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7种不健康的爱恋

7 Types of Unhealthy Crushes

我们都知道沉浸于爱恋中
We all know how easy it is to
是多么的容易
be completely mesmerized by a new crush
当你爱上某个人时
and when you’re falling for someone
这世上的一切都将只是匆匆浮云
it can seem like nothing else really matters
但扎心的是
But the sad truth is
有些爱恋可能是不健康的
that some crushes can be unhealthy
每个人都应谨慎处之
and that’s something everyone needs to watch out for
你曾有过不健康的爱恋吗?
Can you think of a time when you had an unhealthy crush?
甚至也许你正经历着不健康的爱恋
You might even be in the midst of an unhealthy crush right now
却没有察觉到它
without actually realizing it
但别担心
but have no fear
因为我们将告诉你
because we’re about to tell you
所有我们认为可能不健康的爱恋
all about which crushes we think can be potentially unhealthy
并且要注意些什么
and what to look out for
1. 爱上已经脱单的人
one rushing on someone who’s already in a relationship
我们先说下这个明显的问题
Let’s get the obvious stuff out of the way first
没错 爱上已经脱单的人
Yes crushing on someone who’s in a relationship
可能对你并不太好
is probably not the most healthy thing for you
从心理学上讲
Psychologically speaking
我们都知道这有时是难以控制的
We know that this is sometimes hard to control
但渴求着得不到的东西
but wanting something that you can’t have
可能会导致严重的内心骚动
could potentially lead to some serious inner turmoil,
踌躇不前等待时机看似很酷
it’s cool to hang back and wait for an opening
但如果你控制不了你的感情
But if you can’t control your feelings,
它就会摧毁友谊的小船 让你头脑混乱
it could destroy your friendships and totally mess with your head
2. 爱上年龄太大或太小的人
Two crushing on someone who’s way too old or young for you
我们都知道年龄只是一个数字
We know that age is just a number
但当然还是有限度的
but there’s definitely a limit to that
爱上年龄太大或太小的人
Crushing on someone who’s way too older young for you
可以是一件非常非常不健康的事
could very well be an unhealthy thing
甚至可能是不合法的
Hell it might not even be legal
尽管有时这也是行得通的
while these relationships can sometimes work out.
但成功的机会绝对不大
They definitely don’t stand the best chance of success
再次声明 这就像追求永远得不到的事物一样
Again, this is often a case of desiring something you can’t have
会引起一些十分不健康的后果
and that can lead to some seriously unhealthy patterns
如果你发现自己
It’s even more worrisome
爱上的人不仅太大而且已婚
if you find yourself crushing on older people
或者比你小很多
who are married or if you are an older person
就更加麻烦了
crushing on someone who’s still essentially a child
的确有很多忘年恋成功的例子
there are tons of situations where older and younger people can make it work
但也有很多潜在的不健康行为
But there’s also a lot of potential for unhealthy behavior
3. 从爱恋变成迷恋
three when a crush becomes an obsession
尽管有时倾心和迷恋很浪漫
While it’s true that devotion and obsession can sometimes be romantic
但很容易越界而变得怪异
It’s easy to cross the line into some very weird territory.
如果你发现自己跟踪你爱的人
If you find yourself following your crush
窥伺着他们的社交状态
creeping on their social media profiles
以及通常所说的膜拜他们
and generally just worshipping them
那你的思维模式可能有些不健康了
Then you’ve probably developed some pretty unhealthy thought patterns
并且不仅不健康
Not only is this unhealthy,
而且还降低了你们在一起的机会
but it also diminishes your chances of actually getting with your crush
最好还是放轻松
It’s better to just relax take it easy
尽力做到不要太痴迷
and try not to obsess too hard
4. 爱上对你很不好的人
Four when you develop a crush on someone who treats you poorly
可能有些观众会不同意本视频的一些说法
some of our viewers might disagree with some of these points
但大家都知道这是不健康的
But everyone will understand that this is unhealthy
让人悲伤的是这经常会发生
and the sad part is it happens way too often
爱上对你很不好的人是很不健康的
crushing on someone who treats you poorly is pretty unhealthy
而且这是一定要解决掉的问题
and it’s something that definitely needs to be addressed
