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迷恋和爱情的5个差异

5 Differences Between Crushing & Falling in Love

你有没有迷恋过某个人
Have you been crushing on someone,
并且想知道你们的关系能否有进一步的发展?
but wondering if it’s becoming something more?
感情是难以捉摸的 当它到来时
Emotions can be messy and hard to decipher
我们只能感受到自己心跳加速
when all we hear is our loud heartbeats,
并且内心小鹿乱撞
or feel giant butterflies in our stomach.
好在当我们慢慢长大 会有更多的人际交往经验
The upside is that as we grow older and gain more relationship experience,
答案变得越来越清晰明朗
the answer becomes more clear.
这里是迷恋和爱情的5个差异
Here are five differences between crushing on and falling in love with someone.
1. 迷恋出现迅速 爱情发展缓慢
1. A crush develops fast, while love grows over time
当你对某人产生迷恋
When you first develop a crush on someone,
你会感觉有趣 愉悦和兴奋
it can feel fun, flirty and exciting.
就好像与火焰共舞
It’s a lot like dancing with a flame,
但是这种感觉不会持续很久
but it doesn’t last forever.
另一方面 爱情则需要时间去培养
Love, on the other hand, takes time to grow.
它需要耐心 理解和付出
It demands patience, understanding and hard work.
当我们迷恋某人
When we crush on someone,
有种兴奋感充斥并撞击着我们的胸腔
it’s the loud adrenaline rush that pounds on our chest.
但是爱情则允许我们去寻找内心深处的平静
Love, however, allows us to find inner peace within ourselves.
感觉更宁静 更微妙
It’s a lot quieter, subtle even,
在我们毫无防备的时候悄悄出现
and can sneak up on us when we least expect it.
2.迷恋浮于表面
2. A crush forms from the basics,
爱情则是隐藏于深层关系中
while love thrives from deep connections
你有没有过因为某人和你有相同的兴趣而喜欢他?
Have you ever liked someone because they shared the same interests as you?
这就是外在信息引起迷恋的例子
A crush forms from basic information like that.
也许你们两人喜欢相同的颜色
Maybe the two of you had the same favorite color,
也许你们能一起探讨某部电影的完整情节
or you can quote an entire movie together from beginning to end.
但是 那些在爱情中并不重要
But that’s not necessarily love.
爱情深藏于生活的点点滴滴
Love isn’t afraid to dive in the deep.
它让我们自愿向对方分享爱好和精彩的瞬间
It asks us to be vulnerable and go past the small talk, hobbies, and picture perfect Kodak moments.
爱情意味着分享秘密
It’s sharing secrets,
有时还意味着共同面对过去 治愈创伤
and sometimes, it means confronting the past and mending together.
3.迷恋有危机感 爱情有安全感
3. A crush might feel insecure while love stems from trust
当你将自己与别人相比较时
Crushing on someone can leave you feeling insecure when
迷恋一个人会让你有危机感
you compare yourself to others,
但爱情则是建立在信任的基础上
but love is built on the foundation of trust.
当你爱某个人 你在面对其他人时会更加轻松
When you love someone, you feel at ease with them,
你没有占有欲 也不会嫉妒
you’re neither possessive nor jealous.
爱情教会我们不要恐惧
Love teaches us to let go of our fears,
而对某人的迷恋会使我们陷入长久的恐惧
where as crushing on someone allows them to linger.
4.迷恋有新鲜感 爱情有熟悉感
4. A crush feels new while love feels familiar
当你迷恋某人 你总会感觉新鲜 朝气蓬勃
When you crush on someone, it often feels fresh and young.
但是随着你对某人的了解加深
But as you get to know someone better,
爱情就像 每次走进房间的熟悉感
love forms, making enter rooms that feel familiar.
就像你和最好的朋友在一起
It’s like being with your best friend,
对方知道你的内在和外在
someone who knows you inside and out,
也许比你自己还要了解你
perhaps better than you may know yourself.
当你迷恋某人
When you’re crushing on someone,
你会害羞得甚至不敢上前打招呼
you’re too shy to even make it past the welcome mat.
5.迷恋不计后果 爱情成熟稳重
5. A crush is reckless while love is mature
是否曾经有一人让你迷恋至今?
Ever had a crush on someone that made you scratch your head years later?
迷恋可能令你疑惑 鲁莽 矛盾
Crushes can be confusing, reckless, and inconsistent.
爱情则没有那么容易舍弃
Love isn’t so easily discarded though.
当爱情到来的那天 成熟也会接踵而至
When love begins, so does maturity.
你会懂得怎么示弱 如何妥协
You’ll learn how to be vulnerable, how to compromise,
怎样和另一人共同成长
and how to grow with someone.
这不仅仅是一种感情 更是一场改变人生的冒险
It’s more than just a feeling but a life changing experience.
你觉得你有没有迷恋上或是爱上别人呢?
Do you think you’re crushing or falling in love with someone?
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Thanks for watching!

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教你认清迷恋和爱情

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