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8种不可交往的男生-女生约会指南

8 Guys most Girls don’t like to date & Stay away from - Dating Tips for Girls- Self-Improvement

[音乐]
[Music]
哈喽姐妹们 欢迎回来
Hello ladies, welcome back.
本期节目是献给你们的 没错
Well, this session is for you out there, yes
献给所有美丽 优秀的女士们
For all the beautiful, wonderful ladies.
我是Niharika 欢迎来到
Well,I am Niharika and welcome to
Skillopedia——一个学习生活技巧的地方
Skillopedia-The Place to Learn Skills for The Real World
今天我们将关注一件非常有趣的事情
Now today we are gonna lookat something really interesting.
我们将聊一聊“约会”
We’re gonna talk about “dating”.
对!我几乎可以听到你们在欢呼了
Yes, I can almost hear you guys saying “yay”.
我知道你在想什么
Well, I know what you’re thinking,
你的约会经历可能并不太美好 对吗?
your dating life doesn’t seem tobe that great, right?
但是呢 我想告诉你的是
But hey, I want to tell you that
你不是一个人
you’re not alone,
作为女性 我发现
As a woman, I have found out that
和 “对的人” 约会
dating “Mr.Right”
并不像说的一样简单
is not easy as talking about it.
对 这是事实
Yeah, that’s the fact.
因为和你约会的那个人
Because the guy you still are dating seems to be
在开始时看起来是那样的美好而钟情
really nice and really loving at the beginning,
直到你开始真正地了解他
until you actually get to know him.
所以 致所有的女士们
So to all the ladies out there,
我做了一个关于危险信号的小清单
I have made a small checklist of the red flags,
也可以称之为“警告信号”
or you can call it as the “warning signs” that
开始约会后 要留心这些信号
you need to look out for as soon as you start dating.
现在 我不关心你和这个人认识了多久
Now I don’t care how long you’ve known the person
或你有多么的孤独
or how lonely you are,
但相信我 我会很愿意遵守这份清单
but trust me, I would love to stick to this checklist,
我也很真诚地请你特别留意这张清单
and I would really, really request you to pay close attention.
当然 至于在观看节目的男士们
And of course to all the men out there,
就当帮我们个小忙
well, just do us a favor,
不要成为我接下来
and don’t be one of these guys that
要提到的任何一种男人 对
I’m just gonna mention, yeah.
如果你很优秀
If you are wonderful,
我们会很愿意和你在一起
we would love to be with you.
那么接下来 请别走开
So stay tuned while I run you through
继续观看我要详述的
these different guys that
各种我绝不会交往的男生
I would never date,
当然 我建议你们也不要与他们交往
and of course I would advise you to not date either.
[音乐]
[Music]
先说第一种人
Here’s the first one,
“没那么喜欢你”的人
someone “who’s not that into you”.
我们都想要
Now all of us want to
在对的时间能听到对的话
hear the right words at the right time.
这会让约会中的我们感觉
It makes us feel so special
自己是他的唯一 不是吗?
on a date,isn’t it?
但如果这些话从来没有付诸行动
But if these words don’t follow up with any action,
那这些话有什么意思呢?
then what’s the point?
听过这句俗话吗?
Have you heard the saying,
“ 光说不做假把式”
“Don’t just talk the talk,but walk the walk. “
如果你的他仅仅只是夸夸其谈
Well, if your man is just all about that talk,
然而呢 他的话
but guess what, his words
从来都不兑现
don’t even reflect in his way.
那你就必须聪明一点
So you gotta be smart enough
明白他其实并不是真的爱你 对
that he’s not really into you, yeah.
他爱的是他自己 他爱的是
He loves himself, he loves the fact that
你被他的空话吸引住的这件事
you are just kind of drawn to the way that he talks.
以及你被他的言辞给迷住的样子
You were like mesmerized with the way he talks.
这个人会许诺你一切
But this guy will promise you the world,
却从不会在你需要的时候出现
but not even show up on time.
因此姐妹们 此时你们就得意识到
So ladies, well it’s time for you to realize that
比起一个只关注自身感受的人
you are worth more than just a guy
你更值得一个
who just wants to feel good about himself
关注你的感受的人
instead of making you feel really good.
所以一旦你感受到这个男人
So as soon as you sense the guy
并没有那么喜欢你
is not that into you,
答应我 你得离开他
do me a favor, you gotta leave,
你得结束这段感情
you gotta get out of that relationship.
