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严格的父母有什么危害?

How DANGEROUS Are Strict Parents?

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不管我们愿不愿意承认
Whether or not we like to admit it,
我们的父母对我们有很大的影响
our parents have a big effect on us –
我指的不仅仅是基因上的影响
and I don’t just mean genetically.
他们抚养我们的方式会影响一切
How they raise us can influence everything
从我们未来的社会关系
from our future social relationships
到我们吃多少水果
to how much fruit we eat…
是的 它也可以对我们的大脑
yeah.It can also have a large impact
和发展产生很大的影响
on our brain and development,
这就是为什么父母
which is why it’s important
参与孩子的生活是很重要的
for parents to be involved in their kid’s lives.
但是当他们有点 嗯 保护过度的时候
But what happens when they are a little,
会发生什么呢?
well,too involved?
过度保护孩子的父母有一个共同的主体
A common theme among overprotective parents is
就是保护他们的孩子不受任何
to shield their kids from anything that
可能从身体上 情感上伤害他们
could hurt them physically, emotionally,
甚至学业的东西的伤害
and even academically.
把这一点发挥到极致的父母
The parents that take this to the extreme
通常被称为“直升机父母”
are often referred to as helicopter parents,
听起来很酷 实则不然
and that sounds way cooler than it actually is.
但他们的努力似乎没有收到预期的效果
But their efforts don’t seem to have the desired effect.
2014年一项针对大学生的研究
A 2014 study on college students
发现父母控制欲过强的人
found that those with over-controlling parents
由于缺乏自主性
had significantly higher levels of depression
抑郁程度明显更高
and less satisfaction with life
对生活的满意度也更低
due to their lack of autonomy.
一般来说 这些父母想要帮助
Generally,these parents want to help
他们的孩子度过一生
their kids through life.
但是从孩子身上消除
But removing all stressful situations
所有的压力
from their children
似乎对他们没有任何帮助
doesn’t seem to actually help them at all.
有几项研究观察
Several studies have looked at
压力如何影响老鼠的
how stress affects brain
大脑和社会发展
and social development in rats.
与源于忽视和暴力的
As opposed to chronic or sustained stress,
并被认为对于儿童有害的
which stems from things like neglect and violence
长期或持续的压力不同
and is agreed upon to be harmful to children,
这些研究测试了来自
these studies tested how acute
玩耍和比赛等活动的
or short-term stress from activities
急性或短期的压力
like playing and competitions
是如何影响动物的
affected the animals.
例如 一项研究发现
For example, one study found that rats
幼时不被允许打闹的老鼠
that weren’t allowed to play-fight as juveniles
长大后会出现一些社会问题
grew up to have social problems like hyper-aggression
比如攻击性太强和反社会行为
and anti-social behaviors as adults.
总的来说 这些动物研究表明
Overall,these animal studies have shown
童年时期短暂的
that brief, controlled amounts of stress
可控的压力
during childhood
对大脑 社交技能 智力
can be beneficial for the development of the brain,
甚至免疫系统的发育
social skills, intelligence,
都是有益的
and even the immune system.
专制或严格的教育方式
An authoritarian or strict parenting style
也不会产生预期的效果
doesn’t produce the desired effect either.
以三角鲍勃为例
Take triangle bob for example,
与表现良好
As opposed to becoming well-behaved
避免饮酒 吸毒
and avoiding dangers like drinking,
等危险的
drug use, and other
成人行为相反
RISKY ADULT BEHAVIORS,
严厉父母的孩子往往更叛逆
children of strict parents tend to be more rebellious,
自尊心较低
suffer from low self-esteem
有抑郁症等情绪问题
and emotional problems like depression,
而且往往会成为恃强凌弱的人
and often become bullies.
尽管体罚很受欢迎
Despite their popularity,
但是数据显示
the data shows that
像打屁股这样的体罚
corporal punishments like spanking
也会对孩子产生负面影响
also have a negative impact on children.
在世界各地
Surround the world,
大约有80%的父母
around 80 percent of parents
说他们会体罚 比如打屁股
report using physical punishments like spanking
来管教孩子
to discipline their children.
当你看到打屁股对他们产生的影响时
Which is scary when you look into
你会觉得很害怕
what effect spanking has on them.
2016年的一项荟萃分析综合了
A 2016 meta-analysis combining the results
之前75项研究的成果
of 75 previous studies
发现打屁股会导致更多的攻击性
found that spanking results in more aggression,
更多的反社会行为
more antisocial behavior,
更多的心理健康问题
more mental health problems,
更低的认知能力 更低的自尊
lower cognitive abilities, lower self-esteem,
以及更多的与父母的负面关系
and more negative relationships with parents.
发现对孩子影响最大的
The parenting style that has been found to have
教育方式
the best impact on children
被称为权威教育
is called authoritative parenting.
它将纪律和指导
It combines discipline
与热情和支持结合起来——
and guidance with warmth and support –
我认为我们所有人都能从中受益
something I think all of us can benefit from.
感谢你是一位充满爱心的家长 动画师
Thank you for being a loving parent, Animator.
我很感激你
I appreciate you.
正如科学告诉我们关于
As much as science has told us about
不同的养育方式
different parenting styles,
人们有很多不同的经历
people have lots of different experiences,
如果你愿意
we wan na hear yours
在下面的评论区分享
if you’re comfortable with sharing
我们想听听你的看法!
in the comment section below!
非常感谢Experian赞助这个视频!
Big thanks to Experian for sponsoring this video!
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and for free by doing what you’re already doing.
到目前为止
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较高的信用评分可以帮助你建立信用
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谢谢你们了!
Thanks guys!
一如既往 我是布洛克
As always, my name is Blocko,
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this has been Life Noggin,
别忘了继续思考!
don’t forget to keep on thinking!

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本视频介绍了严格父母的危害,并认为权威教育才是最好的

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