A,S,E-which of these letters
找到你的主导个性
represent your dominant style?
于我妈妈来说 P代表了注重实际
So my mom is–P stands for practical,
A代表执行力 S代表社交力 E代表情绪化
A for action,S for social,E for emotional.
我妈妈是ES型
My mom is an ES.
在她性格中知道的个性就是情绪化和社交
That’s her two dominant;emotional and social.
她最弱的两个个性是A和P 执行力和注重现实
Her two weakest are A and P,action and practical.
乔瑟琳和我妈妈很像
And Jocelyn is very simillar to my mom,
这就是为什么她们俩出的很好 [乔瑟琳笑]
that’s why they get along. [ Jocelyn] (laughs)
乔瑟琳是SEAP型
Jocelyn is an SEAP,
或者也可能是SEPA
or you might be an SEPA.
我觉得是PA[咋舌声]
I think PA.[Ty](clicks tongue)
我很少做计划
Yeah,I plan a little,I plan a little.
谁计划做的很多来着?[乔瑟琳]但是我都失败了!
Who plans more?[ Jocelyn]But I’m loose!
她做计划 真的做计划![乔瑟琳]我是做计划!
She does,she really does![ Jocelyn]I do!
我计划但是却不怎么执行
I plan but then I go with the flow.
好 我现在继续讲SE型
Okay,I’m gonna go with SE–
如果你现在在看这个视频的话
Now,if you watching this,
你知道你是什么类型的吗?
how do you figure out what you are?
我们稍后再说这个话题
I’ll talk about that in a second,
但是首先我要强调一下这个方法的重要性和目标
but first I have to stress the importance and the goal.
目标就是让我无法看透你
The goal is that I cannot read you.
在我遇见的人当中 有99%的人
I meet a lot of people now,99% of the time,
我可以在一秒或者十秒内看透他们
I can read people in one second,or 10 seconds,
可能不是一秒 因为如果
maybe not one,because when you have things
你身上有一些不平衡的事情 那会变得很明显
out of balance it becomes very obvious.
举个例子来说 你可以想象
So,for example,you can just imagine
在你遇见一个身体不健康的人的时候
a person yo met that’s physically unhealthy.
你可以马上判断出来他身体有问题
You can recognize that right away.
他们的头发可能掉光了 肤色可能很难看
If their hair’s falling out,their skinlooks horrible,
瘸了 不管是什么类型的身体不健康
if they’re limping or whatever physical aliment
都会很明显
you might have,it becomesapparent.
当你身体很健康的时候
When you’re super healthy,you meet somebody
别人是什么都看不出来的
and nothing stands out to you.
这跟个性类型是一个道理
Well,it’s tge same with personality types.
你想要每一个个性都是100%
So you want everything at 100%.
你的A性格是100% P是100%
Your A at 100%,your P at 100%,
S是100% E是100%
your S at 100%,your E at 100%.
但是 我们刚刚在说这个
But–and we’re talking about this–
[笑声]我该怎么做?我们刚刚在说
(laughs)How do I do it?We’re talking about
怎样做你才能让这些性格超过100%
how yo can go over 100%.
我们刚刚在说你的情绪化个性
And we were talking about your emotional,
你刚刚说你是多少 160%?
and you said you were what, 160%?
差不多是这个数对
Somewhere around there.Yeah.
我是玻璃心
I’m a delicate flower.
但她的S个性非常明显 这就是为什么
but she’s very S that’s why
她是一名很爱聊天的演员
she’s an actress likes to talk
拥有自己的小脱口秀节目
doing her little talk show.
耶!你的脱口秀叫什么名字?
Yeah!what’s your talk show?
我是水瓶座说吧
I’m Aquarius.Shout it out.
节目叫 积极的解决办法 它是一档电视节目
It’s called The Positive Revolution,it’s on the stream . TV.
Youtube上有吗?
It is on youtube?
Youtube上也有
Well,it is on Youtube,you can
你们可以在Youtube的频道里找到我们
find us at the stream om Youtube,
也要关注 新时代星空
but also follow New Age Starlit,
新时代星空[笑声]
New Age Starlit,(laughs)
顺便说一下 如果你们想知道
By the way,if you wanna know
S个性的人是什么样子 她就是
what an S person stands like,right there.
[笑声]
(laughs)
聊天 带动气氛完全没问题[大笑声]
No problem talking,vibing.(laughs loudly)
这是我妈妈 这很好
My mom,you know it’s good.
S个性不是我的主导个性
S is not my dominant,
虽然很多人觉得我很会社交
even though people think I’m very social,
我觉得能做你的儿子我很幸运
but I think it’s good that I was born to you.
喔这很幸运
Aww.It’s good fate,
因为在我长大的过程中 我妈妈一直都是这个样子的
because my mom,growing up,she’s still this way,
但是非常爱社交
not quite as much,but very social.
我们经常和妈妈一起去教堂
We always had–my mom went to a church
那里有很多人
and there was always people around,
我妈妈会在那里让我下车然后和我说
and my mom was drop me off and be like,
去戴里昂一家那儿过周末吧
‘Go live with the Deleons for the weekend.’