[音乐]
[Music]
接下来
Here’s the next one,
“忽上忽下”
“up and down”.
你坐过过山车吗?
Have you ever been on a roller coaster?
非常刺激
So exciting.
你享受坐过山车吗?
Did you enjoy that ride?
或者说在过山车忽上忽下时
Or did it make you really nervous
你有没有特别紧张呢?
going up and then down?
其实 交往过程中也会出现这种感受
Well, that’s what happens in relationships too.
你知道 有的男生确实
You know there are some guys out there who
会把你捧到天上
would really take you up
然后又把你拽下来
and then drag you down.
我是说 上一秒 你还是
I mean one moment you are the one
他的独一无二
who is so special to him,
那个光彩夺目的人
you are the one who’s super gorgeous,
那个最完美的人
you’re the one who’s the best ever
下一秒 他们就困惑了
and the next moment they are confused,
他们害怕投入这份感情
they’re scared to commit to the relationship.
坦白讲 这件事情也同样让你困惑
Honestly this confuses you too.
因此这时你需要
So what you need to do is
认清楚这个现实
that you need to understand that
即这个男人是阴晴不定的
this guy is emotionally unstable.
你需要马上从过山车上下来
You need to get off that roller coaster right now,
没错
yeah.
这段旅程绝对不适合你
That ride is definitely not for you.
[音乐]
[Music]
再接下来
Here’s the next one,
“离久则情疏”
“out of sight, out of mind”,
想象一位迷人的
Imagine a guy who’s charming,
温柔的男生和你传情
who’s sweet, who’s flirtatious with you.
汝复何求?
What a girl wants?
天呐!
Oh my God!
这个男生如此完美
This guy is just perfect.
但是假如如此迷人温柔的他
But what if he’s charming,
和别的女生调情呢?
he’s sweet and flirtatious with other women too,
尤其是你不在他身边的时候
especially when you’re not around?
如果他总是和别的女生发短信呢?
What if he is constantly messaging other girls?
这种男生永远不会感到满足
This guy can’t get enough options.
并且 他会让你没有安全感
Well he is someone that will make you feel insecure,
最终你们会因为缺乏信任而分手
and you will end up having trust issues.
其实 这样的男人
Well,this kind of a guy
根本没把你放在心上
doesn’t have you on his mind,
你一离开他身边
and when you are not around,
他就完全忘了你
you are definitely not on his mind.
就像那句话一样
Like the saying goes,
“离久则情疏”
“out of sight is out of mind”,
很明显 你完全不能相信他
and obviously, you can’t trust him at all.
因此姐妹们
So ladies,
你们千万不能和这样的人约会
don’t you ever date someone like this.
因为在感情中 信任对方
Because trusting the guy in the relationship
是相当重要的
is so important.
[音乐]
[Music]
下一个
Well here’s the next one,
“肉体男”
“Mr. Physical”.
我明白 荷尔蒙会让人头脑发热
Now I know those hormones can go on an overdrive.
那个时候
When that happens,
和你的另一半享受肉体带来的
it’s natural to have those hot, steamy
火热和激情是很自然的
physical moments with your partner.
这种情况在所有恋爱关系中都会发生
Now this happens in all relationships,
不仅你的感情如此 每一份感情都如此
so it’s not just yours but every single relationship.
但如果你的他
But what if your guy is only
从恋情一开始
fixated on making out with you,
就只是想跟你上床呢?
especially at the very start of the relationship?
你的身体远远不能代表你这个人
There’s more to you than just your body.
所以他得懂得
So he should know that
你的存在并不只是为了和他做爱
you are not that person who really wants to be only for sex.
如果他不在乎你是什么样的人
If he cannot care about the person that you are,
那你也不必在乎他了
well you don’t have to care about him either.
这时 你就该赶紧撤出这份感情了
So time for you to move out of that relationship.
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[Music]
接着说另一种男人 “婴儿男”
Well here’s the next guy, “the baby”.
你的他有没有让你觉得你像他妈妈呢?
Is your guy making you feel like you’re his mother?
是的 这种人连自己都收拾不好
Yeah, this guy can’t even clean up himself,
他连自己的账单都不会付而且你知道吗
he can’t even pay his bills.And guess what?
如果事情不按他的方式来
Like he throws the most silly tantrums
他就会发脾气
when he doesn’t have his way.
我想说 他真的就是个大婴儿
I mean, he’s really a baby.
