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六个迹象表明你的约会对象很自恋

6 Signs You're Dating a Narcissist

爱 爱 爱 你们之间的关系是怎么样的呢
Love, love, love. What’s your relationship like?
你有没有觉得自己被别人任人摆布过呢
Have you ever felt like you’re being manipulated
还是觉得你的观点不如你的伴侣有效
or felt like your opinion wasn’t work as much as your partners?
这只是一些需要考虑的潜在问题
These’re just a few potential things to consider
在评估你的伴侣是否可能是自恋的人时
when evaluating whether your partner maybe a narcissist.
但首先 什么是自恋者呢
But first, what is a narcissist?
自恋者对自己非常感兴趣
A narcissist is incredibly interested in themselves.
所有事情都与他们相关
Everything is about them.
自恋者感觉整个世界都在绕着他们旋转
A narcissist feels the world revolves around them
他们甚至可能把你放在他们的手心里
and they may even have you in the palm of their hand.
但是一段关系应该是互惠互利的
But a relationship is something that should be mutually beneficial.
这里有6个迹象表明你可能在和自恋者约会
So here are 6 signs that you’re maybe dating a narcissist.
迹象1是你觉得你的爱是买来的
Sign No.1 is that you feel like your love was bought.
当你最初遇见一个自恋者时
Initially, when you meet a narcissist,
他们很容易让你神魂颠倒
they can very easily sweep you off your feet.
自恋者非常迷人 而且过于浪漫
Narcissists can be incredibly charming and overly romantic.
他们这样做是为了把你迷得神魂颠倒
They do this to make you head over heals,
所以他们之后可以摆布你
so they can manipulate you later.
这就是自恋的巧克力蛋糕模型
This is the chocolate cake model of narcissism.
起初 巧克力蛋糕是令人兴奋的
At first, chocolate cake is exciting.
但在吃了之后
But after eating it,
你不会像吃了健康食物一样 感觉那么棒
you don’t feel as good as you would after eating healthy foods.
然而 健康的食物并没有最初的兴奋感
However, the healthy foods don’t have the same initial excitement.
第二个迹象是你觉得他们会为了得到他们想要的而不择手段
Sign No.2 is that you feel they will do anything to get what they want.
这可能会让你感觉你的发言权被忽视
It may feel like your voice is ignored,
或者你的想法并没有他们的重要
or that your opinion matters less than theirs.
如果他们不能随心所欲 他们甚至会感到沮丧
They may even get upset if they don’t get their way.
健康的关系不应该是这样的
This is not how a healthy relationship should work.
妥协是健康关系中的关键
Compromise is a huge key in a healthy relationship.
第三个迹象是他们最喜欢谈论的话题之一就是他们自己
Sign No.3 is that one of their favorite conversation topics is themselves.
他们自吹自擂
They brag, they boast.
虽然自信很重要
And while having self-confidence is great,
但自恋者夸大了自己的成就
narcissists exaggerate their achievements.
他们甚至还会贬低别人
They even put others down
因为他们觉得这样会让自己显得更优秀
because they think it make themselves look better.
第四 自恋者不认为规则适用于他们
Sign No.4 is that narcissists don’t think rules apply to them.
他们排成一排
They budge in lines.
他们甚至对不认识的人很粗鲁
They can even be rude to people they don’t know.
自恋者真的相信
Narcissists really believe
他们凌驾于法律之上 有一种并不配拥有的权威感
they are above the law and have an undeserving feeling of authority.
第五 你个人感觉自己已经任人摆布了
Sign No.5 is that you personally feel like you’ve been manipulated.
被任人摆布可以有多种方式
Manipulation can take many forms.
也许当你不想道歉时 你却发现自己正在道歉
Maybe you find yourself apologizing when you don’t want to
或者你被内疚感所束缚
or that you are being guilt tripped.
这两种情况都有可能发生
Both of these could happen by your partner
当你的伴侣在任何合适的情况下假装成受害者
pretending to be a victim in any situation that suit them,
让你感到内疚然后道歉
making you feel guilty and then apologizing.
不管你被任人摆布时感觉如何
Regardless how you’re feeling manipulated,
这绝不是好事
manipulation is never okay.
最后 第六种迹象是自恋者缺乏同理心
Finally, the 6th sign is that narcissists lack empathy.
同理心是理解他人感受的能力
Empathy is the ability to understand how people are feeling.
自恋者并不理解你的感受
Narcissists don’t understand your feelings
而且他们也不在乎
and they don’t care.
他们甚至可能把包括你在内的人
They may even see people including yourself,
以他们的方式看作是物体
as objects to their means.
他们所做的一切都是为了促进自己的快乐
Everything they do is to promote their own happiness.
反社会者在很多方面与自恋者相似
Sociopaths are in many ways similar to narcissists.
但关键的区别在于 反社会者知道自己在做什么
But the key difference is that sociopaths know what they’re doing
而且他们不需要不断的确认
and they don’t need validation constantly.
他们等待着丰厚的回报
They wait for a big pay off,
不像自恋者总是想要被关注
unlike narcissists who constantly wants attention.
一切都是他们的时刻
Everything is the moment for them.
如果你想更多地了解反社会者
If you would like to learn more about sociopaths,
请点击描述中的链接
please click the link in the description.
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