如果你发现自己喜欢上
If you find yourself getting attracted to someone
欺负你或贬低你的人
who is bullying you or putting you down
或许你应该退一步
Maybe take a step back.
这可能是因为相互依赖
This could be due to codependency
或是某种心理创伤
or some sort of psychological trauma
你需要寻求专家的帮助
you need to work through with a professional
你没有理由喜欢
There is no reason why you should be
那些暴力 自私的人
attracted to someone who is abusive and mean
当然男生坏坏的样子很迷人
Sure bad boys can be attractive
但对你很糟糕的人绝对不是好的情侣
but someone who treats you badly will never make a good partner
6. 爱着前任
six Crushing on an ex.
呃 这显然不是我们能控制的事情
Well, it’s obviously not something that we can control
通常来说也不是什么好事
It’s generally not a positive thing in our lives
用最简单的话来说
in the simplest terms possible
爱着前任意味着你没有放下过去
Crushing on an ex means that you can’t move on.
当然你们可能还有机会复合
Sure there might be a chance of getting back together
复合也可能有一段很棒的恋情
and it might be a great relationship when you do that
但如果你的前任已经放下而你却没有怎么办?
But what if your ex has moved on and you didn’t
如果你发现只是自己
what if you just find yourself
想要复合
wishing that you could get back together?
即使你自己都知道不可能了?
Even when you know that it’s not possible
这就说回到
This goes back to the problem of
渴望得不到的事物的问题了
desiring things you can’t have.
前任可以是
An ex can be that forbidden fruit
那个日夜折磨着你的禁果
which torments you day and night
最后最好还是放手吧
In the end it’s better to just let go
虽然有时这真的很难
While it’s sometimes hard to do this
但完全做不到是不健康的标志
being completely unable to is an unhealthy sign
6. 爱上那个远方的人
Six crushing on someone in a long-distance relationship
而你不能适应
when you’re not used to it.
先说清楚
Let’s be clear
异地恋是行得通的
long-distance relationships can work
我们不是说异地恋
We’re not saying crushing on someone
总是不健康的
who lives far away is always unhealthy
但它绝对是有可能的
But it definitely has potential to be
想着那个人在干嘛
it can be pretty stressful thinking about
那个人是不是和别人在一起了
what that person is up to
是很让人头疼的事
and whether or not they’re getting romantic with other people.
事实上
In fact
这简直就是折磨
it can be pretty close to torture
如果你适应了异地恋
if you’re used to long-distance relationships
你也许可以一直爱着那个人
you might be able to keep that crush alive
等待属于你的那一刻
and wait for your moment,
但你如果适应不了
but if not,
就可能陷入很不健康的想法和行为中
it could spiral into some pretty unhealthy thoughts and behaviors
7. 脱单后却爱上别人
Seven crushing on someone when you’re already in a relationship
当你正处于一段恋情中却爱上别人
Crushing on when you’re already in a relationship
这是无法控制的
Can be an uncontrollable thing
这就是典型的
and it’s definitely a case of
别人家的总是更好的例子
the grass always being greener on the other side
我们都知道爱是可遇而不可求的
We know love just happens
不论我们有没有处在恋情中
It’s not like we can control who we fall for
我们都无法控制自己
or whether or not it happens
爱上谁
when we’re already in a relationship
但如果你发现自己已经有另一半
But if you find yourself crushing on people
却还是爱上了别人
while you’re already tied down
这可能就是一种迹象
It might just be a sign
表示你不能有一段长期的关系
that you’re not able to commit to a long-term partnership
并且不能保持忠诚
and you have problems being loyal
这可能会让你警觉
This is potentially a cause for alarm
尤其是当你不爱你的情侣时
especially if you’re leading your partner on
还继续骗他们
while not really interested in them
这些都是很不健康的
all this can be is pretty unhealthy
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如果你发现你的爱恋是健康的
if you found out that your crush is actually healthy
我们希望你能牵手成功
We hope that it works out for you.
非常感谢观看!
Thanks so much for watching

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不健康的爱恋有喜欢已经脱单的人,有喜欢太大或太小的人等等

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