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心理学调情技巧

5 Psychological Flirting Tips

所以 你想知道 从心理学来讲 最好的调情方法?
So, you want to know, psychologically, the best way to flirt?
这儿有些建议
Here are some tips.
第一 触碰
No.1: Touch them.
很多研究表明
Much research has demonstrated
触碰一个人可以让他们更顺从
that touching a person can increase their compliance
从而完成更多种类的要求
to complete a wide variety of requests,
并且这可以延伸到调情的世界
and this may extend to the world of flirtation.
所以触碰你喜欢的人是个好方法
So it may be a good tip to touch the person you desire.
不 不是那样
No, not like that.
研究表明
Studies have found
当一个年轻男子在夜店请求女性和他跳舞
that when a young man in the nightclub asks a woman to dance with him.
在他触碰女子小臂一两秒之后
His request was more likely to be followed
他的要求更容易被答应
if he touched her forearm for one or two seconds.
这可能由于触觉与支配地位的联系
This maybe because tactile contact is associated with dominance.
最后 当女子被要求填写调查时
As later, when the women were asked to complete a survey,
触觉接触和高支配分数相关
a high score of dominance was associated with tactile contact.
第二 巧妙遣词
No.2: Smooth-talk.
遣词在调情时很有用
Words can do a lot when it comes to flirting.
它能帮你
It can certainly do you good
巧妙的向你爱慕的人表达你的情感
to subtly communicate your affection with the person you like.
好的 不 那样永远行不通的
Ok, no, that will never work.
音调语气在调情中的作用远超你的想象
Pitch and tone actually have a lot more to do with flirting than one may believe.
麻省理工研究表明
Research from MIT suggests
男性更容易被说话时改变语调的女人吸引
that men are more attracted to women that vary the tone at which they speak.
那些声音起伏更频繁的
Those whose voice went up and down in frequency more often,
比语调平平的从男人那里接收到更多殷勤
receive more romantic interest from men than those whose spoke with a flatter tone.
这项研究也发现用”对””好””懂了”
The study also found that women were more attracted to men
这类短语插话的男性 更吸引女性
who interjected when they were speaking with the phrases such as “Yep”, “Okay”, and “I see”.
这些短语不仅暗示着说话人的掌控力
This not only suggests dominance,
即一种女性认为很有吸引力的随进化而来的癖好
which is an evolutionary trait women find appealing,
也有听话人的理解
but also understanding.
第三 模仿肢体语言
No.3: Mirror body language.
镜子 镜子
Mirror, mirror on the wall,
谁是他们里最美的人?
who is the fairest of them all?
在这种情况下 你最好装成镜子
In this case, you’ll act as the mirror.
55%吸引兴趣的交流靠肢体语言
55% of attraction communication is made through body language.
其中最精妙的
And one of the most subtle,
迄今最有效的调情法就是模仿他们的动作
yet most effective methods of flirting with someone is to mirror their actions.
这是因为
This is because,
我们无意识模仿我们喜欢的人
we unconsciously copy those we are attracted to as a sign
表明我们对他们说的很感兴趣
that we are interested in what they are saying.
模仿别人不止表明我们有很好地沟通技巧
Mirroring someone not only demonstrates that we have good communication skills,
也表明我们用心想人所想 感人所感
but also that we are invested in their thoughts and feelings.
这也是一个稳妥的知道一个人对你有没有意思的方法
This is also a surefire way of whether knowing someone is interested in you.
因为如果他们模仿你的动作
As if they copy your mirroring,
他们可能对你的感情做出答复
they just may reciprocate your feelings.
第四 穿红的
No.4: Wear red.
不 不是那么红
Not that red.
这一吸引眼球的颜色不仅显多种肤色
Not only an eye-catching color that flatters many skin tones,
也是性欲的象征
red is also a symbol of lust and sexuality.
研究表明当男女都穿红的时候
And studies have shown that when both men and women wear red,
他们对异性都更有吸引力
they appear more attractive to the opposite sex.
这可能是由于关于这个颜色的社会预期
This may be due to the social expectation surrounding the color.
然而心理学家亚当·帕自达提出
However, psycologist Adam Pazda suggests
尽管我们更容易被红色吸引
that instead our attraction to red,
但也许这是人类进化过程的残留
may be a hangover from humans as evolutionary past
因为在动物中
as animals suggest
雌性臀部上的皮肤变成一块块亮红色
female baboons display patches of bright red skin
意味着她们准备好了求偶
to indicate they are ready to mate.
当然 或许更好的建议是保持语言巧妙和端庄
However, it may be good advice to keep it subtle and classy.
第五 眼神交流
No.5: Eye contact.
眼神交流通常被认为是受到吸引的第一信号
Often viewed as the number one sign of attraction,
当开始向另一个人展示你的魅力时
eye contact is key
眼神交流就很关键了
when it comes to demonstrating your attraction towards another person.
当与一个可能继续发展的对象眼神交流时
When we make eye contact with a prospective mate,
我们实际上是通过他们瞳孔放大这种生理上的反应
we are in fact searching for evidence of their attraction to us
来搜寻他们注意到我们的证据
through their physilogical response of pupil dilation.
这也是为什么盯着别人的眼睛看会感到十分亲昵
And this is why staring into one another’s eye feel so intimate.
因此 让别人知道你对他们感兴趣的最好方法
Therefore, the best way to let someone know you’re interested in them
就是盯着他们的眼睛看
is to gaze into their eyes.
只要确保你在微笑
Just make sure you’re smiling
并且盯的不太过头就好
and that you don’t overdo it.
采纳这些建议吧 愿您好运!
Follow these tips, we wish you luck.
所以会产生什么效果呢?
So, how’d it go?
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