[笑声]我妈妈
(laughs)My mom was
一直都是这样的
pretty go*with-flow.
如果你是S个性的人 你在看这支视频
If you’re an S and you’re watching this,
社交性格就是 很好玩 你爱笑
social,social’s like funny,you laugh a lot,
就像她[笑声]
like this one’s–(laughs)

笑每一件事[笑声]
laughing at everything.(laughs)
但是我是不会让我妈和乔瑟琳和你开玩笑的
But,don’t let my mom or Jocelyn fool you,
因为她们内心有E个性 这就意味着……
They got that E side,which means–
这是让你知道你是E个性的方法
here’s how you know you’re an E.
你之前有过我称之为
Have you ever had what I call an
“情绪崩溃或者爆发”
’emotional nuclear breakdown or explosion’?
我很少这样
I don’t see myself
我不认为
that way a lot…I don’t think
我会突然情绪爆发
I’m explosive…Well…
我以前有过几次…妈妈!
I have had a few…Mom!
请客观地回答这个问题[笑声]
Just answer this question (group laughs) objectively.
你有没有过突然的情绪低落
Have you ever had an emotional meltdown out of blue?
有好
Yes.Okay.
我脑子里想的是
Which brings me to my second–
毕竟我是个女生![笑声]
I’m a lady after all!(laughs)
下面是我的第二个观点
Here’s my second point.
我们中没有一个人擅长读自己的内心
None of us are good at reading ourselves.
弗里德里希 尼采 著名的哲学家说
Friedrich Nietzsche,the famous philosopher,
理智是一座坚固的城堡
said’The mind is an impenetrable fortress.’
这你可以从你的朋友和敌人那里学到
You only learn about it through friends and enemies.
是的 我同意
Yeah,I agree.
现在 妈妈 我是你的朋友 所以我要告诉你
Now,I’m your friend,mom,so I am telling you:
你之前有过情绪爆炸的时候[笑声]
you have had emotional explosions.(laughs)
是的 但是那很多都是和生理期有关
Yeah,but how much is that a physical thing,
你懂的 都是生理期
or,you know–It is all physical–
但是女人不 女人不应该
But women–No,women should not–
我们有更多的荷尔蒙!
Are obviously–We have a lotta hormones!
这不是掩饰男人或者女人
It’s not hiding.Men or women
都不应该找借口
should not make excuses.
不 那时候她们需要得到更多的关注
No,they have to take extra care.
对 黄体酮的缘故……
Yeah,the progesterone…
女人会更敏感
Women are more sensitive.
但是她们……这么说吧
But there are…let me just answer it this way.
我们每个人都有自己的困难
All of us have our cross to bear,
我们所有人在生活中都有
and all of us have the areas in our lives
自己天生不擅长的地方
that we’re naturally not good at,
比如说 对很多男人来说
like,for example,a lot of men,
我们必须控制啤酒肚的产生
we’ve gotta struggle with keeping off belly fat.
这是作为男人要注意的一部分
And that’s part of being a man,
所以如果你是一个男人 你必须花更多的功夫在你的肚子上
so if you’re a man,you gotta work harder on your belly.
女人的脂肪更容易堆积在大腿
Women put on fat more on their thighs,
所以她们需要更多地锻炼大腿
so women have to work on that.
这和个性类型是一样的
So it’s the same with personality types.
你也可以直接想 我是个女人 或者
You can’t just go’Oh,I’m a women,’or,
我是个男人所以我很有侵略性
‘Oh,I’m a guy so I’m aggressive,’well,
作为一个男人你可能非常有侵略性
you can be too aggressive as a guy.
你们同意吗?
Do you agree with that?
同意 但是……男人可以非常有侵略性吗?
Yes,but–Can men be too aggressive?
你必须非常理解你自己
You have ti understand yourself…
对然后你才能
Yes.And then you can
开始思考你自己 所以……
start working on yourself,so…
同意女人必须得知道
Agreed.A women has to know…
她的弱点对
Her weakness.Yes.
还有一个很重要的事
And it’s more pronounced,and
你必须了解你的生理周期
Know your cycle.
一些女人是不一样的!
But some women are different!
了解你的生理周期了解你的生理周期
Know your cycle.Know your cycle
因为……现在我们在讲
because–Now we’re talking
生理周期……会产生
about cycles…Then drop in
磁性激素 大多是受荷尔蒙的影响
estrogen,well,your hormones affect it a lot,
在黄体期的时候
so progesterone is on the rise
你体内的黄体酮会上升黄……是的
during the luteal phase–Lut…yes.
黄体期一般是
And the luteal phase is when
经期的前几天
you’re closer to your menstruation.
在排卵期时
Then in the follicular phase,
雌性激素达到最高 血清素也会有所升高
estrogen is high,which increases serotonin,too.
所以如果在黄体期你的雌性激素
So when your estrogen drops during the luteal phase,
血清素和黄体酮都下降了 你会变得像这样
so does serotonin and progesterone just makes you more like,
“我才不在乎呢”你懂吗?
‘I don’t give a (mouths word)’,you know?
