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男人陷入爱情的七个阶段

7 Ways Men Fall in Love

来吧心理学
Psych2Go
“男人就是头猪”你这么说
“Men are pigs.” you say,
冰激凌蹭一脸 来填补被拒绝的空虚感 还有背叛
stuffing your face with ice cream to fill the empty hole of rejection and betrayal.
任何关系都持之不易
Any relationship is difficult to maintain,
但男女间的恋爱关系更加困难
but a romantic relationship between a man and a woman is even more so.
为什么
Why is this?
当爱情让人觉得似曾相识
While love is a feeling experienced identically,
对两性来说 坠入爱河的表现截然相反
the act of falling in love involves two entirely different processes for each sex.
对于男性来说
In the case of men,
恋爱都会经历这7个特定的步骤
there are 7 particular steps men follow for falling in love.
第1步 悦目 也是最常见的
The first step, appreciation, is by far the most common.
关注TA的外表
It’s the act of checking someone out,
这是检验某人的一种行为
focusing on the physical appearance of a potential mate.
外表不是最重要的因素
Physical appearance is not the most important factor,
但是男人的个人喜好还是要满足的
yet a condition of a man’s individual preferences must be met.
第2步 赏心 这里就需要开撩了
The second stage, infatuation, involves a need to seduce the target love interest.
传统的撩妹大法比如约会
Traditional methods involve asking the interest out on a date,
而其他的方法需要建立在共同爱好的基础上
while alternative methods may be based on shared interests and hobbies.
如果男人在这个追求过程中被拒 他很有可能就失去了兴趣
If he is rejected in this pursuit, the man will most likely lose interest.
第3阶段是吸引
The third stage is attraction,
被追求者回应了他
where the pursued love interest reciprocates interest in him.
在这之前心碎并不可怕
Heartbreak isn’t as difficult to deal with before this point
因为弱点也没有形成
as vulnerability hasn’t built up yet.
在这个阶段 他会尝试更深一层次地了解TA
This is the stage where he attempts to get to know the love interest on a deeper level.
更紧密的关系需要双方更多地揭示彼此
A more intense relationship requires both parties to reveal more about one another.
勾魂 这是第4步 简单说就是前几个阶段的加强版
Impression, the fourth stage, is simply an enhanced version of the previous stage.
那个TA让男人辗转反侧 魂牵梦萦
The potential mate becomes an obsession to the man,
试图用一切方法 形式吸引TA的注意
attempting to get their attention in any way, shape or form,
送礼物 表现自己有多么有趣
from buying gifts to showing how fun he can be.
但是无论他表现出怎样的着迷
Regardless of these obsessive signs,
他还没有真正恋爱
he is still not in love.
确信 这是第5步
Conviction is the fifth stage,
和其他阶段相比要灵活得多
yet it is far more flexible than the other steps,
横跨了阶段2~4
spanning from stages 2 to 4.
在这里 男人会自问
This is the stage where the man asks himself,
是否能看见 在遥远的将来 他和TA并肩而行
whether or not he can see himself with the interest in the far future.
考虑一下 如果需要更进一步
Considering how difficult it is for the man to establish
对于男人来说 建立关系有多困难
if the relationship should become more than it is now.
这是个覆盖了个人背景的时期
This is a background-overlying phase,
但在到阶段6之前必须完成
yet it needs to be completed in order to reach stage 6.
第6阶段 再确认
Reaffirmation is the sixth stage,
这时候 男人已经达成撩妹到手的目标
where the man has successfully met his goal of seducing the love interest.
只有在这个阶段撩到了潜在的TA
Only when the potential mate is in this stage
他才会认真考虑
will he seriously consider
是否他真的想和TA地久天长
whether or not he wants to have an extreme long-term relationship.
这时 男人需要个人空间
The man needs space in this stage.
有时 为了权衡利弊 他会人间蒸发一阵
In some cases, he could disappear to weigh the pros and cons.
若双方达成共识 那么终极目标也已经达成: 承诺
If both parties agree, the final stage — commitment — is achieved.
这时 双方会忠诚于这段关系
Both parties will be committed to the relationship at this point.
然后 考虑到这是第7步了 是的 男人终于坠入爱河
And, considering this is the seventh stage, yes, the man is finally in love.
重要的是 无分性别 都需要学会如何去爱
It is important to understand, regardless of gender, to learn how to love.
通常情况下 包括坠入爱河
And often, this involves falling in love.
希望 这些秘诀
Hopefully, with these tips,
能帮你更容易了解 一个典型男人的思维中
you found an easier path to understanding how romance works
爱情是怎样悄然滋长
in the mind of a typical man.
男人心性不定 浮躁善变
Males can be fickle,
如果是这样 记住这几个阶段
but if you’re into that, keep these steps in mind.
你就会领先那些自以为懂爱情的人一步
You will be ahead of those who think they know how love works.
以及 或许你会选择省下买冰激凌的几块钱
And maybe, you’ll save yourself a few pints of ice cream as well.
感谢收看来吧心理学
Thanks for watching Psych2Go.
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