I think when it comes to dating,
guys are often looking for the perfect thing to say to a girl
and completely miss out on the importance of body language.
Being able to read how a person feels is really key
in developing a successful social relationship.
So I want to go through the 3-stage body language checklist
that you can use on your own.
Of course stage 1 is the first encounter.
And the first way someone will show interests is usually eye contact,
and a few things can happen afterwards.
A shy girl might look flustered and look away quickly,
while a confident girl will hold eye contact
and smile or maybe even wink.
And the best course of action here is to live off
that high for the rest of the week.
After that you have to watch out for proximity.
Once someone knows about you and likes you,
they will try to be around you as much as possible.
This might sound kind of creepy but it’s pretty normal, and
particularly guys are notorious for doing this.
One of the best ways to make sure you’re being romantic
instead of creepy is to be above at seven.
Now at this point hopefully you’ve gathered
that there might be some chemistry
and you guys have started chatting a little bit.
This is stage 2: Building Rapport.
And it’s where most dating takes place.
You want to pay attention to any subtle physical contact,
a good indicator of interest during conversation
as if the girl touches you lightly on the arm or dick to emphasize a point.
You might occasionally meet someone
who likes to break the physical touch barrier with a high-five.
It’ll be hard to tell if she is doing it to congratulate you
or because she wants to touch your hand,
so I’d like to remove ambiguity by making sure
all my accomplishments are particularly underwelming.
Along with that you want to pay attention to your posture.
People tend to cover their wrists and neck when they’re uncomfortable.
So if she is comfortable being around you,
she might let her hands rest on the table
or show more for neck by tilting her head to the side.
keep in mind it could just be Lou Gehrig’s.
Okay so this is one you can experiment with…
If someone wants to feel closer to you,
they’ll try to remove any barriers like a cup or bag from
between your personal spaces.
Sometimes I feel a girl thinks I’m alright,
I’ll try to see what she does if I put something between us
that stops her from talking to me.
I usually just use my personality or stay at home.
You can also build a menu for it and say you make youtube videos.
And of course you can make more obvious gestures
like licking or biting her lip.
That’s pretty hard.
So if all the boxes are checked so far,
hopefully you are thinking,
hey, we’re having a great conversation,
lots of laughing, physical contact.
Everything is going well and you are ready for stage 3.
Fucking it up.
Really this stage is pretty intuitive
but can take anywhere from 30 seconds to 10 or 15 years.
So remember to be patient.
Few than more common signs are you’ve seen them recently
but they haven’t seen you.
They have a kid and it isn’t yours.
They have a kid and it is yours.
And sometimes just not realizing anything is wrong at all.
Anyway, don’t stress everything on the checklist.
It can all really be boiled down to “just be yourself.”
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So there are people would dilate if they are interested what they see.
But it can be kind of hard to tell they have dark guys.
so take out your flash lamp.