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半性恋者(灰度性取向)

Demisexuality

我们生活在一个性是热门话题的世界中
We live in a world where sex is a hot topic of discussion.
性在广告
It’s glorified in advertisements,
电视节目 电影 电视剧中被美化了
TV shows, movies and plays.
性驱使着许多人
Sex drives a lot of people,
但是如果它不能驱使你呢?
but what if it doesn’t drive you?
如果它一直都不是你最先想到的事
What if it’s not the number one thing on your mind all the time,
那会让你变得奇怪吗?
does that make you weird?

No.
如果你体验到性吸引
If you’re someone who experiences sexual attraction
只是当你和对方有深厚的感情结合的时候
only when you have a deep emotional connection with someone.
那么你可能是半性恋者
then you may identify as demisexual.
你可能会问 等等
You might be asking, wait,
半性恋是一种性取向吗?
is demisexuality a sexual orientation?
它被认为是一个子集
It is believed to be a subset
属于个人身份的子集
and add on to an individual’s identity.
而不是一种性取向
rather than being an individual sexual orientation.
众所周知
Sexual orientation as people see it
性取向是哪种性别对你是否具有性吸引力
is which gender you are sexually attracted to or not.
半性恋是性吸引的一种体验方式
Demisexuality is a way of experiencing sexual attraction.
它是关于你想要怎样开始你的感情
It being about how you want to go about your relationship
而不是和谁建立一段感情
rather than who you’d want to be in a relationship with.
半性恋可能被认为是同性恋
A demisexual can also identify as gay,
异性恋或者双性恋
straight or bisexual
并且可能不会有性别偏好
and may not have a gender preference
当谈及性吸引时
when it comes to sexual attraction
许多人认为半性别恋者不是真的或者是无根据的
Many argue that demisexuality isn’t real or valid,
人们认为那是给想要寻求关注的人
that it’s a made-up label for some to seek attention
或者心灵脆弱的人编造的标签
or feel like special snowflakes.
标签并不完全正确或者毫无必要
Labels may not be absolute or necessary,
但是半性恋这个词描述了
but the term demisexual is a descriptive word
一种性吸引的模式
for a certain pattern of Attraction
帮助这些人更好的理解自己
that gives demis more understanding of themselves,
确定以及帮助他们找到同类人
affirmation and help them find the community with people who can relate.
在2012年 一位半性恋者Olivia Davis,写道:
In 2012, Olivia Davis, a demisexual wrote,
“半性恋是关于性欲和性的引起
“ Demisexuality is about desire and arousal,
不仅仅是性别以及你和谁做这件事
not just sex and who you do it with.
不只是说我有兴趣和我喜欢的人
It’s not merely that I’m only interested in having sex
做爱
with people that I love.
而且我对其他人完全没有欲望
it’s also that I feel a complete absence of desire
或者从来没有性欲
or sexual feelings towards everyone else ever.
那种缺失使我成为半性恋者
What makes me demisexual is that absence.”
这意味着当半性恋
This means when a demisexual
体会到性吸引或者性欲的时候
experiences sexual attraction and desire.
它只是对特别的人有效
it is only towards the specific partner.
每一个半性恋者的经历是不同的
Every demisexual’s experiences is different,
半性恋者对情感结合的需求
the emotional bond demisexuals need for sexual attraction
也因人而异
also varies for everyone.
这可能包括和一个人的熟悉程度
It may include familiarity with a person
和了解他人的个性
and learning aspects of their personality.
和某人建立一种情感结合并不能保证
Forming an emotional bond with someone does not guarantee
性吸引会随之而来
that sexual attraction will happen.
它仅仅是会发生性吸引的一个先决条件
It is simply a prerequisite for it to occur at all.
半性恋在人们的性征中
Demisexuality is halfway
介于无性恋和有性恋范围
between the asexual and sexual spectrum of human sexuality
半性恋经常被误认为选择那种方式
Demisexuals are often mistaken as choosing to be that way
来对抗与生俱来的取向
as opposed to it being their innate orientation.
半性恋不是一种行为模式
Demisexuality is not a pattern of behavior,
而是一种独特的性吸引模式
but rather a distinct pattern of attraction.
半性别恋不是选择放弃性欲
Demisexuals are not choosing to abstain from sex,
据说
they are often said to
他们体会不到别人的基本魅力
experience no primary attraction towards anyone
