所以 你想知道 从心理学来讲 最好的调情方法?
So, you want to know, psychologically, the best way to flirt?
Here are some tips.
No.1: Touch them.
Much research has demonstrated
that touching a person can increase their compliance
to complete a wide variety of requests,
and this may extend to the world of flirtation.
So it may be a good tip to touch the person you desire.
No, not like that.
Studies have found
that when a young man in the nightclub asks a woman to dance with him.
His request was more likely to be followed
if he touched her forearm for one or two seconds.
This maybe because tactile contact is associated with dominance.
As later, when the women were asked to complete a survey,
a high score of dominance was associated with tactile contact.
Words can do a lot when it comes to flirting.
It can certainly do you good
to subtly communicate your affection with the person you like.
好的 不 那样永远行不通的
Ok, no, that will never work.
Pitch and tone actually have a lot more to do with flirting than one may believe.
Research from MIT suggests
that men are more attracted to women that vary the tone at which they speak.
Those whose voice went up and down in frequency more often,
receive more romantic interest from men than those whose spoke with a flatter tone.
The study also found that women were more attracted to men
who interjected when they were speaking with the phrases such as “Yep”, “Okay”, and “I see”.
This not only suggests dominance,
which is an evolutionary trait women find appealing,
but also understanding.
No.3: Mirror body language.
Mirror, mirror on the wall,
who is the fairest of them all?
In this case, you’ll act as the mirror.
55% of attraction communication is made through body language.
And one of the most subtle,
yet most effective methods of flirting with someone is to mirror their actions.
This is because,
we unconsciously copy those we are attracted to as a sign
that we are interested in what they are saying.
Mirroring someone not only demonstrates that we have good communication skills,
but also that we are invested in their thoughts and feelings.
This is also a surefire way of whether knowing someone is interested in you.
As if they copy your mirroring,
they just may reciprocate your feelings.
No.4: Wear red.
Not that red.
Not only an eye-catching color that flatters many skin tones,
red is also a symbol of lust and sexuality.
And studies have shown that when both men and women wear red,
they appear more attractive to the opposite sex.
This may be due to the social expectation surrounding the color.
However, psycologist Adam Pazda suggests
that instead our attraction to red,
may be a hangover from humans as evolutionary past
as animals suggest
female baboons display patches of bright red skin
to indicate they are ready to mate.
However, it may be good advice to keep it subtle and classy.
No.5: Eye contact.
Often viewed as the number one sign of attraction,
eye contact is key
when it comes to demonstrating your attraction towards another person.
When we make eye contact with a prospective mate,
we are in fact searching for evidence of their attraction to us
through their physilogical response of pupil dilation.
And this is why staring into one another’s eye feel so intimate.
Therefore, the best way to let someone know you’re interested in them
is to gaze into their eyes.
Just make sure you’re smiling
and that you don’t overdo it.
Follow these tips, we wish you luck.
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所以 你想知道 从心理学来讲 最好的调情方法?