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8个LGBTQ独有的约会难题

8 Unique LGBTQ Dating Problems

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嗨 我是克洛伊·玛丽安
Hi! My name is Chloe Marianne,
“来吧!心理学”节目的新动画师
a new animator at Psych2Go.
今天是我为大家做的动画
I’m animating this episode for you today.
希望大家喜欢
Enjoy!
约会对每个人来说都很难
Dating is rough for everybody
但同性恋是努力寻找爱情的
But is being queer an extra hurdle to jump
额外障碍吗?
over in the effort to find love?
我们节目组的答案是肯定的
We at Psych2Go say yes.
LGBT圈子的人在约会时会遇到
There are many unique problems that those
很多独特的麻烦
in the LGBT community face during their time on the dating scene.
废话不多说 下面给大家介绍
Without further ado, here is a list
8个LGBT独有的麻烦
of eight dating problems the LGBT community faces
1.无伤大雅的种族偏见
Number one: Casual racism
最近关于同性恋约会偏好的研究发现
A recent study on gay dating preferences shows
80%的黑人男性
that 80 % of black men,
79%的亚洲男性
79 % Asian men and 75 %
75%的南亚男性都在努力约会时遭受过歧视
of South Asian men have all endured racism in their efforts to date.
很多有色人种也受到盲目迷信
Many people of color also experience fetishization
黑人传递出他们有希望
Black men are messaged in the hopes
变得好斗与强壮
that they’ll be aggressive or masculine
亚洲人传递出可爱和
Asian men are often messaged
顺从的信息 可能因为看上去是这样的
because they might seem cute or submissive
女性是怎样的呢?实际上较好一些
How do women compare? Fairly better, actually.
女同性恋被种族划分影响的
Queer women are less likely to be affected
可能性更小 对跨种族约会更包容
by ethnicity and more open to interracial dating.
2.肥胖或女性化羞辱
Number two: Fat and femme shaming
同性恋圈子充满了
The queer community is full of individuals
不同体型和性别能量的个体
with different body types and gendered energies
包括像我们一样瘦得皮包骨头的
This includes some of us who are a little
或有些超重的
on the skinny side or weigh a few extra pounds,
或渗透女性能量的人
Or exude some feminine energy.
不幸的事实是
The unfortunate truth is,
同性恋文化认为这些特质并不吸引人
gay culture does not deem these traits desirable in our world today
当今世界 肌肉和男子气概胜过女性化
Muscles and manliness went over femininity,
女性化被很多人视为低等的和次要的
which many mistakenly consider subordinate and lesser
3.勾搭文化
Number three: Hook up culture
相信我 当你寻求一夜情或床伴情形时
Believe me, when you’re looking for a hook up or a friends-with-benefits type situation,
可能会不错
this can be great
但这并不是说
This is not to say
同性恋中没有人寻求深层次的关系
that there aren’t queer people who are searching for a deeper connection
但是如果你想在
But if you are looking to get to
他们把手伸进你裤子前了解他们
know someone before they stick their hands down
可能你会失望
your pants, this can be extremely frustrating
与刚见面就只询问
It’s not easy talking to someone you’ve
你性倾向和性器官样子的人
just met only for them to ask you about
在一起聊天并不轻松
your sexual preferences and what your genitals look like
4.缺乏可发展对象
Number four: Not enough fish in the sea
对世界各地的同性恋来说 成长在
Growing up in an urban cityscape can be the best thing
城市里可能最有利于寻找另一半
in the world for a queer person looking for options
不管你是在纽约 洛杉矶 东京还是伦敦
Whether you’re in New York, L.A, Tokyo or London,
对你来说都有无数的机会去找到你的梦中情人
There is endless opportunity for you to find the person of your dreams.
不在人挤人的城市里?
Not in a city packed with people?
你的胜算就很小
The odds are less in your favor.
对于同性恋来说
It’s hard for a queer person
居住在小城镇或人口稀少的地区 遇到潜在伙伴很难
in a small town or sparsely populated area to meet potential partners
不过不要放弃
Don’t give up!
在小城镇约会不意味着你一定找不到爱情
Dating in a small town does not mean that you’re doomed
5.他们喜欢你吗?
Number five: Are they even into you? Sure,
当然 有很多常见的传闻
there are some common tells that
可以帮助我们辨别是否一个人是LGBT
could give us some insight on whether someone is LGBTQ, but
但有时唯一的方法就是询问
Sometimes the only way to know is to ask
她是否喜欢女性?
