Unfortunately, one of the most common reasons why
some people will never find the courage
to pursue their dreams
is because they succeed in convincing themselves
that they have too much to lose in trying.
And that could be a job, or it might be a car or a house
or a lifestyle
It could be a relationship, or it might just be comfort and security in general.
You know,we will have such a limited final amount of time on earth
Life is so incredibly short and with every passing day
yours get shorter.
So this idea of feeling like you have something to lose
is really just a self-imprisoning delusion
that will prevent you from ever doing anything extraordinary
that involves risks at all.
An idea that might just condemn you to a life of mediocrity
and an idea that will send you to a grave of all of your good ideas
and all of your potential unfulfilled.
Remembering that I’m gonna die someday is the best way to avoid the trap
of thinking that I have something to lose.
None of this stuff is coming with you
you are already naked.
There is nothing to lose in following your heart.
Only to gain.
Now the only thing you do have to lose is time spent living a life that isn’t true to you.
And there are two primary choices we all make in life
It is to accept conditions as they are ,
or to accept the responsibility for changing them.
If you don’t take responsibility than you’re choosing
to be a victim of circumstance.
And this victim mindset dilutes human potential,
it kills action, and by not accepting personal responsibility for your own circumstances
your great live juicing the power you have to change it.
Einstein said as all know the definition of insanity is
doing the same thing and expecting different results.
And for every action we have a reaction.
If you want a new reaction,you must perform a new action.
And I think that it’s important to know that
everything we try and do in life requires a little bit of Time Persistence and Patience
but I think we live in a little bit of a society where we think fast, succes is fast right?
And when people realize that,you know, success doesn’t happen overnight
a lot of people quit.
But you dreams aren’t finished when things start to suck.
Your dreams aren finished when you lose your patience and you quit.
For me,the way to take control is to have a very clear vision of who you want to be
一年后 两年后 你想成为什么样的人
one year from now, two years from now,
此时 问问你自己 做以下这些事情
and ask yourself , in the moment, ‘Is this decision:
一连几个小时刷Ins 吃麦当劳 参加聚会
browsing Instragram for hours, eating McDonalds, partying,
going to move me closer to that person or further away?’
And you have to have faith that is something always working in the background
总有未知的力量在背后帮助你 现在也是 只是我们无法察觉
for all of us, righ now , that we can not see.