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长大后的5个约会技巧

5 Dating Tips When You Are Older

你是否已经三十多岁
Are you stepping into your 30s?
但却没有过足够的约会经历
But haven’t had much dating experience.
或者如今的你已经离婚几年了
Or maybe you’ve been divorced for a few years now.
但已经准备好你的下一次邂逅
But you’re ready to enter the dating game again?
你是否认为自己是一个晚熟的人
Whether you consider yourself a late bloomer?
抑或想避免重犯约会的错误
Or want to avoid making the same dating mistakes.
这里有年龄较大者约会的五个小技巧
Here are 5 dating tips when you’re older
1.试试网上约会
1.Give online dating a try
人们总担心在网上认识奇怪的人
People often fear meeting creeps online
虽然这种现象的确存在 但时代不一样了
and while they do exist, times are changing.
随着约会软件的进步
With the evolution of dating apps,
约会网友已经很常见了
meeting people online has become more common today.
有趣的是我的男朋友就是在一个名叫OKCupid的约会软件认识的
Here’s a fun fact: my boyfriend and I met on OkCupid.
最关键的一点是
What matters most
跟某人聊天之前做好以下判断
is using good judgment when you decide to talk to someone.
你们家是否离得太远
Do you guys live too far away from each other?
你们沟通是否顺畅
Will commuting be a problem?
当你们第一次见面时
When the two of you meet up for the first time,
应该达成在公共场所见面的意愿
make sure you agree upon seeing each other in a well-lit public area,
比如咖啡厅 博物馆或是餐馆
such as a coffee shop, museum or restaurant,
避免约在晚上的公园或是你俩的家里
avoid meeting at parks at night or at each other’s homes.
这可以让面基更安全
This makes the meetup safer.
2. 你不用在约会的时候就想着结婚
2.You don’t have to date with marriage in mind.
谁说的在你二十多岁时只是享乐和放纵
Who said your 20s was only for fun and flings.
只要和你的约会对象提前约定好
As long as you and your partner agree ahead of time
你们目前都不想把约会弄得很严肃
that none of you want anything serious at the moment,
你们可以想约多久约多久
you can date casually for as long as you like.
没必要一到30岁就决定和谁过一生
There’s no need to settle down with someone by the time you turn 30,
特别是当你还没有约会够
especially if you haven’t dated much.
如果你不确定你想要什么 不要着急
If you’re not sure what you want, don’t stress about it.
约会是一个反复试错的过程
Dating is all about trial and errors.
确保让你约会对象也清楚这一点
Just make sure you make this clear with your partner
并且在这一点上达成一致
and you’re both on the same page.
3.不要让年龄差吓到你
3.Don’t let age gaps scare you away.
当你的约会对象
Maybe you feel old because your date
不知道你听的所有乐队或是你讲的笑话
doesn’t know any of the bands you listen to
已经老掉牙了时你会感觉你老了
or you make antiquated jokes no one tells anymore.
但是不要让年龄差堵住你追求爱情的路
But don’t let age gaps stand in your way of finding romance.
我和我男朋友差八岁
My boyfriend and I are eight years of heart.
当然他一开始也不想和我约会
Sure. He was reluctant at first to date me
因为他担忧我不知道我想要什么
because he was scared that I didn’t know what I want.
显然当时的他错了
He was wrong, of course.
只要你俩成年了
As long as the two of you are of legal age,
你们又很来电
if you guys have good chemistry,
年龄不过是数字罢了
age just becomes a number.
更重要的是
What’s more important is
与一个对你来说情感足够成熟的人约会
dating someone who is emotionally mature enough for you,
年龄并不决定是否成熟 经历才决定
and age doesn’t determine that, experiences do.
4.试试新事物
4.Try new things.
不要用年龄来拒绝在游乐园或时髦酒吧
Don’t use your age as an excuse to turn down dates
这些让你显老的地方的约会
at the amusement park or trendy bars that make you old.
你也不用费力保持冷静
You also don’t need to try so hard in order to stay cool.
就像一个俗语所说
As cliche as it sounds,
有人就是喜欢本真的你
someone will like you for who you are.
保持开放思维
Just keep an open mind
你不用着急拒绝那些
and don’t be so quick to turn down opportunities that
令人满意和值得的机会
can be fulfilling and worthwhile.
5.记住爱没有保质期
5.Remember love doesn’t have an expiration date.
由于社会的压力
Thanks to social norms,
当我们到达一个年龄时常常会为
we often have a pressure to get married and have kids
结婚生子而苦恼
by the time we reach a certain age,
即使婚姻会过期
as if there’s an expiration date.
但它不等于爱情
But marriage doesn’t equate to love
孩子也不能修补破损的婚姻
and having kids doesn’t save a broken relationship.
用你感到舒服的节奏生活
Go at a pace you’re comfortable with
别让他人使你对自己的生活
and don’t let anyone make you feel small
感到卑微
for where you are in life right now.
人们不都知道自己什么时候成熟
People don’t have all the answers when they grow up.
所以要做好犯错的准备同时也要享乐
So expect to make some mistakes along the way and have fun.
我们祝你在这个美妙的自我探索路上好运
We wish you the best of luck on this wonderful journey of self-discovery
你是否经验不丰富或是想再试试?
Are you inexperienced at dating or giving it another try?
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帮助更多的人
and provide our support
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Thanks for watching!

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你是否三十多岁了还没有怎么约会过?或是离婚过但已近准备好了重新拥抱爱情?这里有五个给你的小技巧

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徘徊的小孩

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