Is she into women or not?
即使他一直叫你哥们
Can you get a guy to fall in love
你还希望能让他爱上你吗?
with you even though he keeps calling you his bro?
对于LGBT圈子来说 这是一个普遍的障碍
For the LGBTQ community, this is a common obstacle
6.未出柜约会
Number six: Dating while closeted
让我先说下面的观点
Let me preface this point
很多人因各种各样的原因选择对性取向保密
by saying that many people choose to keep their sexual identity a secret for a range of reasons
其中就包括对个人安全的保护
including the preservation of their personal safety
话虽这么说 但当你仍然在柜子里时
That being said, it is hard to date
约会是很难的
while you are still in the closet.
把爱一个人当成是一个秘密
It can be mentally and emotionally
可能让你情绪和精神上都筋疲力尽
exhausting to keep the person you love a secret
对你的同伴来说也一样筋疲力尽
It can also be just as exhausting for your
因为他必须帮你维持双重生活
partner who must help you maintain a double life
以继续你们的关系
in order for your relationship to continue
基于这些原因 那些未出柜
For these reasons, those who date while
就约会的人可能经历关系负担
in the closet may experience relationships strain.
7.携带艾滋病约会
Number seven: Dating with HIV
艾滋病在当今的LGBT圈子里是个大禁忌
HIV is still a huge taboo in the LGBT community today.
现代医学在过去的几十年里
Modern medicine has come a long way
已经得到了发展 艾滋病也不再等同于死刑
over the past few decades and HIV is no longer a death sentence.
但大家都尽量避免与艾滋病阳性的人约会
But those who live with HIV positive status are shunned
因为我们大多数人都害怕艾滋病
from the dating scene because of this same fear
并对艾滋病有误解
and the misconceptions many of us have of HIV.
虽然采取安全措施仍然重要
While it is still important to take safety measures,
但艾滋病是可能被情侣们克服的障碍
HIV is an obstacle that can be overcome by couples
记得艾滋病人并不脏
It is important to remember that people
并不应处于痛苦中
with HIV are not dirty, or
很重要
deserving of their status in any way,
与艾滋病阳性个体
and it’s totally possible to have a healthy,
发展健康 安全的关系是很有可能的
safe relationship with an HIV-positive individual.
8.对变性者的恐惧
Number eight: Transphobia
如果你是变性人 约会可能很难
Dating can be rough if you’re trans.
变性和非二元个体在他们的性
Trans and non-binary individuals still receive a great deal of harassment
性别和外貌方面仍然受到了很多骚扰
in regards to their gender, sex and appearance.
他们也有额外的压力
Trans and non-binary people also have the added stress of deciding if,
决定是否与何时为了约会而公开性取向
and when to disclose their identity to dates and partners
很多仅仅想了解别人的变性人
Many trans people who are simply looking to
经常发现那些人有恋物癖
get to know someone often find themselves fetishized. Now,
记得LGBT圈子是多样的
keep in mind the LGBT community is diverse,
其中的一些麻烦
and a few of these problems
更多地指向某些人 而不是所有人
are directed more to some than they are to others
解决这些问题的第一步就是认识到
The first step to solving these problems is awareness.
LGBT圈子和支持者有能力
The LGBT community and its supporters have the ability
解决这些问题 这样他们
to shed light on these issues so that they
可能遇见真爱并被人接受
can be met with love and acceptance. So,
那么 你怎么想呢
what do you think?
我们是否遗漏了什么问题?
Are there any problems that we’ve missed?
告诉我们吧
Let us know,
有没有你认为需要专门做视频讲解的词语?
are there any items on this list that you feel need their own videos?
我们“来吧!心理学”节目想要倾听大家的想法
We at Psych2Go want to hear from you.
“来吧!心理学”开通了关注LGBT的新话题
Psych2Go has a new section dedicated to LGBT topics.
点击下方的链接 阅读由新撰稿人亚历克斯编写的
Click on the link below to read more about this list
本期以及其它关于LGBT的文章
and other LGBT articles created by our new content writer, Alex!
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Don’t forget to like, comment and subscribe.
嘿 大家好
Hey everybody
我想亲自在视频里感谢大家
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支持“来吧!心理学”
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使一切都成为可能
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我们想使心理学尽可能变得触手可及
Our vision is to make psychology as accessible as possible,
这样就可以提升大家的自我意识
so that it promotes self awareness,
帮助大家成长
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