A little mystery always keeps things more interesting.
That’s why introverts are one of a kind.
With their unique insights,
it’s no surprise that many people fall for them
But how do we know if their feelings are mutual?
Here are 13 subtle signs an introvert likes you
1. They actually pick up the phone or call you.
This is especially true for restrained introverts.
This type of introvert is reserved
and slowly opens up to others
If this sounds like your crush, slow and steady wins their heart.
Preferring to think before they speak,
texts are more of their speed
and they often avoid phone calls.
But if they make an exception for you, that’s incredibly special.
2. They invite you into their personal space.
Introverts like their space,
especially after a long busy week.
But if they make plans with you to go over to their place
whether it’s for dinner or a movie,
it means that they would prefer your company over their solitude.
3. 又或者 他们接受你的邀请出去玩
3. Or they accept your invitation and go out.
认识新朋友 进行社交 可能会让人感到害怕
Meeting new faces and socializing can be intimidating
especially for social introverts
They often enjoy the comfort of their own home
and don’t go out of their way to attend parties.
So pay close attention to just how willing
they are to leave their comfort zone just to see you!
4. They remember details about you!
Speaking of close attention, introverts make natural detectives.
Do they know you like the back of their hand
when you’ve only mentioned things once?
If they remember your birthday,
your favorite things, your favorite Kpop group
and notice all the small details about you,
there’s a good chance that they might have feelings for you.
5. They don’t shy away from personal topics.
Thinking introverts have a knack for being deep and reflective.
This makes it easy to be mesmerized by them in good conversation.
When they talk about sensitive topics,
whether it’s about their tough childhood or losing a loved one,
it’s because they also enjoy what you offer to the table.
6. 时间久了 他们就会变得更浪漫
6. They become more romantic overtime.
With extroverts, the flame burns the most at the very beginning,
but introverts operate on their own clock.
When it comes to bonding, their affection for you grows stronger overtime.
Introverts are slow at opening up,
and aren’t always the most direct,
So the more your connection strengthens,
the more affectionate they become.
You’ll never have to worry about the excitement dying out.
7. 他们会为你保守秘密 也会分享他们的秘密
7. They keep your secrets and share theirs, too.
Winning the trust of introverts is often a slow-down.
You must learn to sway before you tango.
That’s why it’s so big when they’ve learned to keep your secrets,
and tell you theirs.
8. They always keep in touch with you
This can be hard for them, especially for anxious introverts.
他们容易尴尬 极度害羞 所以常常选择独处
Self-conscious and painfully shy, they often seek solitude,
but sometimes the anxiety doesn’t go away even when they are alone.
If you catch one who makes an effort to stay in touch,
it means that they feel comfortable around you,
and that’s a plus in their book.
9. They show you their collections.
It’s nerve-wracking for introverts to tell them how you feel.
So they might resort to their favorite poetry
or music collection to do all the talking.
Yes, it’s cheesy,
but you have to admit it’s also really cute.
Bonus point if they show you
something that is sentimental or personal
like a journal entry or a secret art piece, too.
10. They’re loyal to you.
Introverts make great partners because once they like you,
they’ll become protective.
Although they don’t like conflict,
they won’t shy away from it if it means that they’re looking after you
11. 他们付出更多 愿意不远万里去见你
11. They go the extra mile, both literally and figuratively.
They enjoy their space, so long distance relationships don’t scare them away.
If they’re always checking on you
and go out of their way to do you favours,
they definitely have a soft spot for you.
12. They give you feedback.
We all get a little frustrated along the way
when we try to achieve our dreams
But you can always count on an introvert to offer great advice.
If they always catch you when you’re falling,
you’re a star in their pocket.
13. They step out of their comfort zone.
Introverts are wired differently than extroverts
and prefer to watch on the sidelines before jumping in.
But when an introvert likes you,
they’re willing to make a move and try something new.
Do any of these signs resonate with you?
Do you love an introvert?
I know I love an introvert.
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And thanks for watching!!