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如何回答孩子提出的11个难题

How To Answer the Most Difficult Children's Questions

11 correct answers to the most confusing children’s questions
当孩子提难题时 11个正确的回答
Sometimes kids’ questions leave us wondering whether to laugh or cry.
有时候孩子们提的问题会让我们哭笑不得
But for the child, it’s important to learn the answer.
对小孩来说 在回答中学到东西是很重要的
They don’t want to be ignored,
他们不想被无视
lied to or laughed at.
欺骗或是嘲笑
Today, we got the right answers to the questions that
今天我们针对难住父母的问题
usually stumped every parent.
列出了正确答案
Don’t miss our bonus at the end,
最后不要错过我们的福利喔
they’ll help you understand your kids better,
它们会帮助你更了解你的孩子
no matter how old they are.
无论他们在哪个年龄段
Question #11 Where did I come from?
问题11 我从哪里来的啊
Our advice is: Be honest,
我们的建议:坦诚说出来
but don’t go into too much detail.
但不要说得太细
Here’s what you can reply to your kid:
你可以这样回答:
When people love each other, they kiss and hug.
人们爱对方时 会亲吻和拥抱
Dad gives Mom his cells.
爸爸给了妈妈他的细胞
They join with Mom’s
和妈妈的结合在一起
and a baby starts growing in her belly.
妈妈的肚子就开始长出了个娃娃
He’s tiny and swims like a fish inside Mom.
他小小的 在妈妈肚里游来游去 像条小鱼
He gets bigger and one day,
他慢慢变大
there’s no room left inside Mom.
有一天 妈妈的肚子不够装了
And he’s born!
他就生出来啦
Older children can be told about
大一点的孩子 就可以
the concepts of sperm and egg cells.
跟他们说说精子和卵细胞
Question #10 Will I marry Mom when I grow up?
问题10 我长大后会娶妈妈吗
Almost all kids start to asking this question,
当孩子们第一次被异性吸引的时候
when they first start feeling attracted to the opposite sex.
他们都会问这样的问题
Gently say “No”. Here is what you should say:
温和地说“不行哦” 你应该这么说:
Everyone has their role in the family.
每个人在家庭里都有自己的角色
Your sister can’t become a dad,
你的姐姐就只能是姐姐 不能是爸爸
and your dad can’t become a grandma.
你的爸爸不能是奶奶
And you can’t become your mom’s husband.
而你也不能成为妈妈的老公
When you grow up, your mom will already be old.
你长大了 你的妈妈也会很老了
You will still love her, but you’ll want to marry
你依然爱她 但你会想娶
someone else instead. Someone young and beautiful.
另外的人 年轻漂亮的人
You’ll love each other and have your own kids.
你们彼此相爱 有自己的小孩
Question #9 Why are boys and girls different down there?
问题9 男孩和女孩到底有什么不一样呢
Try to tell them about this without awkwardness.
直接跟他们说 不要觉得尴尬
A child’s interest in their genitalia is entirely natural.
小孩对生殖器感兴趣是很自然的事
Here is what you can say:
你可以这么回答:
The differences are there so that children can be born.
有了这些差异 孩子们才可以生出来
A boy has a penis and two testicles.
男生有一个阴茎和两个睾丸
A girl has a vagina and a womb, a special sack
女生有一个阴道和一个子宫
for the child they may one day give birth to.
用来装婴儿的 这样他们就能被生下来
The boy and the girl grow up, fall in love,
男孩和女孩长大成人 坠入爱河
and want to have children.
想要有小孩
They join like pieces of a jigsaw puzzle.
他们像拼图一样结合在一起
After this, a new child is born.
再然后 一个小婴儿就生出来啦
Question #8 Why do you argue?
问题8 为什么你们要吵架
Children subconsciously feel guilty when their parents argue.
父母吵架时 小孩会潜意识里以为是自己的错
It’s important for them to understand that
对他们来说 知道这
it’s not their fault.
不是他们的错是很重要的
You can say: People argue because they don’t always
你可以回答:人们吵架是因为他们
agree with each other’s opinions.
不赞同对方的观点啊
Children argue and adults sometimes do as well.
就像小孩吵架一样 大人也会吵架啊
But we always makeup, because we love each other
但我们也会和好 因为我们爱对方
and we both love you.
也爱你们
Question #7 Why is that lady so fat?
问题7 为什么那位女士这么肥
Don’t shush your child if they draw attention to people
孩子在公共场合对别人感兴趣 千万不要嘘他们
in a public place as this leads to the formation of intolerance.
这会让他们变得狭隘
Instead, say something like this:
相反 你可以这么回答:
Everyone is different. People can be
每个人都是不一样的
tall, short, fat and thin.
人有高矮肥瘦
Sometimes people look different because they’re sick.
有时候人们看起来不一样是因为他们生病了
You can hurt them by pointing out their differences.
你指出他们的不同会伤害到他们的
It’s better to ask me about them later,
你偷偷跟我说会更好
when we’re alone, to make sure
当我们旁边没外人时
you don’t upset anyone.
要确保你不会让他们难过
Question #6 Who do you love more?
问题6 你爱谁多一点
My sister or me?
姐姐还是我呢
Siblings always compete for the love of their parents.
兄弟姐们们经常会比较他们父母的爱
You shouldn’t use one child as an example for their brothers
你不应该说你喜欢哪一个
and sisters or say that you love one more
或者说你更喜欢哪个孩子
because they’re more successful at school.