你不会愿意做很多事情 所以……
You’r not gonna put up with a lot of stuff,so…
了解你的生理周期……所以 汉子们
Know your cycle…So guys…
你们也需要知道你女朋友或者老婆的生理周期!事实上
And know your women cycle!You actually wanna
男人应该更加关注这个
track this,man should track this much more…
绝对的对 100%
Absolutely.Yeah,100%.
这样男人就知道什么时候应该去旅行
So that a man knows when to take a trip.
对有道理!
Yeah.Absolutely!
说一句 “我要去旅行啦!”
Be like,’I’m gonna take a trip!’
为什么我在视频里看起来肤色这么红?
Why do I Look so red in this picture?
我们的灯光有问题
We got lighting issues.
[笑声]我真的没有
(laughs)I’m really not
这么红 我看起来好像晒伤了一样
this red,I Look like I got sunburned or something.
在奥马哈……奥马哈是你住的地方吗?
In Omaha…is that where you were,Omaha?
是 我刚从奥马哈 内布拉斯加州飞过来
Yeah,I just flew in from Omaha, Nebraska.
但是我学到的最重要的关于个性类型的一点是
But the most important thing that I’ve learned
我遇到的很多成功人士
about personality is the great people that I know,
比如说 约珥 撒汀曼陀 我都无法看透他们
like Joel Sautinmentor,I can’t read them.
他们身上没有很显著的不平衡状态
They have nothing pronounced out of balance.
我试着覆盖所有的知识点关于这些 下次我会讲得更多的
Try to get everything…I’ll be talking more
但是今天这支视频
about this,but through I would just do this
只是我的日常记录 和我妈妈在一起
for my daily talk,with mom here.
过段时间我会发布一个在线测试
And I’m coming out with a test
我还没完成这个测试
you can take online,I’m not done with it.
顺便说一下 如果你想知道……[笑声]
By the way,you wanna know if–(laughs)
在我的测试里 我还在设计这个测试
In my test,I’ve been designing it,
其中有一个问题是关于情绪崩溃的
one of the questions is with the emotional breakdown,
另外一个是 “你会被一些奇怪的
another one is,’Are you attracted to weird things,
不寻常的事物所吸引吗?是还是不是?
that are out of the ordinary?Yes or no.’
[笑声]难道你是想要……
(laughs)Are you just going–
不 这是真实的测试!
No,this is the true test!
我妈妈……[笑声]这个灯光下我看起来正常多了!
My mom is…(laughs)hey I look better in this light!
你为什么不告诉我?
Why didn’t you tell me?
这个灯光好一点[女人笑]
This light is the better one.(women laugh)
这个灯光下我是红色的这都是灯光的缘故
This one I turn red.It’s all in the lighting.
看看这样子多奇怪!
Look at how weird that is!
我想在另一边看看
Well I wanna see it on that side.
哇 看看这个
Wow,look at this.
看看……乔瑟琳 你在这个灯光下看起来更好看
Look how much…you look better,Jocelyn,in this light.
给大家看看你的双麻花辫
Show ’em your double cornrows.
这不是麻花辫
They’re not cornrows.
我觉得你梳这个辫子很漂亮
I think you’d look good in cornrows.
这很像麻花辫
They’re kinda cornrows,yeah.
谢谢 泰[笑声]
Sick,thanks Tai.(laughs)
[笑声] SE型就是她
(laughs)SE right here,SE.
我跟你说过 我妈妈得学学数学了
I told you,my mom needs to work on math.
学习一下数学 因为我妈妈P个性不够强
Take a math–cause P,my mom doesn’t have P energy.
所以她不是非常的……好的 但是泰
So,she’s not super–Okay,but Ty,
我能纠正你一下吗你喜欢数学吗?
can I correct you–Do you like math?
然后告诉你我正在做的事情
And tell you something I’ve just been working on?
日历好的
A calendar.Okay.
这个日历是为了一件我正在做的事情而特别定制的
And it’s for something really special that I’m into,
但是我是需要运用一点数学
but I’ve had to do a little math,yes.
那很棒!我完全同意
That’s good!I totally agree that math–
所以你在努力的让自己的个性平衡吗?
So you’re working on balancing yourself?
在个性类型这个领域 我从你身上学到了很多
And I have learned a lot from you in that area,
我也同意你的观点
and I agree with you.
我的意思是 我们应该花时间在我们的弱点上
I mean,in our weakness,we should work on them.
这很好 我和妈妈 就像我说的
And it’s good,me and my mom,like I said,
我的弱点是社交 而我妈妈
my weakness was being social,and my mom
她教会我如何更加的自然
has taught me how to be more chillaxed.
[笑声]有这个词吗?
(laughs)Is that a real word
大家还用这个词吗?
that people use anymore?
自然
Chillaxed.
好的 所以给大家的问题是
Okay,so the question for you is
你觉得你生活中什么是不平衡的?
what do you think’s imbalanced in your life?
我们来做一个调查吧
Let’s do a survey.
在下方评论:写下你认为你个性中
Leave a comment below:what’s the number one
第一大不平衡的部分
imbalance part of your personality
以及你的解决方法是什么
and what can you do to fix it?
好吗?
Alright?
就这样吧
Peace.

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