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单亲家庭长大的7个影响

7 Effects of Growing Up with a Single Parent

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let’s get to today’s topic on
在单亲家庭中成长的影响
the effects of growing up with a single parent
虽然在一个家庭中有父亲和母亲
Although having two parents in the picture
对孩子的成长绝对是有好处的
is definitely beneficial for kids growing up,
但这不是绝对的情况
it’s not always the case.
现在有很多儿童
There are many children today
过着单亲家庭的生活
who are going through life with just a single parent,
并且当他们长大成人
And when they reach adulthood,
他们中的许多人都变成成功的快乐人士
many of them become highly successful, happy individuals
不管正面的还是负面的心理影响
Both negative and positive psychological effects
对于有一个单亲家庭
of having a single parent
已经被广泛的研究
have been studied extensively
有趣的是 许多新的研究表明
Interestingly,many new studies suggest that
尤其是离婚没有必要
divorce in particular might not necessarily
成为心理问题的根源
be the root cause of psychological issues
尽管早期有这种学派说法
despite previous schools of thought.
相反 通常这些问题可能只是
Instead,these issues might simply be
创伤性回忆的后果
the result of traumatic memories in general.
让我们来了解在单亲家庭下成长的7种影响
Let’s check out 7 Effects of Growing up with a Single Parent.
男孩倾向于在成年早期无所事事
Boys tend to be more idle in young adulthood.
有时特定的性别似乎反应不同
sometimes specific genders seem to react in different ways
在单亲家庭中成长
to growing up with a single parent.
比如男孩
In terms of boys,
一些研究表明
some studies have suggested that
他们更可能在成年早期无所事事
they’re more likely to be idle in young adulthood.
这可以包括
This includes things like
变得不积极 甚至是辍学
being unproductive and even dropping out of school.
虽然男孩更可能经历这些
While boys are more likely to experience this,
这也绝对会发生在女孩身上
it can definitely happen with girls as well.
女孩极有可能在未成年时就怀孕
Girls are at a higher risk for teen pregnancy.
各种调查和研究显示
Multiple surveys and studies have shown
单亲家庭和未成年怀孕的联系
a link between single-parent homes and teen pregnancy.
虽然无计划的怀孕不一定是一件坏事
While unplanned pregnancies aren’t always a bad thing,
尤其是未成年怀孕
teen pregnancies in particular
会产生一定的问题和复杂情况
can involve certain issues and complications
比如缺少财务来源
such as lack of financial opportunities
和缺少通往更高的教育通道
and access to higher education
一些已形成的理论认为这种关联
Some have theorized that this correlation
是由于单亲家庭中缺少男性的角色
is due to the lack of a male figure in the household
对少女会产生负面的心理影响
which can have negative psychological effects on a young girl.
在某些方面 单亲家庭确实有更多的好处
Single-parent families can actually be more beneficial in some cases
随着越来越多的孩子成长在
With more and more children growing up
单亲家庭中
in single-parent households
许多研究不仅着手于负面影响
more research is being done on not only the negative effects
也有研究正面影响
but also the positive ones
一些研究指出在某些方面
Some studies have pointed out that in some cases,
单亲家庭确实更有利
single family household can actually be more beneficial.
主要的例子就是
The main example would be
一个极度压抑的双亲家庭
an extremely stressful two-parent home
相比于一个安宁的单亲家庭
versus a peaceful relaxed single-parent home.
当双亲家庭是极度的冲突
when there is extreme conflict,violence
暴力或者压抑
or stress in a two-parent home
一个单亲家庭确实
a single-parent home is actually
对于孩子有更好的成长环境
a much more beneficial environment for the child.
这绝对是一些值得记住的事
That’s definitely something worth keeping in mind
正如我们在这里所列的一些负面影响
as we list some of the negative effects here
单亲家庭的孩子可能最后
Kids with a single parent might end up
和那个亲人有更深的感情
having a stronger relationship with that parent.
总是有一种特殊的羁绊
There’s always a very special bond
建立在孩子和父母之间
that forms between children and their parents.
但是一项研究表明在一个单亲家庭中
But one study suggests that in a single-parent home,