因为他们的成绩更好
Instead, say this:
相反 这么回答:
You’re different and our love for all of you is
你们都与众不同 我们用不同方式
expressed in different ways.
表达对你们的爱
But we love all of you equally, just as you love
但我们对你们的爱是平等的 就像
Mom and Dad the same amount.
你爱妈妈和爸爸一样多
You’re both very dear to me!
你们对我来说都是很亲的人
Question #5 Will the doctor hurt me?
问题5 医生会伤害我吗
Explain to your child that the treatment is necessary.
向你的孩子解释 治疗是有必要的
Don’t ever make fun of them for feeling frightened.
他们感到害怕时 不要取笑他们
The doctor doesn’t want to hurt you. Their job is
医生不会伤害你的
to fight germs and illnesses.
他们的工作是与细菌和疾病作斗争
It might be a little painful, but without this,
可能会有点痛
you won’t get better.
但不这样做的话 你好不了
When I was sick, I also had an injection.
我生病的时候 我也会打针
I was scared, but I coped.
我也很害怕 但我会克服
And you can as well.
你也可以做到的
Question #4 Will I die? Will you?
问题4 我会死吗 你也会吗
Don’t lie to your children about death.
关于死亡 不要向你的孩子撒谎
They can accept the truth.
他们可以接受事实的
You can say: People, animals and even flowers
你可以说:人 动物 甚至是花儿
all die one day. It’s a law of nature.
都难逃一死 这是自然规则
It means that there’s space in the world for
意思是每个人都有自己的去处
everyone who’s born. We will die one day, but
有一天我们也会死的 但人生漫长
not soon. I’ll pass away when I’m very old.
我老了也会死掉的
And you’ll already be a grown-up as we are now.
到时候你已经长大了 就像现在的我们一样
You’ll have your own children. Then they’ll grow up.
你会有自己的孩子 他们也会长大
You’ll get old and then you’ll leave.
你会变老 然后也会离去
But before, you’re going to have a wonderful life
在这之前 你会有个精彩的人生
full of adventures and discoveries.
充满冒险和发现
Question #3 Why do you leave me to go to work?
问题3 你为什么要离开我去工作呢
Explain that your job is something you have to do.
向孩子解释你的工作是你必须要做的事情
Place emphasis on the joy when you come home and
把重点放在你回家时
see each other again.
再次见到你的孩子 是多么开心啊
I don’t want to leave you, but I have to
我不想离开你 但我必须
go and there’s nothing I can do about it.
得走 这是我必须要做的事
Work is important, but remember that I’ll be back
工作很重要 但记住我晚上
this evening. And we’ll be so glad
就会回来 当我们再见到
when we see each other again.
对方的时候 是多么开心啊
Let’s do a swap! You take my bracelet
做个交换 你拿着我的手镯
and I’ll take your toy.
我拿着你的玩具
And we’ll feel each other’s presents
即使分开了
even though we’re apart.
我们还有对方的礼物啊
Question #2 Why are you allowed and I’m not?
问题2 为什么你可以做的事我就不可以做
Don’t be scared to admit that you’re not ideal.
不要害怕承认你不完美
It’s important for your child to understand that they shouldn’t
让孩子知道他们不应该有样学样
copy everything their parents do.
这是很重要的
Yes, I smoke and sometimes I stay up late using the
是 我抽烟 有时候熬夜玩电脑
computer. But I don’t want you to repeat my mistakes.
但我不想你重蹈我的错误
This is my bad habit which I’m going to give up
这是我的坏习惯 我要戒掉
because I want to be a better person.
因为我想成为更好的人
Question #1 What if the monster under the bed eats me?
问题1 床底的怪兽吃掉我怎么办呢
Take your child’s fear seriously
认真对待孩子的恐惧
and work out how to turn bad things into good ones together.
同时要想想怎么把坏事变成好事
Respond to your child like this:
可以这样回复:
Tell me about the monster.
告诉我怪兽的事情
Did you know that monsters are very scared of magic spells?
你知道怪兽很害怕魔法咒语吗
Let’s workout one together.
我们一起念吧
Look, this isn’t just an old TV remote.
看 这不只是一个遥控器
Do you see that secret button?
你看到那个秘密开关吗
When you press it, the monster disappears.
你按一下 怪兽就会消失
Let’s keep the remote next to your bed.
我们把它放在你的床边吧
Here’s that bonus.
福利来啦
Common rules for answering your child’s questions:
回答孩子问题的常用规则:
One, a child doesn’t need to know
第一 孩子们问多少
more than what they asked about.
回答多少即可
Give them simple answers.
简单地回答他们
Two, if you don’t know the answer to their question,
第二 如果你不知道问题的答案
admit it to your child. Then find out the answer together.
跟你的孩子坦白 再一起找出答案
Three, never talk to them in a condescending way
第三 不要居高临下地回答他们
with the tone of voice like a teacher.
不要用教师的语气说话
Don’t ever mock them. Treat their inquiries seriously.
不要嘲笑他们 认真对待他们的问题
Four, ponder the motivation for their question.
第四 思考他们问问题的动机
Sometimes your child’s question might be an unconscious request for help
有时你的孩子问问题可能是无意识地寻求帮助
or due to a hidden fear.
或者是由于隐藏的恐惧
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如何正确回答孩子提出的11个难题

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