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名声只是集体制造的幻觉

"Fame" is an illusion we’ve made together. Here’s how to undo it. | Todd Rose for Big Think

– You might think that ‘collective illusions’ are
也许你认为集体幻觉
something that are foisted on us,
是一些强加在我们身上的东西
but the truth is, we do this to ourselves.
但事实上 是由我们自己创造的
集体幻觉是指一个群体中的人
仅仅因为误以为大多数人都认同一个观点
因而接受了他们并不赞同的观点
的一种现象
Collective illusions destroy social trust.
集体幻觉破坏了社会信任
When we are under illusions about other people
当我们对不再拥有共同的
no longer sharing our values,
价值观的其他人抱有幻想时
when in fact they actually do,
当他们真的不再拥有共同的价值观时
everything from basic cooperation
从最基本的合作到社会创新
to social innovation can come to a standstill.
一切都会停滞
To the extent that we distort our private values
甚至到了以归属感的名义
in the name of belonging,
扭曲我们个人价值观的程度
now we realize that doesn’t just harm us,
现在我们意识到这不仅伤害了我们
it harms the whole society.
也伤害了整个社会
成功
One of the most important collective illusions
我们发现的一个最重要的
that we’ve ever discovered has to do
集体幻觉
with the way that people define a successful life.
与人们定义成功人生的方式有关
We looked at the private opinions of the American public
我们研究了美国民众
across 76 different attributes
对于描述成功人生的
that could go into a successful life.
76个不同特征中的个人观点
Out of those 76, the vast majority
在76个特征中
of the American public believes
绝大多数的美国民众
that most people would rank ‘fame’ as number one.
相信大多数人会把名誉排在第一位
There’s just one problem:
这就引起了一个问题
In private, it’s actually dead last.
私底下 它却是最后
It is 76th out of 76 possible attributes.
在76个特征中排第76位
We don’t care about fame, but we believe
我们不在乎名誉
that most everybody else cares about fame
但我们相信大多数的人
more than anything else.
最在乎的是名誉
Our public institutions are actually being built
我们公共机构工作是
around a false view of what people want out of life.
以对人们生活中想要事物的错误看法为基础的
In our media, in our businesses,
在媒体和商业中
those people are also under the same exact delusions.
这些人完全处于相同的幻觉之下
We have commercials, we have movies
很多广告
and television shows all telling us
电影电视节目告诉我们
that a successful life is about being famous.
一个成功的人生需要出名
Now, the dominant thing
现在 孩子们讨论的主要问题是
that kids talk about is wanting to be famous.
我想出名
One kid, I remember saying, “I want a million followers.”
一个孩子 我记得他说 我想拥有100万粉丝
He couldn’t tell ya for what,
可他说不出原因
he just wanted a million followers.
就只想拥有100万粉丝
We know that most people,
我们知道 大多数人
even in the younger generation,
尤其是青少年一代
do not privately value fame,
私底下 认为名声不重要
but they are even more convinced
但他们却比老一辈的人更确信
than the older generations that most people do.
大多数人都认为名声很重要
They are internalizing the illusion
他们正在把幻觉内化于心
as their own values,
作为他们自己的价值观
and that will become the dominant view
如果我们对此不采取行动
in society in the future
这将在未来的社会里
if we don’t do something about it.
成为主流意识
Being aware that collective illusions exist
要意识到集体幻觉的存在
is the starting point,
只是个开始
and it comes down to us being honest
归根结底
about ourselves, to each other.
我们需要诚实地对待自己和他人
Populace asked, “What does a fulfilling life mean to you?”
当人们被问到 什么样的的人生对你来说是满意的
What we found was really astonishing.
得到的发现令人十分惊讶
Out of those 76 trade-off priorities in the thousands
我们调查了成千上万的人
and thousands of people that we have studied,
对这些76个特征进行排序
no two people were identical.
没有两个一样的回答
Nobody can tell you what a successful life is;
没有人能告诉你成功人生是什么
you have to discover that for yourself.
你需要自己去发现
It’s about knowing who you are.
有关你是谁
If you wanna understand whether the people you care
如果你想知道你关心的人
about are pursuing a life that’s not their own,
是否在追求一种不属于他们的生活
ask ’em why they care about what they’re doing.
询问他们为何关心他们在做的事
Why do you wanna be famous?
为什么你想出名
By having your ideas challenged,
通过质疑你的想法
that gives you a better sense
让你更好地判断
for who your true self is.
真实的你是个怎么的人
If we recognized our true, shared values,
如果我们认识到我们真正共同的价值观
it fundamentally changes how we see one another.
这将在根本上改变我们看待他人的态度
We now recognize that investing in each other
现在我们懂得了互相交往
and enabling you to pursue the life you wanna live,
去追求自己想要的生活
is actually better for you,
这才是最好的
and for me.
对你也对我
– This series is brought to you by Stand Together,
本期视频由Stand Together出品
a community of changemakers tackling our biggest challenges.
Stand Together是一个致力于解决生活难题的改变者社区
想了解如何加入Stand Together 请访问DtandTogether.org

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本期视频将会帮助你消除集体幻觉,回归自我。

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