感情可能无声无息地更加深厚
that relationship could potentially be even stronger
并且具有未在双亲家庭中所见的独特方式
and unique in a way that is unseen in two-parent homes.
在这种情况下这种感情不但更加深厚
Not only is the relationship often stronger in this situation but
而且孩子和父母也会更加依赖对方
the children and parents are are more dependent on each other,
更加深情的
more affectionate
也更可能一起朝着共同的目标努力
and more likely to work together towards a common goal
在我们继续谈到下一点之前
Before we continue to the next point,
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we want to share with you a recommended video from better help.
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Haesue talks about Seven Ways To Overcome Emotional Neglect.
如果你发现自己
If you find yourself to be somebody
受到情感忽视
who suffered from emotional neglect
在看完这个视频你可能需要点击观看一下
you may want to check it out after this video
单亲家庭的孩子可能最后
Kids with single parents might end up
在生活中变得不太满意
being less satisfied in life.
在一份稍微有些令人担忧的研究中
In a slightly alarming study,
对成千上万的人进行调查
research was done on tens of thousands of individuals
测试他们对生活的满意程度
to test their overall feeling of satisfaction in life.
研究发现对生活的满意程度有小幅且持续性下降
the study found a small but persistent decrease in life satisfaction
在整个童年时期都是在单亲家庭中度过的人
among those who had grown up with a single mother throughout childhood.
他们发现这些人不太可能
They found that these individuals were less likely
获得教育和经济上的成功
to experience educational and economic success
和健康的身体
and good physical health
另外 他们发现
Additionally,they found a connection
在单亲母子和未满足的目标中的联系
between single mother childhoods and unmet relationship goals.
但是记住
But remember,
在生活满意度中仅仅是小幅下降
there was only a small decrease in life satisfaction
当和双亲家庭比较时
when compared to those with two parents
这可能会增加精神疾病的风险
There could be an increased risk of psychiatric issues;
这里有大量的科学理论
there’s a huge wealth of scientific literature
陈述了单亲家庭是一个危险因素
which states single-parent homes are a risk factor
对许多有精神健康问题儿童来说
for a number of mental health issues children,
包括抑郁症和心理困扰
including depression and psychological distress.
再一次
Once again,
我们不是说所有的单亲孩子都会这样
we’re not saying this happens to all children in these situations
但是他们绝对有一种关联
but there’s definitely a link.
而且 我们不得不提醒
Alos,we have to mention that
潜在的负面回忆的创伤
the trauma of potentially negative memories
可能是根本原因
might be the root cause
不必特别是单亲家庭才会这样
not necessarily single-parent homes specifically
单亲家庭的孩子尤其得益于
Children with single parents benefit immensely
和祖父母们有很深的感情
from a strong relationship with their grandparents.
让我们以一些正面的东西结束吧
Let’s end things with something positive;
帮助儿童避免负面影响
what can be done to avoid some of these negative effects
可以做些什么呢?
and help children in these situations?
一项研究提供了一份完美的解决方法
One study suggested a perfect solution;
鼓励和孩子的祖父母建立深厚的感情
encourage a strong relationship with the child’s grandparents.
最近有研究表明
The recent study discovered
这个简单的动作可以极大的提高社交技能
that this simple act can considerably boost social skills
并且帮助减少他们在青少年时期的行为问题
and help reduce behavioral problems in adolescents.
这是一个很好的例子说明心理研究是如何
This is a great example of how psychological research
真正的帮助那些有需要的人
can really help those in need.
在单亲家庭中成长的孩子
What do you think about kids growing up
你是怎么认为的呢?
in single-parent homes?
我们的观众里有亲身经历过这些吗?
Do any of our viewers have first-hand experience with these situations?
请在评论下方留言
Let us know in the comments below.
一如既往 谢谢你们一直以来的支持
And as always,thank you for your continued support.

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在单亲家庭长大和双亲家庭长大的孩子会有什么不同吗?

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