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会让你变得很棒的29件小事儿

29 easy things that make you a cool person

The other day I was out walking my puppy Fred,
前几天我出门遛我的小狗Fred
and a woman who was running, stopped to warn me
一位在跑步的女子 停下来提醒我
about some broken glass ahead.
她说 前面路上有些碎玻璃
And so I bent down to pick Fred up,
所以我弯腰抱起了Fred
As I did that, a guy stopped to warn me about the same thing.
正当我这样做时 另一个男人也停下来提醒了我
So, within, I don’t know, ten seconds, two complete strangers
所以在大约十秒内 两个陌生人停下他们的脚步
stopped to tell another stranger to be careful
告诉另一位陌生人要小心
so that her dog wouldn’t step on glass.
以免她的狗狗踩到玻璃
It made my day, and it got me thinking about random nice things
这件事让我很开心 也让我开始思考
that people do that make us feel good.
人们做的那些让我们感到舒服的零星小事
So, if you’re looking for a wholesome as hell video,
如果你想看一个非常正能量的视频
look no further; it’s about to begin.
不用再找了 我们马上开始
You know when you’re standing with a group of people
当你与一群人站一起
and there is one person who is literally
而有个人正好站你前面
standing right in front of you, blocking you out?
挡住了你
Yeah. Cheers to the person who notices
有人注意到了这一点 还往后挪一步
and takes a step back so that
你不妨感谢那个人
you’re also included just people who include others in general.
因为那个为他人着想的人照顾到了你的感受
That one person who stops and waits for you while you tie your shoe
这样的人会停下等你系鞋带
Holding the door for others,
会帮后面的人撑住门
but not when they’re too far away because then they have
但不是在别人离门还挺远的时候就撑住哦
to do that awkward little run
因为这样后面的人得尴尬地小跑过去
When someone asks you to text them when you get home safe,
会让你在安全到家时给他们发消息
and who, if you forget,
要是你忘了
they text you to make sure you actually got home.
他们还会专门发消息 确定你真到家了
It just shows that it’s not something they just said,
这正说明他们不是嘴上说说
but that they actually care.
而是真的关心你
When you tell someone something and they actually listen to you
还会在你告诉他们一些事时 认真聆听
instead of making the conversation about them
而不是只顾谈论自己
That one friend who wishes you happy birthday at midnight
会在午夜祝你生日快乐
When someone hypes up your taste in music
会对你的音乐品味赞不绝口
When someone notices a change you made to your appearance
会察觉到你形象的所有改变
When someone’s about to go to the store and asks if you want anything
要去超市时会问需要给你带什么
People who get excited when you get excited.
你开心了 他们也会跟着开心
The person who doesn’t let you stand there awkwardly when they run into someone they
偶遇熟人时 不会让你在旁边尴尬地站着
know, but rather, they introduce you to each other
而是介绍你们互相认识
When you want to take a seat but there’s no more room and someone scooches over for you
当你想坐下却没有空位 会给你挤出位置
People who actually say the nice things they think about you.
一想到你 就会谈论你美好一面
The world needs more of that.
世界需要更多这样的温暖
I know I need to get better at that
因此我清楚自己需要做得更好
When you’re telling a story or a joke and it seems like no one’s listening OR you
当你在讲一个故事或笑话 但似乎没有人在听
keep getting interrupted,
又或者你老是受到干扰时
but there’s that one person who maintains eye contact,
他们会一直看着你的眼睛
waiting for you to continue
等着你继续说
When you’re standing in line at the grocery store carrying only a couple of items, and
当你只拿了几样东西 在杂货店排队结账时
the person in front of you with their cart full let’s you go ahead of them
你前面购物车满满的人让你排到他们前面去
When somethings fallen off a shelf in the grocery store
当有东西从杂货店架子上掉下来
and you see someone picking it up
你看到有人把它们捡起来
rather than just walking past it
而不是直接只走过去
There’s something wholesome about seeing someone
还有一些你看到了会觉得暖心的事
let someone else in when there’s a traffic.
