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这5种有毒的人,一定要远离

5 Toxic People To Walk Away From

Ever wonder what you did
你有没有想过
to deserve harsh treatment from others?
自己为何遭到了别人的恶劣对待呢?
Well, sometimes it’s not you, but the work
有时候 需要付出努力
people have to put in to improve their habits.
养成好习惯的不是你 而是对方
Whether it’s their deep-rooted insecurities that
他们对你发飙
caused them to lash out at you
无论是因为他们在内心深处很焦虑
or their inability to let go of the past,
还是因为他们无法放下过去
know that you don’t have to tolerate the toxic behavior
你也要记住 你不必容忍这种有毒的行为
that people have to work out on their own.
因为这种行为是需要他们自己去处理的
Here are five types of unhealthy people
下面五种有毒的人
you should walk away from.
是你应该远离的
1. The Green Monster.
1. “绿色怪兽”(嫉妒心强的人)
Do you know someone who never seems happy
你认识的人会不会在你有所成就时
when you achieve something
表现得不高兴
or always gets competitive
或者连最不起眼的事
even over the littlest of things?
也要争个高下呢?
When jealousy drives them,
一个嫉妒心强的人
it creates tension between you two
会跟你起冲突
instead of building an authentic
不会与你坦诚相待
supportive relationship.
更不会支持你
Envious feelings can also make it hard for the individual
当你想与他们庆祝某些特别时刻时
to be happy for you when you want to celebrate
嫉妒心也会让对方
special moments with them.
很难为你高兴
Don’t play into their comparison games
不要仅仅为了让他们好过一些
and never downplay your own achievements
而任由他们做比较
just to make them feel better.
更不要贬低自己的成就
Most importantly, ask yourself if you want a true friend
更重要的是 你要问问自己 你要的是一个挚友
or a mere frenemy in disguise.
还是一个伪装起来的亦敌亦友
2. The Nihilist.
2. 虚无主义者
Life can get messy
生活有时会混乱
and it’s normal to feel dejected every once in a while.
所以一个人偶尔感到沮丧也是正常的
But if you know someone who is
但是 如果你认识的人
constantly a Debbie Downer
老爱泼冷水
and dismisses your excitement over future events,
总是在你分享未来的事件 爱好和梦想时
hobbies and dreams,
让你扫兴
it makes it nearly impossible to share that happiness.
你就几乎不可能分享这份喜悦
Know that you don’t have to stoop to
记住 你不必跟他们
their level of pessimism.
一起悲观
In fact, staying away from a negative attitude
实际上 远离负面心态
will be beneficial for your health in the long run.
对你的长远健康是有益的
Research has shown that high levels of cynicism
研究表明 高度愤世嫉俗的人
puts people at a bigger risk of developing dementia
比更开放 更愿意信任别人的人
compared to more open and trusting individuals.
更容易患上失智症
3. The slacker.
3. 偷懒的人
Have you ever sat next to someone who
坐在你身边的人
wanted to mooch off your work
是否曾经想偷看你的作业
and get the same credit for it?
以拿到同样的分数?
Talk about unfair right?
好不公平啊!
These people lack motivation, don’t care about ethics
这些人缺乏动力 视道德而不顾
and do whatever it takes if it means
还会为了抄捷径
taking the easy way out.
而无所不用其极
You don’t even have to work directly with them
即使你不是与他们共事
to be affected by their lazy attitude.
你也会被他们的懒惰态度所影响
They might just bring the entire class down
他们的懒惰态度 可能还会拉下
with their lazy attitude.
全班人的后腿
Whether they manipulate, guilt trip or sweet-talk you,
无论他们是在操纵你 让你愧疚 还是对你花言巧语
watch out for these sneaky individuals.
你都要当心这些心怀不轨的人
They might seem like they care about you,
也许他们表面上是在关心你
but they only care about two things:
但是他们关心的只有两件事
fast results and themselves.
迅速的结果和他们自己
4. The complainer.
4. 抱怨者
What’s worse than wasting time complaining
浪费时间抱怨 而不改变现状
about a situation instead of changing it?
还有什么比这更糟的吗?
If you know someone who prefers to wallow in self-pity
如果你认识的人只会自怨自艾
instead of taking action,
却不采取行动
it can be a bad influence on you.
这种人就会对你造成负面影响
Toxic people who incessantly play the victim card
不断打受害者牌
but never take responsibility for what
却不肯在自己能力范围内
they are capable of fixing
进行修正的有毒人
aren’t just whiny, they’re self-absorbed.
不是仅仅在发牢骚而已 这是自私的表现
5. The verbal abuser.
5. 爱骂人的人
People who know how to dish out criticism
只会批评
but don’t know how to apply it to their own lives
却又不会把批评运用在自己生活上
can be incredibly hypocritical.
是非常虚伪的表现
They continue to put others down because it’s easier
他们之所以总是贬低别人
than working out their own problems.
是因为这样比处理自己的问题更容易
Know that you don’t have to take in what they say,
记住 你不必接受他们的说法
and surround yourself with people who will
而你的身边要有一些会帮你成长
build you up, instead of breaking you down.
不会打压你的人
People who are verbally abusive enjoy attacking you
用言语攻击你的人之所以喜欢这样做
because it makes them feel better about themselves.
是因为这样做能提升他们的自尊心
Your friends should be supportive of your goals
你的朋友应该支持你的目标
and help you strive forward
帮助你往前迈进
instead of holding you back.
而不是限制你的发展
Do you encounter these types of people in your life?
你在生活上有没有遇过这样的人呢?
Evaluate your goals
请审视你的目标
and don’t be afraid to cut people out of your life.
勇敢地与某些人脱离关系
For more information on toxic friends,
想更进一步了解有毒的朋友
be sure to check out our other video here.
请点击这里观赏我们的另一个视频
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