Mistake number one that older guys make
trying to look young is just that,
they’re trying to look young instead of embracing their age.
Here’s the deal is that you don’t want to look young,
what you want to look is healthy,
you want to look strong, you want to look successful.
So, there is a 2018 study published
in the Journal of Science Advances,
and they actually studied online dating ideal ages.
For men, what you do you think the ideal age was?
No.It was 50 years old.
So my point is, it’s not about you looking young,
it’s about you looking good for your age,
you looking the best that you can with what you got.
In today’s video jets ten mistakes older guys make trying to look young.
And make sure you stick around to the end of this video
because I’m going to talk about that study again where they
talk about peak attractiveness age for women.
Guys it was brutal.
So the next mistake older guys make trying to look young
is they can’t let go of their baseball caps.
Guys look to upgrade your headwear.
If you’re going to support your favorite team, wear your team colors,
but guys, look for situations where you can upgrade your headwear.
If it’s hot outside, the sun is going to be in your face,
then look for a hat maybe a Panama,
something with a wide brim.
If it’s in the winter months, then all of a sudden bring in
maybe an insulated flat cap that’s going to have,
you know, this one right here turns out and covers the ears.
Look for something that functions, look to upgrade your headwear game.
Now, I know a lot of you guys are wearing that baseball caps,
you don’t want to deal with your hair.
That takes me to the next point, which is
to level up your hair game by going to
the best stylist in your area.
Maybe even going to the same barber for years,
maybe you haven’t been to a barber for years.
In any case, guys, take some pride in your hair,
have fun go get a new style.
You’ve got longer hair, try a shorter hairstyle.
If you’re losing hair if you’ve got thinning hair here,
consider shaving it off, going for a different more dominant look.
don’t want to go with the bald look?
Then look at your options.
Maybe you want to find a treatment that’s going to help it grow back.
Maybe you want to look at a hair transplant.
The point is take control of your hair.
So the next mistake older guys make trying to look young,
they try to keep up with those twenty year olds.
They’re going out drinking all night,
partying all night, and guess what?
Guys,time is going to catch up with you,
your body needs more rest,
you’ve got to take care of your body.
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So, the next mistake older guys make trying to look young,
is they wear their running shoes everywhere.
Guys,invest in some good casual footwear.
So, you can go with a simple white sneaker.
Notice the difference here?
This is a huge upgrade.
Okay,you don’t want to deal with this getting dirty?
Then go with a simple black,
maybe bring in something a little bit more stylish.
Notice how the silhouette all of a sudden changed on this?
We’ve got a perforated leather.
In any case, tons of options out there for casual shoes,
just don’t be wearing those running shoes.
Guys, they’re for running.
And if you’re going to be running, sure, wear them,
but for other situations look to upgrade your shoes.
So the next mistake older guys make,
wearing the wrong type of jeans.
So, when you’re in your 20’s, you’re in great shape.
You can get away with a lot of things.
You can wear things that honestly don’t look that great,
but because you’ve got a killer body, you’re going to be fine,
but as you age, your body oftentimes, well,
it’s just not like it was in its 20’s,
so you need to make sure that you’re wearing jeans
that work for your body type.
Now for most older guys this is going to
mean no skinny jeans and definitely no baggy jeans.
Now, when it comes to rhinestones on those back pockets,
I’m going to say probably avoid that.
When it comes down to baggy jeans that are sagging down
past your buttocks, please do not do that.
When it comes to distressed jeans,
I think some guys can pull it off if they know
what they’re doing, but that’s more for the fashion forward.
So, I’m going to have a little bit of fun with this next mistake.
When I was 19, I wore this graphic tee,
it said, “Men make the strangest request”.
To this day, a buddy of mine, his wife still remembers me wearing this
and she did not have a favorable impression on me for a decade.
The point is if you’re an older guy trying to look young
wearing these graphic tees with funny sayings,
the issue here is what is your real goal and message in life.
Are you trying to achieve greatness,
you trying to get that company off the ground?
Are you trying to go out there and be the best man you can
be to be a great father to set an example?
Here is the issue, when you wear something like that,
you are not sending the message you want to send.
And guys, graphic tees in general have been overplayed,
they don’t work for most body types.
You would look so much better with a nice casual button-down.
And, speaking of shirts, know when to tuck them in.
When you’re young you can kind of get away with it,
but, again, when you get older
there’s expectations that you understand when are shirts should tucked in
and when it should be worn untucked.
Dress shirts are always tucked in.
When it comes down to other casual button-downs,
I know that a lot of times you’ve worn that untucked,
but look to see how would it look
if you tuck in that casual button-down.
Now, with polos those are oftentimes going to have a straight bottom,
but you want to make sure you buy a shirt
that’s made to be worn untucked
that isn’t too long or too short.
The easiest way to figure this out,
I’ve got you covered right here. I’ve got lengths of
what should be tucked, what should be untucked.
Now, getting back to that first mistake,
your goal isn’t to look young, your goal is to
look healthy, your goal is to look successful.
But, what does it mean to look successful?
Now,when you go back and you look at
the research from that 2018 study on online dating,
what you’ll notice is that men,
we focused in on one thing, age.
women, they focused in on multiple variables.
So,men, we focus in on getting a partner that’s younger than us.
The optimum age in case you’re wondering, 18.
Yes,I know brutal,
but that’s what the research clearly showed.
Women on the other hand, they’re
looking at a number of other cues.
They’re smarter, they realized, okay, if I want a mate
that’s actually going to work for me and what I’m looking for,
I need to look at the whole picture.
So, looking at all of this, the biggest mistake that older guys make
is they’re still thinking like they did in their youth.
They’re focusing in on one thing.
Instead of saying you know what?
It’s a bigger puzzle, it’s multiple things
and I should not only focus in on my health, on my appearance,
but also on the way I present myself and full picture.
So, what video to watch next?
Well, guys, we didn’t talk about body language mistakes,
but I do in this video, so go check it out
and make sure that you don’t make any of these mistakes.