比如有人在行驶时让别人进入车流
I remember when I worked at an office job,
我记得以前在办公室上班时
those “good mornings” when I arrived
每天到办公室时 听到同事说“早上好”
and the “goodbyes” when I left
离开时和他们说“再见”
were always a nice start and end to the day.
总是象征着一天美好的开始和结束
Now that I tell this to you, I notice there’s a lot of “acknowledging people’s presence”.
现在我告诉你 我发现很多人会“关心他人”
Perhaps we do too little of that.
或许我们做的还太少了
Offering help or simply asking if they’re okay
就像在街上或任何情况下
when you see someone struggling with
我们看到有人正为什么事而苦恼
something on the street or in any situation.
去帮帮忙 或者就单纯问一问他们还好吗
My sister told me this little story:
我姐姐给我讲了个小故事
recently where she was out about
最近她有一次出门的时候
and she spotted an old lady who was looking very lost.
看到了一位看起来很迷茫的老太太
It turned out she’d forgotten where she lived,
结果是她已经忘了自己住哪
and so my sister offered to walk her home
于是我姐姐主动提出陪她走回家
People who bring you snacks, food… anything to eat
“关心他人”的人还会给你带点心 食物…任何吃的
When someone remembers small details of you
会记得你某些瞬间不经意说起的
that you’d mentioned casually at some point
关于自己的小细节
When someone smiles at your dog
会对你的狗狗微笑
When someone says “I’d like for you to join”
会告诉你“我想要你加入”
instead of “you can join if you want”
而不是“你想加入就加入吧”
Here’s the difference, right?
这不一样的 对吧?
This is something that I thought of recently and that’s
还有一件最近我常想起的事
when someone actually circles back to you on something
那就是真的会有人再来找你
you recommended them when they asked.
问起你以前推荐给他们的东西
Like if someone asks for a song recommendation, and you give them one,
就像有人请你推荐一首歌 你推荐了
and later they get back to you
然后 他们会回来跟你讨论这首歌
on it because they actually listened to it.
因为他们真的听了
You know, people who are patient with you.
你知道 “关心他人”的人还会耐心待你
Like, I remember in school,
就像 我记得在学校的时候
there were certain teachers who would explain something once
一些老师只会给你解释一遍知识
and who hated having explained it again
特别讨厌再给学生解释一遍
and then there were those teachers who were just as enthusiastic
也有的老师非常乐意给你解释第五遍
the fifth time they had to explain something
愿意不厌其烦地一次次重复
People who hype you up when they know you’ve been struggling with something
当你挣扎着去完成一件事 他们也不吝夸奖
and then you finally get it right.
直到你终于在最后取得成功
Like, let’s say you’re playing golf with your friends and you can rarely hit the ball,
就像 假设你和朋友玩高尔夫 而你老击不中球
Everyone just gets all hyped up
每个人都为你欢呼雀跃
That’s some wholesome stuff right there.
那真是让人暖心的事儿
If you’re not thanking uber drivers, waiters and anyone
如果你还不对Uber司机 服务员
who’s offering you a service, you better
和那些正为你服务的人说谢谢
start right now!
那现在开始吧!
See, to survive, we need to eat, drink, and sleep.
你看 为了生存 我们得吃 喝 睡
And shelter.
还要有居所
To be cool we can give someone a smile,
为了变得很棒 我们可以对别人微笑
say hi, please and thank you.
说一声你好 请 和谢谢
Actually, that smile may make someone’s entire day
真的 一个微笑可能会让一些人开心一整天
or even save their life.
甚至可能拯救他们的生命
By the way, I don’t do all of these things all the time.
说起来 我并没有一直这样做
I don’t always give someone a smile.
我并不总是对别人微笑
I don’t always know there’s someone not being included.
并不总是察觉可能忽视了某人
And I don’t always circle back when someone gives me recommendation.
也并不总是对别人推荐给我的东西进行反馈
You know, I try to, but in no way am I perfect.
我努力做了 但做不到完美
This is just as much a reminder for myself
因此这期视频不光是对你们的建议
as it is for you.
也同样是对我自己的提醒

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提醒你做做这29件为他人着想的小事,让自己成为一个更棒的人!

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