这意味着他们不会立刻就被外表
which means no attraction towards the immediate outer appearance
或者人的素质所吸引
and qualities of a person.
人们可能认为自己会被陌生人
People may find themselves to be sexually attracted to strangers,
不太了解的人或者名人有性方面的吸引力
people they don’t know well or celebrities
但是对于半性恋者
but for demisexuals
他们体会不到初始的性吸引
they do not experience the initial sexual attraction
无性恋和半性恋的区别在于
The difference between an asexual and a demisexual
半性恋体验的是二度吸引力
is that demi sexual experiences secondary attraction
即精神恋爱和感情结合
which is mental and emotional,
根植于建立一种更深的联系
stemming from the establishment of a deeper connection.
他们也许感到有性吸引力
They may feel sexual attraction
是在深入了解他人之后
after getting to know someone on a deeper level
并且发现是与内在有关
and discovering that others value them for their intelligence
而不是和外表有关
with heart or any other attributes unrelated to looks
不是真正了解半性恋的人
People who don’t really understand demisexuality
可能会给那些性致缺缺的人贴上标签
may label those who show a little interest in sex
如拘谨的人 或者害羞的 害怕亲密之类的标签
as a prude or something similar like shy or someone afraid of intimacy.
仅仅只是因为对陌生人没有性趣
Just because someone isn’t interested in sex with strangers
不会使他们不正常或者是一个拘谨的人
does not make them abnormal or a prude,
但是与此同时有些人会误以为半性恋
but at the same time others might mistake demisexuals
只会和他们爱的人有性行为
as people who only have sex with those they love
性吸引不等同于性行为
Sexual attraction is not the same as sexual behavior,
半性恋者可以和他们喜欢的人做爱
demisexuals can choose to have sex with
不管他们是否真的相爱
whomever they please whether they love them or not.
这并不会使他们倾向于或者偏离半性恋症
it doesn’t make them more or less demisexual.
许多非半性恋者选择和相爱的人发生性行为
many non demisexuals choose to have sex with people they love
并且这并不会让他们成为半性恋者
and that does not make them demisexuality.
半性恋是以你感受到的性吸引为基础的
Demisexuality refers to the underlying sexual attraction you feel,
你会对与你有情感共鸣的人有性方面的感觉
sexual feelings directed towards a person that you share an emotional bond with.
半性恋者是否要和他们发生性关系
Whether the demisexual decides to have sex with them or not,
和定义半性恋毫无关系
has nothing to do with the definition of demisexuality.
许多半性恋者对调情的想法感到不舒服
a lot of demisexuals get uncomfortable with the idea of flirting
并且可能认为这是毫无意义的
and may think it to be pointless.
半性恋者仍然可以选择
Demisexuals can still choose to engage in
有婚前性行为或者普通的性事
premarital or casual sex
许多人都是这样做的
and many do
虽然这要求真诚 开放 情感结合
though it is trust openness and emotional connection
半性恋也可以做到这些
that really gets demisexuals going
半性恋者可能不会像在酒吧里和别人调情
Demisexuals may not like the thought of flirting at a bar,
得到别人的联系方式
getting someone’s number
和陌生人一起离开 之后变得亲密起来
and then leaving with a stranger and being intimate with them.
相反 半性恋者理想中的美好夜晚
A demisexuals idea of a fun night
是在和朋友聊天 跳舞中度过的
might instead be to spend time with friends talking, dancing
享受彼此陪伴的时光
and enjoying each others company.
半性恋者可能会感到沮丧
Demisexuals may feel frustrated
当人们倾向于高估自己对他们的兴趣
with people’s tendency to overestimate their interest in them
也会生气于人们不能正常的和自己交流
and feel annoyed that they can not just talk to them normally,
当没有其他人和他们调情时
without having others hit on them.
许多半性恋者可能会出于这些原因
Many demisexuals may choose to avoid situations
避开大型活动或者酒吧等环境
like big parties or club scenes for that reason.
他们可能会觉得和亲密的朋友在一起更舒服
They might feel more comfortable in dating close friends
因为普通的约会无法吸引他们
as casual dating doesn’t appeal to them.
他们很好奇为何第一次约会就能发生性关系
and they may wonder how others have sex on the first date
或者是和刚刚见面的人做这种事
or have sex with someone they just met.
另一个关于半性恋常见的误解就是
Another common misconception of demisexuals might be
