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7个迹象表明对方是合适的对象

7 Signs They're a Keeper

我们都想要童话般的结局
We all want that fairy tale ending in life,
但每个人的结局都不一样
but it looks different for everyone.
我们中的一些人寻求一个勇敢
Some of us seek a lifelong partner
冒险和自由精神的终身伴侣
who is bold, adventurous and free-spirited.
另一些人可能渴望找到
Others may yearn for someone
一个可以安定下来
they can settle down with
组建家庭的人
and start a family.
想知道你是不是和对的人在一起?
Wondering if you’re with the right person?
这里有七个迹象表明他们是对的人
Here are seven signs that they’re a keeper.
1 你在做一些平凡的事情的时候也会很开心
1.You can have fun, even doing mundane tasks.
有了他们在身边
Is grocery shopping
去杂货店买东西是不是会好100倍?
100 times better with them around?
懒人星期天呆在家里
What about lazy Sundays staying in
洗衣服怎么样?
and doing the laundry?
恋爱并不总是
Relationships aren’t always about
令人兴奋的约会
going on exciting dates.
杂物要做 账单要付
Chores have to be done and bills need to be paid.
当你和你的伴侣
When you and your partner
能够平等的分担责任时
can divvy up responsibilities equally,
这表明他们知道什么是需要严肃对待的
it goes to show they know what to be serious.
懂得生活不全是玩乐
Understands that life isn’t all play
他们关心你生活方式的平衡
and they care about your lifestyle balance.
2 没有逐渐演变成虐待或操控
2.There is no abuse or manipulation evolved.
良好牢固的关系
A good solid relationship
建立在信任的基础上
is built on a foundation of trust.
当一方
But when one partner
对另一方不诚实时
is not been honest with the other,
他们就不尊重你的感情
they’re not respecting your affection
也不把你当做一个个体来尊重
and you as an individual.
无论是身体上还是精神上的虐待
Whether it’s through physical or mental abuse,
在受伤或遗弃之前
the individual would rather attack
一个人宁愿
the other person first,
先攻击另一个人
before getting hurt or abandoned
来作为防御机制
as a defense mechanism.
如果你的伴侣没有堕落到
If your partner however doesn’t stoop
做这些有毒的行为
to these low toxic behaviors,
那么他们不仅是对的人 而且是值得尊敬的人
then they’re not just keepers but respectable people.
3 他们愿意改正错误
3.They are willing to work on their mistakes.
什么样的正常关系不涉及争吵?
What normal relationship doesn’t involve fighting?
但两个人如何解决问题的方式
But it’s how two people can work things out
将可持续的关系与瓦解的关系
that sets apart sustainable relationships
区分开来
from disintegrating ones.
当你的伴侣做错了
Does your partner apologize
什么事 他们会道歉
when they’ve done something wrong
并付出额外的努力来弥补吗?
and goes the extra mile to make it up to you?
当他们练习谦卑
When they practice humility
努力去自我反省
and make the effort to self reflect,
这表明他们是可靠的 愿意成长
it shows that they’re dependable and willing to grow.
4 他们会记得你的点点滴滴
4.They remember the little things about you.
随着时间的推移 你很容易
Over time, it’s easy
和你的伴侣相处的很舒服
to get comfortable with your partner,
而不是像你刚开始约会时
and not pay as much attention to them as you did
那么关注他们
when you first started dating them.
但如果他们还在努力
But if they’re still making the effort
记住你最爱的零食
to remember things like your favorite snacks,
或者你在糟糕的一天更喜欢做什么
or what you prefer to do on a bad day,
这不仅可爱而且体贴
it’s not just endearing but thoughtful.
5 他们鼓励你独立
5.They encourage you to be independent.
谁不喜欢做情侣间的可爱小事呢?
Who doesn’t like to do cute couple things?
但也许你花了很多时间
But maybe you’ve been spending
和你的伴侣在一起
a lot of time with your partner
而忽略了和你的
and have neglected to catch up
朋友 家人在一起
with your friends and family.
你的伴侣是否有提醒你
Does your partner remind you
在感情关系之外充实自己的社交生活?
to fulfill your social life outside of your relationship?
当他们允许你自由的
When they allow you the freedom
与他人保持良好的关系时
to maintain strong relations with others,
这表明他们并不是自私的
it shows they aren’t just selfishly
把你留在自己身边
keeping you to themselves.
他们关心你个人的幸福
They care about your happiness as an individual.
6 他们不会对你怀恨太久
6.They don’t hold grudges against you for too long.
别人惹你生气后
It’s easy to stay mad at someone
你很容易对他发脾气
after they’ve upset you.
但如果你的伴侣有能力
But if your partner has the skills
克服自己的情绪 练习同理心
to work past their emotions, practices empathy
专注于解决问题
and focuses on problem solving,
这意味着他们更关心让事情顺利进行
it means they care more about making things work,
而不是看着事情分崩离析
instead of watching them fall apart.
7 你从来没有像现在这样快乐过
7.You have never been happier than you are right now.
最后 最重要的问题
Finally here’s the most important question.
是这个人
Does this person
让你觉得现在是最快乐的吗?
make you the happiest you’ve ever been?
当你和对的人在一起时
When you’re with the right person,
他们不会让你觉得
they don’t make you feel like
你需要夺取他们的注意力
to compete for their attention,
也不会让你感到自己无能
nor do they ever make you feel incompetent,
渺小或不被欣赏
small or unappreciated.
即使在糟糕的日子里
Even on the bad days,
你知道你总能指望他们
you know you can always count on them
在你身边
to be there for you.
你最喜欢你伴侣的哪一点?
What’s your favorite thing about your partner?
如果你单身
If you’re single,
你理想的恋爱关系是什么样的?
what does your ideal relationship look like?
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本视频介绍了七种对方是良人的品质,比如尊重你,让你觉得快乐等等。

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视频来源

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