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It’s the boy Dexter Pepkins, it’s Aka Jimi No Fro Aka
Jimi The Legend Aka
The Legend Of Hip Hop!!!
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In today’s video, we’ll be going over the article
6 Tips To Making Your Relationship Last!!!
This article was brought to you by Imogen Bowler, Aka
Imogan? Imogen? Imogan? Imogen? Emoji.
Emoji [LOL ;D] Still the article is brought to you by Imogen Bowler.
Shout out to you and thank you for your article.
But before we start, I want to introduce you guys somebody real quick.
Everybody, this dog right here is Meeco,
My little Cheeco,
Mecoo is an amazing dog,
He is a Maltese,
I call him Mecoo because that is his actual name,
The original owner gave him to us to keep in for a year until they came back to get him.
But still he’s so awesome sweet and he’s gorgeous.
牠不會喜怒無常 但 對啊
It can’t be temperamental, but yep.
Thanks about man.
[imitate the dog]
Aha,thank you man.
好 廢話少說 讓我們開始吧 開始
Okay, so without further ado, let’s get started, let’s go!
So here we have the article: 6 Tips to Making Your Long-Distance Relationship Last.
It was uploaded on September 16th.
Long distance relationships are romantic relationships in which there is significant distance between the two partners.
This means the two partners may not get to see each other
as much as they would like.
And it can often lead to difficulties
in keeping the relationship going.
In fact, some would argue that long-distance relationship simply can not work.
This is not true, however,
and like every relationship, long-distance relationships involve overcoming hardship.
O’Leary et al(2012)conducted survey researchon those in long term relationships
to try and uncover what factors lead to happy relationships.
In their study,
they identified 12 factors which made it more likely for a person to be happy with their relationship.
In this article, we will look at 6 of these factors
and talk about how they could be apply to long- distance relationships
to make them more likely to succeed!
No.1 Thinking about the partner when apart
leads to relationship satisfaction.
This factor suggested that
those who think about their partner when they are not together
have happier relationships.
This make sense
as if you’re able to forget your partner when they are not there.
It’s unlikely the relationship is that fulfilling.
This fact is clearly relevant to long distance relationships,
as you will be apart a lot.
To apply this factor to your relationship,
try and think about your partner,
it may be difficult as the fact you’re apart will be upsetting,
but it will help in the long term
No.2 Spending time together improves feelings in relationship.
The research also found that couples who spend more time together
generally were happier in their relationship.
The act of doing things together strengthened the bond between the two people.
This may seem like you will be difficult to achieve in long-distance relationships.
However, due to the wonders of technology and the internet,
it doesn’t have to be.
Facetiming or skyping your partner while you do something,
playing an online video game or even watching a movie at the same time
and talking about it are all possible way to spend with your partner.
No.3 Expressing affection increases relationship happiness.
The research also found that
those who regularly express affection towards their partner were more likely to
have long and happy relationships.
This factor is one of the easier ways to apply to long-distance relationships.
Don’t play hard to get, just let your partner know that you love them.
Drop them a text, an email, even pen them a love letter.
However you do it, show them you love them!
No.4 People feeling generally happy about their lives had happier relationship.
This factor suggests, it’s not just about
how you feel towards your relationship .
Those with a positive outlook towards life are likely to be positive towards their relationship,
and towards their partner.
It’s not surprising then that they are likely to have happier healthier relationships.
It can be difficult to achieve happiness in life,
but taking time for yourself and trying to work through your problems
can benefit your long-distance relationship, too.
Make sure to care for yourself.
No.5 Wanting to know where your partner is
was a predictor of a good relationship.
This can be a dangerous one,
being obsessed with what your partner is up to,
demanding they tell you where they are at all times,
and trying to control where they go are all bad traits in a relationship.
However, taking an interest in your partner’s life is not.
Simply asking what your partner was up to,
or how their day has been and what they did,
shows you’re interested in your partner’s life,
and is easy to do even if you don’t physically see each other much.
Just don’t over do it.
No.6 Thinking positively about your partner indicates a good relationship.
This probably seems like a fairly obvious factor,
if your thoughts about your partner are generally positive,
you’re more likely to be happy in your relationship.
This is another factor that is easy to apply to long-distance relationships.
Try and focus on the good within your relationship,
don’t dwell on the negatives,
and try and discuss any issues you have with your partner.
Remember, no one is perfect.
That being said,
do not allow this kind of optimistic attitude to your partner and relationships
blind sight you to possible abuse.
About the author Imogen Bowler,
he is a 4th year psychology student studying in psychology and psychological research
with the plan of going into research afterwards.
If you want to know more about Imogen Bowler,
just click on his profile, the link will be in the description box below.
Thank you for reading.
Personally I have to say that
when it comes down to long distance relationships,
I really do believe that they work.
I’ve seen people who were in long-distance relationships.
For some of them, they work.
And usually these tips help in many ways to
build that long distance to make it even longer for the relationship.
現在 對於上週的影片 我忘了問你們那個主題的三個問題
Now for last week’s video, I forgot to ask you guys the three questions for that topic,
and I’m sorry for that.
And on the record, I’m also sorry for missing Monday’s upload.
I know you guys were probably expecting that I’m sorry about that.
But now here are about three questions for this topic,
1. How Do You Feel About Long Distance Relationships?
2.Were You Ever In A Long Distance Relationship Before?
And No.3. If You Are In A Long-Distance Relationship Right Now,
does any of these tips actually help you guys out last longer in the relationship?
Be sure to leave your answers and the comments set below,
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