他们从未发现其他人的魅力之处
that they don’t find anyone attractive ever.
半性恋者可能不会只看对方身材火辣
Demisexuals may not just see someone as physically hot
基于外表排定吸引力顺序
and rate their attraction to someone based off of their appearance.
这是概念延伸的第一点
This is an extension of point 1,
半性恋者对于吸引力的看法
the way demisexuals think about attractiveness
似乎与其他人的看法不同
seem to be different from how others think about it
一个人的吸引力特质在于他自己
Someone’s attractive nature is found within for them,
个人的外表起的作用很小
physical appearance plays a very small
如果没有吸引别人的内在品质
if not non-existent role in what draws them to someone.
当人们谈到激情 名利 性爱
When peers talk about crushes, celebrities, and sex,
半性恋者可能会发现这些与他无关
the demisexuals may find themselves a bit disconnected.
许多非无性恋的人们
Most people on the non-asexual side of the spectrum
觉得有性吸引力
feel sexual attraction
不管是否和对方有紧密的情感结合
whether or not they have a close emotional bond with someone
他们可能会对同学
They may have sexual feelings for attractive classmates,
同事 街上的陌生人 名人 朋友的朋友都有性趣
co-workers,people on the street, celebrities, friends of friends,
然而他们会等到合适的时候再发生性关系
however they may choose to wait to have sex
原因是这违背了他们的宗教信仰
for reasons like it being against their religious beliefs
或者是想确定对方是友好的 值得尊敬的 等等
or wanting to make sure the other person is kind and respectful etc.
半性恋者则不同
It’s different for demis,
他们完全不会以这些性方面的感觉开始一段感情
they won’t start out with these sexual feelings at all
他们得先了解别人
they’d have to know more about the other person
感知到更深的羁绊
to feel like there is a deeper level of connection
每个人都有他们个人的经历
Everyone has their individualized experiences,
使得我们每个人都是独一无二的
making us different and unique.
半性恋只是个人身份的一个子集
Demisexuality is only one subset of an individual’s identity.
如果一个名词可以帮助他们更好的理解自己
If a term helps others understand themselves better
并且不会伤害别人
and does not harm to anyone else,
它就是正当的 也是有必要的
it is as valid as it needs to be.
如果你能丢掉标签 只做你自己
if you’d rather ditch labels and just be yourself
你会获得更多的力量
all the more power to you,
你是否是一个半性恋者
whether or not you are identified as a demisexual
我们期望你能敞开心胸
we ask you to keep an open mind.
允许他们做自己
Allow others to be themselves
让他们无论去哪都能携带完整的灵魂
and bring their full selves with them everywhere they go.
我们都是人
We’re all human
无论我们如何感受都是正常的
and whatever we feel or do not feel is valid.
谢谢观看
Thank you for watching,
请在评论下方和我们交流
let us know in the comments
如果你之前也听说过性方面的事情
if you have heard of peppy sexuality before
你学到新知识了吗?
Did you learn something new?
我们先前做了有关10种性征的视频
We have done a previous video on 10 types of sexualities,
也请观看相关的视频
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Hello,friends and neighbors,
我的名字是Christian Versa
my name is Christian Versa
我制作了这个动画的音乐
and i did the animation music for this video
非常感谢你们观看这个视频
I would like to thank you guys so much for watching.
非常荣幸
It makes me so proud
可以看到你们在YouTube上面的评论
to see all your comments on youtube
我们尽自己最大的努力开展讨论
We’re trying our absolute best to start conversations
和带来心理意识的话题
and bring awareness certain psychological topics
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那么我的朋友 这说明你
there’s one about signs that you, my friend
是非常有眼光 它们将会在这周上传
are a good catch that should be uploaded this week,
或者已经上传了 不管如何
or maybe it was already uploaded, either way,
是非常愉快的视频
it’s a super fun watch.
一如既往 谢谢观看 再见
And as always, thank you so much for watching,bye.

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你是半性恋者吗?它是一种性取向,还是一种个人身份的代名词?它都有什么特征,我们又该如何对待它?

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