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爱上成熟的灵魂

Falling in Love With Old Souls

你是否听说过“成熟的灵魂”这样一种说法?
Have you ever heard of the expression ‘old soul’?
就是这样一种人 相比于去参加派对的狂欢
You know, that one friend who, instead of going to a rager of a party,
他们更喜欢和好朋友去喝上几杯
they’d rather have a couple of drinks with a few good friends?
有时甚至不喝酒 只是喝杯咖啡
Sometimes not even drinks, but just coffee?
有时连咖啡也不喝 只喝茶
Sometimes not even coffee, but tea?
你知道的 外表年轻但灵魂却像祖母一样就是成熟的灵魂
You know, grandma’s in disguise: the old souls.
其实心理学上并没有这个术语
The term actually has no base in psychology
而且在它在传播的过程中含义也在不断变化
and the interpretation of it changes from person to person.
一些人认为 它是指有超出其年龄的成熟的人
For some people, it means somebody mature beyond their age.
另一些人则认为它是指经历过许多不同生活方式
For others, it’s someone who has gone through many different reincarnations of life;
能从过去的生活智慧中吸取教训的人
a person who draws from their years of past lives’ wisdom.
但是要知道 成熟灵魂的说法已经被科学所揭穿了
To be clear, the idea of old souls has been debunked by science.
最相信这种说法是一些接生过从来不哭的婴儿的护士
However, some of the biggest believers of old souls are nurses who deliver babies who don’t cry at all,
他们认为出生这件事没什么意义
like the whole ‘being born’ thing ain’t nothing.
有一个成熟的灵魂有一些好处
Being an old soul has its advantages,
但它的一个不好之处在于会造成人际关系上的麻烦
but one disadvantage is trouble in relationships.
首先 成熟的灵魂通常来自于单亲家庭
First, old souls usually come from single-parent households.
来自单亲家庭
The thing about coming from a single-parent household
可能会迫使孩子更快成长
is that kids may be forced to mature faster than others.
处理父母离婚这件事对孩子们来说是一种刻苦铭心的经历
Having to deal with divorce is a very sobering experience
这会加快他们的成长
that can make kids mature quickly.
然而 在单亲家庭长大的孩子
However, growing up in a single-parent household,
并没有真正在有稳定关系的生活中成长的机会
they don’t really grow up with a stable relationship present in their lives.
这就意味着长大后
This means they can have trouble with their own
他们在处理自己的稳定关系时会遇到麻烦
stable relationships as they get older.
有一个和“成熟的灵魂”意思相近
There is a term that’s close to ‘old souls’
并且有科学依据的术语:假成熟
that has scientific basis: pseudomature.
这个术语说的是看起来比实际年龄要老的
This term refers to kids, teens and young adults
儿童 青少年 青壮年
who seem older than they are. Pseudomature kids are
儿童的假成熟通常是由单亲家庭导致的
often the result of single-parent households
他们也可以被称作“成熟的灵魂”
and can be called ‘old souls.’
其次拥有成熟灵魂的人更喜欢去老年人的公司
Secondly, old souls prefer the company of older people.
因为有成熟灵魂的人会感觉比较老 他们觉得和同龄人
Because old souls feel older, they feel a disconnect with
会有隔阂
people their age.
通常在人生的前几十年
Usually, for the first couple of decades of your life,
你周围大多数都是同龄人
you’re surrounded by a majority of people your age.
有成熟灵魂的人最终通常会和年龄大的人相处
Old souls usually end up hanging out with older people,
所以他们和同龄人相处
so when they get into relationships with
是很难的 并且有成熟灵魂的人
someone their age, it’s hard. An old soul
可能无法与他们的伴侣的朋友好好相处
probably won’t fit in with their partner’s friends.
另一方面 他们会和比自己大的人约会
The other side of the coin is that they date someone
这就带来一些了
older than them, which brings its own problems
推动社会规范进步的问题 比如说
of pushing social norms, like, what if someone dies
如果有一方先去世怎么办? 年龄的差异
well before the other? Age difference also may cause
也会在夫妻想要孩子时导致一些问题
problems when a couple tries to have kids.
以上以及其它的一些问题都会对人际关系造成很大的压力
All this and more can bring a lot of stress to a relationship.
第三 有成熟灵魂的人
The third thing with old souls is that they’ve got
会有很高的标准 假设他们已经和许多人相处过
very high standards. Assuming they’ve lived many lives
并且有了许多人际关系 在潜意识里
and been in many relationships, they’re subconsciously
他们会把当前的关系和过去最好的相比
comparing their current relationship to their best
他们知道自己想要什么
past ones. They know what they want. This constant
经常的比较就会导致不满 并且造成压力
comparison can lead to a lack of satisfaction and stress.
设想去记住生活中所有的爱
Imagine remembering all the great loves of your life.
尝试去正视这些并且同时
Trying to get over those and simultaneously falling
爱上其他人是很难的
in love with someone else. It’s hard.
他们的伴侣最终会觉得自己被评判 被评估
And their partners end up feeling judged and evaluated.
这对双方来说都是一个挫折
This can lead to frustration for both parties.
有时他们似乎很冷漠 这只是因为
Sometimes, they seem distant because they don’t want
他们不想再受伤而已
to be hurt again.
并且 他们自成一派
As well, they have a strong sense of identity.
他们坚持自己的方式 并且他们从不尝试新事物
They’re stubborn in their ways and they don’t try new
因为他们已经经历许多不同的生活
things. Since they’ve lived so many lives, they’ve
尝试过许多不同的事物 他们最终
tried everything. They end up having a
也会有一个非常成熟的个性
very well-established personality as well.
但是这会给约会造成困难 尤其是当你想要
This can make dating hard when you keep trying to
尝试一些新的冒险来增加情趣 而你的伴侣
spice things up with new adventures but your partner
没兴趣时 这就会使人非常沮丧
seems uninterested. It becomes very frustrating
并且难以处理
and difficult to deal with.
第五也是最后一个 有成熟灵魂的人
Fifth and finally, old souls have a
会有非常强烈的目的性
very strong sense of purpose.
在年复一年地在不同生活中做一些诸如
After years and years in different lives spent doing
求职 结婚 生孩子等
the basics like getting a job, getting married,
基本的工作之后 有成熟灵魂的人开始
having kids, et cetera, old souls start to want
想要从生活中获得更多 他们想要
more from life; to have one of their lives have an
人过留名 比如说 留下一份遗产
actual impact, to mean something, like a legacy.
这意味着他们非常有动力
What this means is that they are very driven people:
他们有目标 想去做一些有意义的事
they have goals and want to do things that matter.
有时 这就意味着他们对人际关系中的人
Sometimes, that means their relationships take a
不那么看重 或者有时你会感觉到你只是
back seat. Or sometimes you can feel like you’re just
他们用来实现目标的工具 另一方面
some tool to their success. On the other hand,
和有目标的人相爱是非常振奋人心的
it can be very inspiring to be in love with someone
在这两者之间找到平衡是非常重要的
with goals. It’s important to find a balance between
这就是五个爱上有成熟灵魂的人
the two. These are the five ways falling in love
可能会很难 但是值得的原因
with an old soul can be hard, but well worth-it.

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成熟的灵魂是指那些有超出其年龄的成熟的人,怎么能爱上他们呢?

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