我猜你有喜欢的人 这件事可好可坏
So we guess you like someone, which is either great or absolutely terrible.
我们无从得知 但是
We have no clue. However,
你可能好奇
you might be wondering,
到底是什么让我们相互吸引呢？
what are the things that make us attracted to each other?
我们的大脑在发挥什么作用呢？ 嗯～
What roles do our brains play? Well,
你很幸运
lucky for you,
我们《来吧 心理学》列出了关于吸引力的九个事实
us at Psych2Go got a list of nine comprehensive facts about attraction.
首先 你的声音和气味
First off, you’ve got to sound and smell
要像比你自己更强大更优秀的人那样
like you’re bigger and better than you are.
你要一直伪装直到你能真正做到为止
You fake your smell and sound until you make it.
位于波兰的弗罗茨瓦夫大学
Studies from the University of Wroclaw – thank you,
研究了一个人的声音和气味
Poland – held a study about the effects
对于吸引力的影响
of one’s sound and smells into attraction.
一个人的声音 年龄 性别 体重
You can tell a lot about someone from their voice,
优点 精神状态 人格
age, gender, weight, dominance,
可以说明很多事情 所以
emotional state, and personality. So,
如果你听起来更具吸引力
if you sound more attractive,
更加自信 你就能脱颖而出
or even more confident, you’ll come off that way.
然后 你的气味中一种叫作雄二烯酮
Then you have scent, where an androgen steroid,
的雄激素类固醇发挥了作用
called androstadienone, comes into play.
这种类固醇物质是一种无味化合物 人们可以互相察觉到
This steroid has an odorless chemical compound which people can smell on each other,
自然而然地产生吸引
which naturally leads to attraction.
其实这一物质产生于体臭
This actually occurs in body odor.
但我们还是建议使用除臭剂 第二
Deodorant still recommended. Secondly,
女性的吸引力在月经周期中是变化的
womens’ attraction changes throughout menstrual cycle.
一些研究表明 女性的对不同事物的吸引力
According to several studies, women are attracted to different things depending
由所处的月经周期决定
on where they are in their menstrual cycles.
比如 当女性处于生育期
For example, when they’re fertile,
她们会更多具有男性特征
women like more masculine features, and vice
她们不排卵时的特征也是相反的 第三
versa when a woman is not ovulating. Thirdly,
男性不像女性那么看重智力
men don’t value intelligence as much as women,
我觉得很明显 但是
which I think is pretty self-explanatory, but the
数据显现女性更可能和颜值偏低
stats explain that women are more likely to date
而智力较高的男性交往 然而
less-than-average looking men with higher intelligence. However,
只有40%的男性会被长相普通的聪明女性
average women with intelligence being deemed attractive by men,
吸引 第四点：
is at a 40 %. Four:
一项探究速配的研究发现越是自恋的人越有吸引力
a study that delved into speed dating found that people who were the most narcissistic, scored higher in attractiveness.
很可能是因为自恋的人更注重自己的外表
So pretty much, because narcissists care so much about their appearance,
使得他们更具吸引力
that translates to them being more attractive. So,
第五点真的很肤浅
number five is really shallow.
不要让别人欺骗你
To stop people from cheating on you, date
和那些跟你在同一水平的人约会
people in your’league’, or settle for people
或者和没你有吸引力的人约会
who are traditionally less attractive than you are. Which,
再说一次 这真的很肤浅
again, SUPER shallow,
但是哈佛的研究表明
but studies from Harvard showed, that people who felt
认为自己比伴侣更有吸引力的人更难以得到满足
more attractive than their partners felt less satisfied, and
他们觉得自己需要更多 欺骗更多
felt like they needed more and cheated more.
第六点：反向吸引
Number six: opposites attract.
一项研究表明 人们会被不同于自己的
A study found that people are attracted to
基因蓝图吸引
a different genetic blueprint than their own,
这是因为人类的主要组织相容性复合体（免疫系统不可或缺的部分）
which lies in our HLA complex, which is crucial to our immune system. So,
或许我们可以通过气味感受到各自的主要组织相容性复合体
supposedly, we can sense each others’ HLA complexes through smell,
而相对的复合体就会产生性吸引
and opposing complexes lead to sexual attraction.
第七：一项研究表明胡须很性感
Number seven: a study found that beards are hot,
女性把大胡子看作适合做丈夫的特征
and women think a full beard is hubby material,
而将留一小撮胡子的人视为一夜情的极好对象
while a little bit of stubble is great for one night stands.
第八：搭讪时最好要与众不同
Over to eight: it’s better to be weird in pick-up lines.
一个特别的比喻如“你的笑容就是纷繁花海”
A unique metaphor like,’your smile is a sea of flowers’,
就比直白的“你很漂亮”要好 因为
is better than’you’re pretty’, because
修辞能显示出你的创造力和才智 最后
it shows that you have some creativity and intelligence. Finally,
女性会被像自己兄弟的男性吸引
women are attracted to people who are like their brothers,
这绝对是我们会被那些
which is pretty much an offshoot
让我们想起父母的人吸引（的说法）的衍生
of us being attracted to people who remind us of our parents.
这就是《来吧 心理学》
So that’s all
关于吸引力和心理学的九个事实
from us at Psych2Go and our nine facts on attraction and psychology.
下次见 对了
‘Til next time! Still,
请喷一些除臭剂
wear some deoderant.