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10个表示内向者喜欢你的标志

10 Signs an Introvert Likes You

内向者通常都是很难理解的团体
Introversion is an often misunderstood term.
因为人们过多与害羞联系一起
because people relate it so much to shyness
事实上这并不遵循“一刀切”的定义
It actually doesn’t go by a “one size fits all” definition.
因为它可以被分成四种不同的类型
as it can be categorized into four different types
这四种类型的内向型人格可以依据各自的特性被大概的描述
The four types of introverts can be vaguely described by the traits
社会
Social
思维
Thinking
和焦虑以及抑郁
and anxious and anxious restrained.
交友内向型人格
Social Introverts
人们认为交友内向型人格不喜欢社交是错误的
The belief that social introverts dislike socialization is false.
他们相当地喜欢和小组里令他们觉得容易相处的
Rather, they prefer to socialize in small groups of people they feel compatible with
而且令他们感到舒适的周围人社交
and comfortable around.
例如亲密的朋友或者他们的家人
Such as close friends or their family circle.
因此 他们并不是完全的害羞或者冷漠
Thus, they’re not exactly shy or reserved.
思维型内向
Thinking Introverts
这是一些在思考过程中保持内向型人格的人
These are people who remain introverts in their thinking process
导致他们变得更加深思而且自闭
causing them to be more thoughtful and self-reflective
举个例子,他们可以在自己梦想的世界中迷失自我
For instance, they can get lost in their own dream world.
沉浸在创造与想象中
Drowned in creativity and imagination.
焦虑型内向
Anxious Introverts
焦虑型内向患者喜欢自己一个人因为他们觉得不舒适或者自己格格不入在社交聚会中
Anxious introverts prefer to be alone because they feel uncomfortable or unsuitable during social gatherings
因为他们对自己的社交技能不自信
as they’re not confident about their social skills.
因此,他们更喜欢选择独处
Consequently, they are likely to choose solitude
但是有时甚至连独处都可能未必减少他们的焦虑
but sometimes even solitude may not reduce their anxiety
这种内向型人格趋于通过反复思考一些他们在一个特定的社交环境中可能做错的地方来使他们的焦虑降到最低
These introverts tend to minimize anxiety by ruminating on things that could’ve gone wrong had they been in a particular social context.
谨慎型内向人格
Restrained Introverts
这是愿意花时间在他们所做的每一件事情中的人
These are people who take time in everything they do
无论是社交或者采取行动
whether it’s socializing or springing up in action.
他们可能看上去很慢因为他们在说话或者行动前总想得更加地谨慎
They may seem slow since they think more carefully before they speak or act
而且天性上比积极的类型的人更消极
and are more passive in nature than the active types
现在你可能在你生活中遇见一个内向型人格的人而且通过识别以上的其中一个类型把他归类
Now, you’ve probably come across an introvert in your life and labeled him or her as so, by identifying a trait that fits in one of the above types.
那么 你怎样知道一个内向型人格的人是否喜欢你
So, how do you know whether an introvert likes you or not?
第一
One
主动跨出第一步
Making the first move
总的来说
Generally,
内向型人格的人不会在社交环境中跨出第一步
introverts don’t make the first move in a social context.
