爱 爱 爱 你们之间的关系是怎么样的呢
Love, love, love. What’s your relationship like?
Have you ever felt like you’re being manipulated
or felt like your opinion wasn’t work as much as your partners?
These’re just a few potential things to consider
when evaluating whether your partner maybe a narcissist.
But first, what is a narcissist?
A narcissist is incredibly interested in themselves.
Everything is about them.
A narcissist feels the world revolves around them
and they may even have you in the palm of their hand.
But a relationship is something that should be mutually beneficial.
So here are 6 signs that you’re maybe dating a narcissist.
Sign No.1 is that you feel like your love was bought.
Initially, when you meet a narcissist,
they can very easily sweep you off your feet.
Narcissists can be incredibly charming and overly romantic.
They do this to make you head over heals,
so they can manipulate you later.
This is the chocolate cake model of narcissism.
At first, chocolate cake is exciting.
But after eating it,
you don’t feel as good as you would after eating healthy foods.
However, the healthy foods don’t have the same initial excitement.
Sign No.2 is that you feel they will do anything to get what they want.
It may feel like your voice is ignored,
or that your opinion matters less than theirs.
They may even get upset if they don’t get their way.
This is not how a healthy relationship should work.
Compromise is a huge key in a healthy relationship.
Sign No.3 is that one of their favorite conversation topics is themselves.
They brag, they boast.
And while having self-confidence is great,
narcissists exaggerate their achievements.
They even put others down
because they think it make themselves look better.
Sign No.4 is that narcissists don’t think rules apply to them.
They budge in lines.
They can even be rude to people they don’t know.
Narcissists really believe
they are above the law and have an undeserving feeling of authority.
Sign No.5 is that you personally feel like you’ve been manipulated.
Manipulation can take many forms.
Maybe you find yourself apologizing when you don’t want to
or that you are being guilt tripped.
Both of these could happen by your partner
pretending to be a victim in any situation that suit them,
making you feel guilty and then apologizing.
Regardless how you’re feeling manipulated,
manipulation is never okay.
Finally, the 6th sign is that narcissists lack empathy.
Empathy is the ability to understand how people are feeling.
Narcissists don’t understand your feelings
and they don’t care.
They may even see people including yourself,
as objects to their means.
Everything they do is to promote their own happiness.
Sociopaths are in many ways similar to narcissists.
But the key difference is that sociopaths know what they’re doing
and they don’t need validation constantly.
They wait for a big pay off,
unlike narcissists who constantly wants attention.
Everything is the moment for them.
If you would like to learn more about sociopaths,
please click the link in the description.
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爱 爱 爱 你们之间的关系是怎么样的呢