我也曾和这种人谈过恋爱
I used to be in a relationship with this kind of a guy.
作为女性 面对这种人
As women we feel important
我们会觉得必须照顾他
taking care of someone like that,
这会让我们压力山大
it’s like so stressful.
姐妹们 请你们明白
Ladies, please understand
如果你的他现在都照顾不了你
that if your man can’t take care of you
未来 他也一样不会照顾你
then he won’t ever be able to do that in future.
因此 不要和一个想找个母亲的人在一起
So don’t be with someone who needs a parent.
他需要的是一个
He needs someone who has to take care of him
细致入微地照顾他的人
for every single little thing.
那么到此为止 赶紧结束这段感情
Then period, get out of that relationship right now.
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[Music]
接下来 是“自恋男”
Well the next one is “self-obsessed”.
你知道 有些人会要你
You know there are some guys who want you
对他们说的一切都点头称赞
to nod and smile at everything they say.
对他们来说 他们的观点就是最佳的
For them their opinions are the best.
他们什么都知道
They have all the answers.
他们甚至不在乎你的想法
They don’t even care aboutwhat you think.
让我来告诉你 他是什么厉害的人物
Well I’ll tell you what this sexy guy is,
他就是那种永远都不会听你说话的人
is someone who would never ever listen to you.
他永远也不会向你学习
Who he would never even learn things from you.
这时你就得远离他了
So for you it’s time to run away.
逃离这种极其自恋的人
Well run away from this guy who is so self-obsessed
这种只关心自己 视你如无物的人
that he just cares about himself and you are nothing to him.
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[Music]
接下来是“疯狂的约会史”
Next one is “crazy dating record”.
我们并不是要对人们的过去品头论足
Now we are not meant to judge anyone based on their past,
反正我是不会那么做
I mean I would not do that.
但如果你交往的这个人的约会名单上
But what if the guy you’re dating has had like
有很多从未用心对待过的女孩呢?
string of girls he’s never ever been serious with,
对 一段认真对待的感情都没有
yes, no serious relationships.
那你凭什么认为
What makes you think
你就与众不同呢?
it’s going to be different with you?
在感情中
Well as a woman you get really
女人真的很感性
emotional about that relationship.
你想着 “噢
You think that, “Oh,
我的天 我们多么相爱啊!”
my god, we are such in love.”
但实际呢
But the truth is
只有他们自己能改变他们自己
that only they can change themselves
除非他们真的改变了
and unless that happens
否则 你绝对不能靠近这种
you don’t even want to be anywhere near this guy
有着这种疯狂约会史的人
with such a crazy dating record.
所以 小心一点
So be careful.
[音乐]
[Music]
我们再看另一种男人
Let’s look at another one
“谎话男”
‘Mr. Lies’.
诚实是一段感情的基础
Honesty is the foundation of any relationship.
如果你的另一半对每件小事
If your partner has a habit of lying
都习惯了说谎
about every little thing,
无论这件事多么微不足道
however insignificant it may be,
这都是一个“警告信号”
it’s a “warning sign”.
这显示了他的感情有多么脆弱
You know it just shows that how weak he is,
比如 对了 你会浑身难受
like, yeah, I mean you would not be comfortable.
感情里的谎言总会让你难受
Lies in a relationshipalways makes you uncomfortable
我们也不愿那样
and we don’t want that.
因此不管他的谎言是关于他的家庭
So whether you’re being lied to about his family,
他的年龄 他的职业
about his age, about his job
还是他的朋友 他的过去
about his friends, about his past,
都是时候
Well it’s time for you to
尽快远离他了
stay away from it as soon as possible.
姐妹们 谢谢你们
Well ladies thank you,
谢谢收看本期节目
thank you for watching this session
当然也万分感谢
and of course a big thank you to the guys too
观看了本期节目的男士们
if you have watched this session
别忘了订阅我们的频道
Well, do not forget to subscribe to our channel
Skillopedia——技能大全
Skillopedia-The Place to Learn Skills for The Real World
还有请告诉我
and please let me know
这份清单能否在生活中帮到你
if this checklist has helped you with your daily life
因为我确信你一定会受益的
because I’m sure it will.
我已经等不及想收到你们的消息了
So I can’t wait to hear from you guys.
所以请动动手评论一下
So do comment,
我会十分认真地读完所有的评论
I would love to read all of these comments.
新的一期节目再见啦
And I will see you soon with a new session till then.
保重哟
Take care.

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