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So, you’ve got your eye on that cutie.
Your heart beats fast whenever you see them.
They’re constantly on your mind.
And you want to get to know
every little detail about them.
You think to yourself,
“Crap! Not another emotional roller coaster!
Why can’t I just be a robot?
It’s easy to catch feelings when it’s a sudden jolt.”
You’re definitely hooked.
But the next question is “Are they into me?”
Psych2go here to share 10 ways
to read someone’s body language
to tell if they’re attracted to you.
1. Large pupils.
Our people’s dilated when we’re in dim settings,
or when we see someone
who stimulates a strong reaction out of us.
don’t put them in a dark alleyway to test this,
because that would be very creepy.
2. Body lean towards you.
When somebody is attracted to you,
they have a tendency to lean towards you,
as a way of paying more attention
and get closer to you.
This isn’t the case,
however, if you’re both in a loud room,
where you have to shout to hear each other.
3. Feet are pointed towards you.
Our feet are like a compass,
meaning when someone points their feet towards you,
they’re not going anywhere else anytime soon.
You can be sure
they want to stick around longer to be with you,
unless their feet are glued to the floor,
which would be rather unfortunate.
4. Walks beside you.
When we’re attracted to someone,
we tend to make sure our walking pace matches theirs.
Being in sync with someone step by step
indicates that they want to be by your side,
and not create distance between the two of you,
which would happen if they walked ahead or behind you.
5. Grazes your arm.
If somebody is attracted to you,
they’ll use any excuse in the book to touch you,
even if they slightly graze your arm.
This shows that they want to make sure
you know that they’re close to you,
and then you’re also paying attention to them.
Don’t mix this need to touch with attention seekers,
because they are just being needy.
6. Holds your hand.
If they’re reaching out to hold your hand,
then it indicates that they’re into you.
When your fingers are closely
and securely interlocked with theirs,
it shows that they want to protect you
and be there for you.
But if you’re reaching out for their hand
and they pull it back,
then they’re just not that into you.
People tend to raise their eyebrows
when they’re intrigued.
So chances are
if they raise their eyebrows at you,
you’d be sure that they’re interested in
what you have to say,
unless they’re just trying to
get their facial exercises done for the day.
8. Good standing posture.
When somebody is attracted to you,
they usually adopt a good standing posture
with the more physically appealing,
which will attract your attention to them.
Men, for instance,
tends to stand taller to demonstrate their masculinity.
If the person slinks back
or makes themselves smaller towards you,
then I’m afraid they just don’t see you that way.
9. Touches their face and hair.
Men tend to touch their facial hair,
and women often touch their hair
to attract attention to them.
When someone touches their face and hair in front of you,
it means that they care about
how they look around you.
10. They look back at you after you leave.
If when you part ways
and they look back at you after you leave,
then it shows that you’re still on their mind,
and that they want to stay with you a little longer.
This one might be hard to read,
especially since your back will be turned towards them.
But maybe if you are both into each other,
you will both be caught in the act.
What are your experiences of telling
if someone is into you?
Leave a comment down below.