但是如果你发现一个内向型人格的人正在积极地做出努力来跟你聊天或者做出手势想吸引你的注意力
but if you find that an introvert is actively making an effort to talk to you or making a gesture to grab your attention
你可以打赌他或者她喜欢你
you can bet he or she likes you
第二
Two
开放
Opening up
内向型人格的人不容易放开自我
Introverts are not easy to crack
需要花费时间让他们从他们的保护壳出来和放开自己
It takes time for them to come out of their shell and open up about themselves
然而
However
如果一个内向型人格的人跟你谈起很多关于自己的事情
if an introvert is telling you a lot about themselves
那么你肯定就是他们想要联系交往的人
you are definitely someone they want to connect with
第三
Three
观察
Observing
因为内向型人格的人是好的观察者,他们不会很快地结交朋友或者把人们纳入他们的交际圈
As introverts are good observers, they’re not quick in making friends or including people in their social circle
他们花时间去了解他人然后才从中选择人作为他们的朋友
They take their time getting to know people and later choose them as friends
如果你发现一个内向型人格的人正在和你建立良好的人际关系
If you find that an introvert is building a good relationship with you
这意味这他或者她想选择你
it means he or she wants to be close to you
第四
Four
邀请你进去他们的私人领域
Inviting you into their personal space
内向型人格的人喜欢花时间独处来深思自己的想法和情绪
Introverts like spending time in solitude to reflect on themselves, their thoughts and emotions
如果你被邀请进入他们的私人空间和被请求与他们一起相处
If you are invited into their personal space and asked to spend time with them
毫无疑问他们享受你的陪伴
they no doubt enjoy your company
第五
Five
谈起他们的个人爱好
Talking about personal topics
你自然不会发现一个内向型人格的人渴望私人对话
You wouldn’t normally find an introvert engaging in a personal conversation
反而
Instead
大多数他们的谈话都是很平常的
most of their conversations are generic
但是如果你遇见一个内向型人格的人告诉你他们的喜恶,兴趣,爱好,想法和目标
but if you come across an introvert that tells you about their likes and dislikes, interests, hobbies, ideologies and goals
这意味着他们喜欢你到一种他们觉得做一些不符合他们性格的事都很舒服的程度
that means they like you to the extent where they feel comfortable doing things that are considered out of character
第六
Six
展示特别的关心
Showing extra care
内向型人格的人很看重人际关系
Introverts place high values on relationships
他们通过交流和行动来表现他们对朋友或重要的他人的在乎关心和同情
They show a lot of care, concern, and empathy towards people whom they consider friends or significant others through their communications and behaviors
如果一个内向型人格的人正在对你有额外的注意
If an introvert is paying extra attention to you
那么,他们将你视作他们亲密朋友圈的一部分
then, they consider you as part of their close circle of friends
第七
Seven
跨出额外的一公里
Going the extra mile
内向型人格的人非常温暖和乐于助人
Introverts are very warm and helping people
如果你发现一个内向型人格的人在努力尝试为你做一些你没有向他们提出需要帮助的事
If you find an introvert trying to do things for you without you asking for help
你是他或者他真正喜欢的人
you are someone he or she really likes
第八
Eight
时常保持联系
Constantly keeping in touch
内向型人格的人甚至能辨别亲密和私人的朋友
Even introverts distinguish between close and casual friends
如果他们把你当成他们日常生活的一部分
If they keep you a part of their daily lives
那么你是对他们而言特别的人
then you are someone special to them
第九
Nine
展示秘密
Revealing secrets
每个人都拥有一个自己的小秘密
Everyone has a secret they keep to themselves
内向型人格的人格外在乎他们分享秘密的人
Introverts especially are very careful about whom they reveal their secrets to
可以是他们允许你阅读他们的日记
It can be something like allowing you to read their diary
或者跟你分享他们过去的重要的方面
or sharing and important aspect of their past
如果一个内向型人格的人允许你知道他们生活的私密部分
If an introvert is allowing you to know a secret part of their life
那么你就是他们非常信任而且喜欢的人
you are someone whom they really trust and like
第十
Ten
给予回复
Giving Feedback
内向型人格的人并不会经常给他人意见或者反馈
Introverts don’t usually give others advise or feedback
因为他们将更多的观点保留在他们心中
as they keep most of their opinions to themselves
但是如果你发现一个内向型人格的人给你诚实的建议或者反馈
but if you find that an introvert is giving you honest advise or feedback
他们肯定关心你且你会很幸福
they’re definitely concerned about you and your wellbeing.
这是内向型人格的人喜欢你的十个信号
And those are ten signs an introvert likes you
这些特征是否听上去好像某个你认识的人吗
Do these traits sound like someone you know?
你认为自己是一个内向型人格的人吗
Do you consider yourself an introvert?
如果是这样,你可以将自己与这些特征联系起来吗
and if so, can you relate to these traits?
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